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Hey!! A friend of mine is raising money for their top surgery. If the amount needed is raised in time they can have surgery in august! If not they have to delay it, sadly. Please feel free to support them! It would be really helpful♡♡♡
Also please share it to reach as many people as people <3
- english version below - Herzlichen Dank, dass du auf di… Bea-Lou Fin Grzebatzki braucht deine Unterstützung für Gemeinsam für Lou's
“You know how every once in a while you do something and the little voice inside says ‘There. That’s it. That’s why you’re here’ … and you get a warm glow in your heart because you know it’s true? Do more of that.”
— Jacob Nordby
I need this more often
anakin angrily jerking off to thoughts of obi-wan criticising him 🙂↕️🙂↕️
The Fallen Angel (1847) by Alexandre Cabanel vs Anakin Skywalker: Revenge of the Sith (2005) Dir. George Lucas
Anakin Skywalker Would Have Been a Terrible Father — Even If He Never Became Darth Vader
One of the most persistent fandom headcanons is the “soft dad Anakin” AU. The version where the war ends, he stays on the Light Side, Order 66 never happens, and he becomes this fiercely loving, devoted, protective father to Luke and Leia. The version where he heals, goes to therapy (in spirit if not literally), and pours all that intensity into healthy family life.
It’s a comforting fantasy.
It also fundamentally misunderstands who Anakin Skywalker is in the prequel era.
Let’s start with the text itself.
"Anakin disregarded the moral point of the tale, and instead fixated on a glimmer of hope he found in it. He knew it was dangerous, but he was willing to give anything to discover this mythological power so that Padmé might cheat death. He would willingly lay down his own life, lose their child, and destroy everything else he held dear to save Padmé from his mother's fate - and save himself from enduring a life without her. In exchange for Padmé's life, he was prepared to watch the whole galaxy burn."
In the RoTS novelization, Anakin reflects that he would “willingly lay down his own life, lose their child, and destroy everything else he held dear to save Padmé from his mother's fate.” He is prepared, explicitly, to sacrifice his unborn child if it means Padmé lives.
That’s not subtext. That’s not interpretation. That’s canon interior monologue.
And that alone tells you everything you need to know about what kind of father he would have been.
1. He Does Not Prioritize His Child. He Prioritizes His Attachment.
A good parent prioritizes the safety and welfare of their child above all else. That doesn’t mean they love their spouse less. It means that once you become a parent, your responsibility shifts.
Anakin’s does not.
He is willing to let his child die if that is the price of keeping Padmé alive. Not because he carefully weighted two impossible choices. Not because he was forced into a moral dilemma. But because, in his mind, the child is secondary.
The core of Anakin’s fear is not “my child will grow up without a mother.” It’s “I cannot survive losing Padmé.”
His driving motivation is not fatherhood. It’s abandonment trauma.
He is still the nine-year-old slave who lost Shmi. He is still the traumatized child who never learned emotional regulation. And instead of processing that, he transfers the entire weight of his psychological stability onto Padmé.
That is not the foundation of healthy parenting. That is emotional dependency.
If your child grows up knowing, consciously or unconsciously, that their father would have traded their life for their mother’s? That does something to a person. It breeds insecurity. It breeds resentment. It creates a hierarchy of love.
Anakin doesn’t see it that way. But children feel these things.
2. His Love Is Possessive, Not Selfless.
Anakin doesn’t love gently. He loves intensely, obsessively, desperately.
He doesn’t want “a family” in the abstract. He wants a nurturer. He wants stability. He wants someone to fill the hole left by Shmi. He wants something he can call his — something that cannot leave him.
That is why his love is so volatile.
In Star Wars: Episode II – Attack of the Clones, he confesses admiration for dictatorship. Padmé laughs it off. When he massacres the Tusken Raiders — “not just the men, but the women and the children too” — she rationalizes it as trauma.
This is a man who responds to grief with annihilation.
And she marries him days later.
In Star Wars: Episode III – Revenge of the Sith, when Obi-Wan confronts Padmé with the truth about the Jedi Temple massacre (thousands dead — adults, teenagers, children, infants), her response is denial. She already knows he has killed children before. She chooses not to integrate that reality.
When she says, “There’s still good in him,” it does not land as clear-eyed hope. It lands as a continuation of years of deliberate blindness.
This is not a relationship built on truth. It’s built on projection and fantasy.
They love versions of each other that don’t fully exist.
Now imagine raising children inside that.
3. Anakin Is Jealous by Nature.
This is the part fandom doesn’t like to talk about.
Anakin gets jealous of Obi-Wan. He gets jealous of Padmé’s political commitments. He gets jealous of the Jedi Council. He resents anything that divides loyalty.
He wants exclusive emotional primacy.
Now introduce a child.
A baby demands attention. A toddler monopolizes affection. A child often becomes the center of a mother’s emotional world.
Do we honestly believe that pre-fall Anakin — who already struggles with insecurity and possessiveness — would respond to that without difficulty?
He might adore his child. He might be tender in moments. But if he ever perceived that Padmé loved the child more? Or that her focus shifted permanently?
That would hit directly at his abandonment wound.
And Anakin does not handle abandonment well.
The same man who slaughtered an entire Tusken village because he lost his mother is not someone whose jealousy would remain mild or well-regulated.
4. Trauma Bond, Not Stable Partnership
Their relationship is forged in adrenaline and secrecy.
The Clone Wars heighten everything. Forbidden love. Battlefield reunions. Intensity. Passion. Grand gestures.
But remove the war.
Remove the urgency.
Remove the “we could die tomorrow.”
What remains?
Two people who never truly learned to know each other outside crisis.
Padmé defines herself by service to the Republic. Anakin defines himself by the need to protect and possess the one person who makes him feel safe.
That is not sustainable long-term.
Even in a universe where Anakin never falls to the Dark Side, something would eventually rupture. His neediness would clash with her duty. Her compartmentalization would clash with his demand for emotional centrality.
Children raised in unstable emotional ecosystems feel that tension.
5. “Soft Dad Anakin” Ignores the Psychological Core of His Character
Fandom loves redemption through domesticity.
But parenthood does not automatically heal trauma.
It often amplifies it.
Anakin is:
Unprocessed in his grief
Terrified of loss
Prone to black-and-white thinking
Comfortable with violence when emotionally triggered
Deeply possessive
Emotionally dependent on one person
Those traits don’t disappear because you put a baby in his arms.
Without profound inner work — the kind he was never shown doing — those traits would bleed into fatherhood.
Maybe not as physical violence. But as:
Emotional volatility
Overprotection that borders on suffocation
Favoritism
Jealousy
Conditional warmth tied to loyalty
And children are exquisitely sensitive to that.
6. Padmé’s Enabling Matters
This is not solely an Anakin problem.
Padmé repeatedly chooses denial.
She ignores his authoritarian statements. She rationalizes his massacre of non-combatants. She lies to Obi-Wan after the Temple slaughter. She attempts to run away with him rather than confront what he has done.
She does not meaningfully challenge his darkest impulses until it is too late.
In a “happy AU,” unless Padmé fundamentally changes as well, that enabling pattern continues.
And children raised in households where one parent enables the other’s instability learn dangerous lessons about love.
7. The Hard Truth
Anakin Skywalker could have been loving.
He could have been affectionate.
He could have been playful.
He could have been fiercely protective.
But loving does not equal healthy.
Devotion does not equal stability.
Intensity does not equal safety.
The tragedy of Anakin is not that he lacked love. It’s that his love was warped by fear and possessiveness.
Without confronting that core wound — without dismantling his obsession with control and fear of abandonment — he would not magically transform into a perfectly regulated father just because the war ended.
The Dark Side did not invent those flaws.
It magnified them.
And if we take the text seriously — including his own admission that he would sacrifice his child to save Padmé — then the uncomfortable conclusion is this:
Anakin Skywalker was not built, at that stage of his life, to be a good father.
Not because he was incapable of love.
But because he loved in a way that consumes.
And children should never have to compete with that.
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Portrait of Fryderyk in Shifting Light by Richard Siken
— Faith Alexandria, Fears of the Heart
When you don't do therapy and try to cope with other things
people often forget that characters lie all the time and while the concept of big dick ilya is fun and sexy, it is infinitely funnier to imagine shane, who is intimately familiar with ilya’s respectable six inch cock, pulling out a tape measure when he gets home after the infamous “nine inch dick” text exchange, measuring out nine inches, and just thinking to himself
this fucking guy
@saltypendeja reaping what he sows... the conses of his quences
Commonly Confused Words (4)
phased vs. fazed phased is typically followed by in or out, used to mean when something is introduced or being stopped slowly: “The company has slowly been phasing in the new software.” fazed refers to the state of being bothered by something; usually used in its negative form: “She remained unfazed.”
discrete vs. discreet discrete is usually used in a mathematical context and means to separate: “It is an ongoing process rather than a discrete event.” discreet means something inconspicuous or subtle: “I want this handled discreetly.”
ascent vs. assent ascent refers to climbing something: “She begun the ascent at dawn.” assent is a formal way to refer to agreeing: “The consumer needs to assent to the privacy agreement.”
its vs it’s its is the possessive form of the pronoun it: “The dog laid on its back.” it’s = it + is/was: “It’s not possible!”
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hollanov + gilbert baker's original pride flag
i used to strongly resist this reading but i've actually come around to the idea that shane is imagining ilya jerking off in the shower so he can get off with rose, rather than the shower scene being something that actually happens. and i've come around to this reading because i think it's soooooo gut-twistingly angsty to imagine that shane doesn't let himself imagine the two of them together. he doesn't get to think about ilya kissing him or touching him or moving inside him because that's over. he doesn't get to have that again. this is what he has now. and he can go somewhere else in his head if he has to, he can let himself fantasize about ilya because he's weak, but he has to think about ilya furious, cold, punishing. untouchable. because shane left, and he can't go back, and he knows now that ilya wouldn't want him even if he did.
Im crying but it's so accurate
i used to strongly resist this reading but i've actually come around to the idea that shane is imagining ilya jerking off in the shower so he can get off with rose, rather than the shower scene being something that actually happens. and i've come around to this reading because i think it's soooooo gut-twistingly angsty to imagine that shane doesn't let himself imagine the two of them together. he doesn't get to think about ilya kissing him or touching him or moving inside him because that's over. he doesn't get to have that again. this is what he has now. and he can go somewhere else in his head if he has to, he can let himself fantasize about ilya because he's weak, but he has to think about ilya furious, cold, punishing. untouchable. because shane left, and he can't go back, and he knows now that ilya wouldn't want him even if he did.
Im crying but it's so accurate
With Pride Month underway, it’s time for another Share Your Pride photo drive. As is now tradition, we’re offering up some cash prizes as a
With Pride Month underway, it’s time for another Share Your Pride photo drive. As is now tradition, we’re offering up some cash prizes as a bonus. The funding for the prizes are proudly powered by Queeromattic, the collection of queers within Automattic.
Isn't this dangerous? Especially in USA and other countries who aren't good with rights.
starting a collection of stupid fucking tshirts that i think ilya would wear
stupid shirts ilya would buy for himself
stupid shirts ilya would buy for shane
more stupid ilya shirts
even more stupid ilya shirts
y’know what I want to see more of with whumpees?
Dissociation
like most of the Whump I see has whumpees who remember everything clearly and are always crying and shi.
but what abt whumpees who dissociate heavily? Whenever they were tortured or whatever they mentally checked out of the situation, their mind somewhere far away from the pain.
and this carries over to when they’ve been rescued. Say Caretaker accidentally triggers them and instead of crying their eyes glaze over, mind already somewhere far away where they can’t be hurt
idk it’s just something interesting
