Master's slave

I'm Master's toy and canvas to use as he pleases. My postings are of things I like. Since it's always his choice on how uses me, I also post things I don't like but I know one day he may demand it. Either way my answer will always be "Yes Master"

[disgustingdegenerate]

yes i’m so fucking jealous of them, it’s so unfair that I haven’t found the one willing to turn me into a human urinal. I dated this guy for 4 years and after 3 I asked him to, but he said it was disgusting, safe to say we broke up eventually. I haven’t been able to open up to a rl partner about it ever since. 

I did talk about it and shared piss videos with my girl bff though, she didn’t like it at first but overtime I’ve accidentally corrupted her into becoming a  toilet slut herself, so I’d say it’s going well! I’ve been coming to terms with the fact that I am a urinal and tight hole for guys to use, so thank you for helping me through that <3

I’m still a bit hesitant to leave anon but we’re mutuals and I always masturbate to your blog. also European guys are super hot I wish you could use me really fucking bad. there. said it

It's always such a shame to hear about how common it is that there are so many like you out there who craves being used as urinals, yet cannot get the chance.

You cannot really force anyone to like something, although you can help others unlock an interest in it. So while it is sad that you couldn't get your ex to use you like you craved, it's nice to hear you could help your friend realize how fun being a piss slut is 🙂

I think you're doing everything right by working on yourself and accepting that you want to be pissed on and used. That's always the most important step.

Perhaps your next step for 2025 is a trip to Europe. It's a place of many diverse cultures and places, so you might want to sample several of them, and perhaps some piss too 😏. May I suggest starting with Sweden? 😉

Anyway, thank you for the kind words. It's always nice knowing that people get off to the filth I post. And since we're mutuals, you can rest assured that I appreciate what you post as well 🙂

[confirmedmisogynist-deactivated]

Some ways of keeping her in her place.

1. Don’t allow her to wear clothes at certain times.

2. Eat before her, don’t allow her to eat before you’re finished.

3. Randomly grope her.

4. Deliberatly make a mess then make her clean it up.

5. Interrupt her during her daily tasks to service you sexually.

6. Never use her real name, just refer to her as girl or woman.

7. Show her degrading images of women.

8. Make her listen to hypnosis before bed.

9. Make it so she has to ask permission to do basic bodily functions like peeing.

10. Never let her go anywhere without your approval and go with her every where as often as you can.

11. Order her food for her without her choice.

12. Just after she’s finished her make up , fuck her face until she has to start again. 

13. Take away her bank cards, her passport, her driver’s licence and lock them away. 

14. Never give her a key to your house so she is stuck indoors. 

15. Go out with your friends, even if she has made plans. 

16. Detail every single inch of her life, make schedules for clothes, meals, cleaning. 

Be creative, there are so many ways to make a woman realise her place. 

[god-of-swine]

17. The first time she tells you “No”, to anything, fuck one of her friends. Film it. Make her watch. She has to know how replaceable she is.

[suitcasefullofsoup]

Here’s a little tutorial that people have been asking about, with some booty wiggles.

Tutorial available for download here

I used my 10ft magenta rope from @bdsmgeekshop

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[keptmathilda]

Is there a way to make her have a daily workout like thing without her loosing the feel of proper restrictionness during it?

I assume (“her”) this Ask was meant for @keepingher.

[jgfuhfhjjfhh-deactivated2021052]

Muscle toning exercises don’t require a lot of movement, so for these it’s just a matter of installing her correctly.

I prefer body weight exercises to machines, which makes it even easier. Push ups, sit ups, leg raises, core exercises can all be done with her neck chained to the wall and non-essential limbs locked.

Muscle cramping and atrophy are things to be on the lookout for, especially if you’ve been confining her to very small spaces.

To counter this, it will be necessary to take her out from time to time for movement exercise. Fortunately, you can kill two birds with one stone in this case.

While this is great, don’t neglect her cardio workout! It not only promotes a good immune system so she doesn’t get sick, but also promotes good blood circulation for when she’s locked in difficult positions.

The ways you can structure this are really only limited by your imagination and creativity.

You need at least 20 minutes of sustained elevated heart rate for it to be effective. That said, technically you only really need to do it once or twice a week. For other days you can just do regular walking, which also allows her legs to remain restricted.

You must be careful about her ankles chafing. Seriously, this is a real, crippling problem! One approach is to use protective footwear.

It’s also helpful to train her in how to walk so as not to injure herself. This requires a lot of practice!

For fans of technology, there is a lot to be said for TENS electrical impulses to spur the muscles into motion.

And really, when it comes down to it, all you have to do is think about the kind of motion you want to encourage, and then come up with ways to encourage it!

Remember: A healthy slave is a happy slave! Take an interest in her health, and show how much you care.

[pleasurewhore-deactivated201802]

Dominant, or Domineering?

I was scrolling back through my archives and I came across an ask from another blog where someone was inquiring about signs that a man was not a Dominant, but simply domineering. I think it’s a really important, and very interesting question, and so I thought I’d like to take a stab at answering. There are a lot of posts out there about how to spot a real Dominant, but so long as there are subs out there struggling to tell the difference I think there can’t be too many.

To be domineering is to assert your will over another person in an aggressive or arrogant way. To be a Dominant is to be a caregiver. Someone who thrives on leading by gaining the trust and devotion of someone who wishes to follow. It sounds simple to tell them apart on paper, but reality isn’t always that black and white, and some people talk a really good game, so how can you tell the difference?

A domineering man will only make his rules all about his pleasure. They may read as a list of fetishes. He’s concerned about how often you shave your cunt, but not how often you see the doctor. A Dominant man will make rules for his pleasure, and your betterment. He cares about which panties you wear, but also how much sleep you get each night. He encourages you to have goals and helps you accomplish them through his rules.

A domineering man will not go out of his way to let you know that you are loved and cherished. His praise comes in the form of “you’re so hot when you do that”, and  “I love when you gag on me”. A Dominant man will make sure you know he respects you as a person and supports your accomplishments. “I’m so proud of you for interviewing for the promotion at work”, and “I appreciate that you tried, I know that was hard for you”.

A domineering man will not want to explain his decisions, or discuss his reasoning. He may become angry when you question him, and tell you that it’s not your place. A Dominant man is open to meta-talks. He will not allow you to question every tiny decision, but it’s important to him to address your concerns. He’s not afraid to share his thinking because he has your best interest at heart.

A domineering man doesn’t show interest in making decision that don’t affect him. He’ll choose your panties, but doesn’t really care when you ask him what you should do about that friend who is feeling neglected.  A Dominant man wants to help calm your mind, and is happy to help you make even mundane decisions. He has no problem choosing where to eat tonight, or telling you if you should accept the invite to that party.

A domineering man will be concentrated on making you the ‘perfect sub’. He may be overly concerned with your ability to deep throat and unreasonably strict with your diet and exercise program. A Dominant man accept and loves the person you are, and wants to help you meet your goals. He helps you with your diet because he wants for you to be healthy, not skinny, or because YOU expressed a desire for change.

A domineering man will limit your contact with others, especially others in the BDSM community. He’s scared you’ll find out that there’s more out there than what he’s offering. He’s jealous, and resents the time you spend with friends and family. A Dominant man know he can not be your everything and encourages you to learn. He recognizes the value of other relationship and only limits them when there are red flags, or past problems. He encourages you to learn and grow in your understanding of D/s relationships.

A domineering man demands. He raises his voice, doesn’t say please, and doesn’t thank you for the things you do. A Dominant man leads by making you want to follow. He knows that trust is earned and isn’t put off by the effort.

A domineering man gives his time only when it is convenient for him to do so. Domineering man isn’t concerned with calming you before a medical procedure or exam. He cancels plans with you when something better to do comes up. A Dominant man makes you a priority. He sets aside his plans to care for you when you are in need. That doesn’t mean he drops everything because you want company, but when you’re genuinely having a hard time you don’t have to question if he’ll be there for you.

Do all domineering men do all of the things I stated? No, it’s not that simple, but they’re good reference points. It’s about intent. A domineering man is out to fulfill his own desires, and a Dominant man gains his pleasure from successfully providing for the needs and desires of both parties. Will Dominant men sometimes say the things domineering men do? Yes! But domineering men will not also behave as Dominant men do, because Dominant men have broader goals. A Dominant man will but his desires above yours, but he will never put his desires above your needs.

[i-could-be-the-walrus-deactivat]

Dominant men have patience, a work ethic, and a sense of forward thinking in the management of their own lives that domineering men usually lack. It’s not normally a difference that can be spotted immediately or from the surface, unfortunately. An interested submissive will have to get to know a man’s intent and maybe even some of his history instead of merely observing action/behavior/physical appearance alone. This takes time and effort. This is why vetting is important.  For instance…both a domineering man and a dominant man could be super into physical fitness. Maybe even both of them seem a little vain about it.  Through (careful, guarded) interaction with them about their focus on diet and exercise (their OWN, not yours…they aren’t your dominant yet…please don’t ask/let a man be your dominant without knowing them on at least a greater than superficial level first), a submissive can get context for why they focus on it. His replies to comments like, ‘So I guess you work out a lot,’ will reveal these things.  A domineering man wants to look good to get dates; wants to be strong to intimidate or overpower or impress. He places a heavy value on his appearance and how he presents to other people and will probably place yours at a premium too. He’ll value your surface over your substance because he values his surface over his substance. He likes showing off and outdoing other people at the weight stacks. He likes bragging about how many races he’s run and how many people he bested when he ran them. He likes comparing himself to other people to show he’s superior. He likes showing off his body for the praise of how it looks. He wants accolades for the results, even if his ‘results’ are attained by unhealthy practices like taking anabolic steroids or malnutrition or he’s using photo editing software on his selfies. He’ll be disappointed if his selfies don’t get his requisite positive attention.  A dominant man, completing the same rigid personal program, who has the same six-pack abs and bench press number, and maybe even the same penchant for taking a lot of selfies, will more likely talk about how he used to feel weak/was unhappy with how his clothes fit/had a specific health issue/has a family history of a certain health issue, and decided to improve himself/give himself more options/be proactive about his future health prognosis. He might talk about races he’s run, but he’ll say he does this half marathon every year for <charity> because his childhood best friend had <disease> and it raises money for research. He’ll talk about being driven to accomplish goals and see results and he likes the tangibility of how much weight he can lift or beating his last run time/increase his weekly distance. He only compares himself to his former self. He likes the praise he gets for *how much dedication and self-control it took to achieve the look.* The accolades he wants the most are the ones about *his hard work.* And maybe, he won’t even want praise. He might just want a document of his progress for his own reference.

Often the differences are very subtle from the surface, but they are glaring on the inside of a relationship. 

[instructor144]

I miss pleasurewhore so much.

[female-orgasm-denial]

This is an important and well written list.

[shadowedsub]

How to make a girl squirt

There are many steps which describe the process about how to make a girl squirt, but all is needed are fingers and oral job. The best advice is to try with exploration in different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass. Most important is to be innovative and inventive.

Surely, some of the best fingering comes in conjunction with oral, but there is a little secret that gives to any women best orgasm of her life.

Here are step by step instructions how to make a girl squirt:

You can start by performing oral on her inner thighs, clitoris and labia especially, to start getting her relaxed and wet. You must continually suck and lick the clitoris throughout the duration of the whole oral act, because oral increases power, pleasure and increases chances of female ejaculating orgasm.

With the hand you write with, take two fingers closest to your thumb (pointer and middle finger) and make them wet with her pussy juice or with your mouth. The most important thing is to make sure your nails are trimmed and not sharp, because you could hurt her.

Slide those two fingers in, with the fingerprint part of the fingers facing up (nails down), slide them in firmly but slowly, as far as they will go without using too much pressure. If she is really tight you may need to start with one, and if there is a lot of wetness but resistance, you may need to tease and taste her pussy some more. Once you get those fingers in, tease her inner walls slowly with the pads of your fingers, and get her even more juicy. When you think that she is ready to have the orgasm of her life, you may begin:

Now you will maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes, every woman has one. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy (like you’re going up behind her clitty). Her g-spot is actually a patch of her inner walls which is on the FRONT INNER WALL of her pussy, above the hole itself. So, in, up, and back towards the entrance. You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. You’ve found it. Congratulations.

By making a beckoning motion with your two fingers (a come hither, bending fingers motion), you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now.

As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you’re doing it right, and she’s comfortable with it, you’ll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy.

As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, start doing it harder. The more she thrashes from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you’re slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you’re still pressing up against that g-spot even as you’re slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon.

Through all of this, she should be squelching, squirming and OBVIOUSLY loving it. If she’s not, you should stop. If she says it hurts (especially if she says it more than once, you might want to stop or at LEAST slow down or not do it so hard. Make sure she’s always wet, not dry for any period of time.

Now here’s the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It’s just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but make sure she stays relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers) and that you KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that’s when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner.

10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON’T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She’ll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you’re prepared.

I guarantee you, if she’s never had one before, the squirting orgasm will be the best orgasm of her life. In my experience, 97% of women are capable of having them, and in certain circumstances, I think it’s more like 99.9%. If you want her to ejaculate in great volumes, have her drink lots of water before you do it, and stay well hydrated. Once she’s finished squirting, SHE CAN SQUIRT AGAIN. Especially if you didn’t do it too hard, and still got her to cum, you can usually start all over, and between one and ten minutes later, she’ll be squirting again. Usually, you have to do it harder each time. My record is seven. The girl that squirted seven times in 45 minutes passed out for 6 hours afterward (it’s physically exhausting and dehydrating) so be careful if you try more than 2 at once.

Most girls pass out after a couple of them. This can make a girl fall in love and at the very least want to fuck your brains out, so use it wisely rather than to your advantage. Don’t take advantage of people using this. If you do it wrong, or if she’s on her period, she might bleed. That’s usually okay, but just make sure you don’t hurt her, and you stop if she’s screaming with pain, rather than pleasure.

You should always have a safe word with your partner, and you should always make sure she knows what you intend to do and that she’s fine with it. Enjoy this, and I hope it works out for you; I hope it works out for HER, even more so. If it does well, just wait and see. I’m jealous of women because of g-spot orgasms! There’s NO male equivalent it’s just absolute ecstasy, nothing less. Remember there are at least fifty ways to make a woman cum (actually lots more) and at least five different types of orgasms so don’t limit yourselves to this whether it works or not.

[faceslapping1]

Tips for faceslapping women

- Find her tolerance limit: First hit her softly and then gradually increase the force of each slap if you see she can take it. - Always make her close her mouth before the slap to avoid her teeth cutting inside her mouth during the slap. - Always hit her in the jaw. Never close to the ear (audition loss hazard), nose (bleeding nose harzard) or eyes. Any hit above the cheekbone (around the eye) will give her a black eye. - If you wanna slap her hard in one cheek, then is useful to support her other cheek with your other hand. This is done to avoid a strong “whiplash effect” on her head. - Keep clipped and filed nails to avoid accidental cuts. -Avoid slapping her as a punishment/discipline. She has a fatty butt and some sensitive thighs that can be used for that purpose. Those are much safer to hit than her face. Use them. - Never slap her with anger.

A good slap puts a naughty girl immediately in her place. It makes her shut up immediately so it’s really effective against a back-talking girl. Normally it brings instant tears of submission. But it can be a severe tool, so it must be used with care.

Remember: Women are delicate beings and they are easy to break. Better play with your toys without breaking them… so you can keep on playing!

Cheers

;-)

Javier

[thebimbowitch]

While here are some valid tips, I think there are a few very important things missing from this post and it contains a few toxic narratives we don’t reproduce in this house.

1) Before you do ANYTHING of the above, make sure your partner wants to be slapped. Consent is everything. A slap with given consent in a sexual setting is a kink. A slap without given consent is abuse. Read that again.

2) Let’s call it “Tips for face slapping your partner” instead. Because not only straight cis couples might enjoy faceslapping. And you can slap any person in the face, not just women.

2) a “good slap” can do many things. Not all subs are the same. Don’t let a post on the internet tell you how it should affect you or your partner. What matters the most is that you both enjoy the things you do.

3) communicate. All. The. Time. Make sure you know exactly when your partner is okay with being slapped. Make a ritual of initiating a session to draw a clear line from your daily life. A person who likes to be hit during sex & foreplay is also a person who likes respect and dignity. Don’t ever slap your partner without having gotten consent or initiated session before.

4) slapping is not a tool, it’s a sexual practice. If you use it as a tool, it’s abusive manipulation. If you use it as a practice, it’s consented fun. You can treat it like a tool within the setting of a session, where you both can fetishize your fantasy. Never use it as a tool in your daily life. Again, that would be abuse.

5) Women are not delicate beings who are easy to break. Women are human beings, persons, with feelings, rights and needs. If you regard women rather as “beings” and “toys” outside of sexual settings / sessions, go to therapy, you’re going to need it.

Love, the Bimbo Witch

[swats-stuff]

Just a reblog to hang on to it.

[magpie-69]

Some good stuff on the OP, and with a very good add on.

I’d also like to say something about the OP saying to make sure you hit the jaw. Hitting the area of the jaw that’s closest to the chin will cause more “brain shake” than slapping further up, but still below the cheekbone, of course. Your palm should strike the whole length of the area from the cheekbone to the chin. That spreads the impact and gives less chance of injury.

[pleasurewhore-deactivated201802]

Determination

Submission, and Dominance for that matter, while inbred, don’t come naturally. Now don’t mistake my meaning here, I believe submissives and Dominants are born this way, as much as people are born with blue eyes or brown. The innate desire to lead, or to follow, is not a choice, but the acts of submission and dominance are not innate, they are learned.

Take sex for example, you can know that you want it, that it is something you need in your life, but learning to have fulfilling sex is a journey, not a single act. And so it is for D/s. You can take a submissive or a Dominant as your own, but that doesn’t complete your journey any more than losing your virginity makes you a master of sex. There is always more to learn.

And you know what? It’s not fucking easy. You’re going to screw up. Probably a lot. You’ll hurt the person you love and it’s going to be soul crushing. They’re going to hurt you too, and you’ll probably be blindsided. You’ll learn and grow, and if you’re anything like me, sometimes you’ll look at the trail of mistakes behind you and you’ll wonder if maybe you aren’t meant for this after all. That maybe you aren’t really submissive because you seem to fail a lot, or that maybe you aren’t really a Dominant because you seem to hurt your sub even when it’s the last thing you want.

But here’s the thing… Dominance and submission are innate desires, but learning to fulfill those desires takes work. Learning to serve your partner, fulfill their needs, and make sure that your own are met, requires determination and effort. Wanting something, truly deeply wanting it, even needing it, doesn’t mean you know how to get it.

You have to be willing to pick yourself back up when you fall. It doesn’t mean you weren’t made for this.  It doesn’t mean you aren’t a ‘true’ submissive or a Dominant. It means that if you want it badly enough, you’ll muster the strength to learn.

[the-pleasure-of-unpleasure-deac]

Submission is not bdsm: remembering the true meaning of submission

Sometimes I think I can get too wrapped up in the sexually explosive imagery on tumblr. With the new year here, I started thinking about things and realized that I’ve lost that true meaning of submission. That meaning, that feeling; it use to overwhelm me, it was the reason I wanted to be submissive for the right man. For the last while I haven’t thought much of it, at all. All I ever think about, look for when I’m on here is the sexual imagery, and the bdsm, not the D/s. And here on the magical, murky world of tumblr, that line of bdsm and real D/s gets blurred, we forget that it’s not the same thing. They of course can be blended together in the right relationship, but they are not one in the same. Real submission isn’t about the sex, the humiliation. It’s not about how good of a fuck toy you can be for a man, or how much you want to be slapped around, or how much you want to be throat fucked into oblivion. You can want all those things, do all those things, but that’s bdsm, and people need to remember that bdsm doesn’t equate to submission. It doesn’t make you a better, or less of a submissive for wanting or not wanting those things, despite what the tumblr “Doms” may tell you. Real submission is wanting to surrender, surrender everything. It’s passion, and it’s love, and it’s the need, the craving to do the simple things for him, even little things like curling up at his feet while he watches tv, or making his favorite dinner, not because he told you to, but because you need to, because he’s your whole world and you couldn’t imagine your life without him there to guide, sometimes push you to be a better version of yourself. It’s that feeling of wanting to just melt into him, lose yourself everytime he kisses you, or calls you his good girl..sigh..and with all that said, I still love the porn, the humiliation, the bdsm, but from now on, I’m going to try to remember what submission is to me

[masters-adored-pet]

How to get your Sub in subspace, a guide for beginners

 Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the “high” is all about and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone topping another so that they may successfully send their bottom into a very deep endorphin stupor! (Also known as leaving them in a big puddle of quivering ecstasy!)

The endorphin high is caused by a bunch of natural, morphine-like chemicals the body pumps into your brain to reduce your sensitivity to pain (thus raising your pain threshold.) The fact that the body seems to release these endorphins in measured ‘loads’ is a key to understanding how to ‘play’ the body to produce these ‘loads’ and ‘release’ them into the body and brain region when the ‘load’ is ready. One has to keep in mind that another chemical – adrenalin – is also produced by the body in reaction to pain, and its behavior should be understood also. This is covered later more thoroughly in the section at the end on aftercare – which is a VERY essential element in guaranteeing the success of the effort, as you will see.

The endorphin ‘loads’ as they are available in the body are released in their entirety, and after a ‘load’ is released, it takes the body about ten minutes to generate the chemicals for another one. After the body has been induced to release (or ‘inject’) a ‘load’ into the system, you must then continue stimulating the body for at least ten minutes in some manner before the body will be ready to release another one. This stimulation can be just about anything – sensation play, light paddling or flogging, light caning, etc. – and it does not have to be intense or even nearly match the intensity of stimulation that had caused the release of the last ‘load.’

Once prepared, an increase in stimulation over a five minute span up to a measured ‘climax’ will trigger the body to release the freshly prepared ‘load’ (based upon the submissive’s current pain threshold, “measured” to push them over a new edge.)

So, armed with this information, what does a session look like from the top’s and bottom’s point of view? This should break it down for you.

When a scene first starts, there are no endorphins in the submissive, and even fairly light torment is very stingy, ouchy, and, well, painful! There is an endorphin reserve already in place that is awaiting release into one’s body in case of an emergency, and after just a few minutes of even relatively mild stimulation building to a mild climax, this reserve ‘load’ is released, and suddenly the pain threshold clearly rises and the subject can easily tolerate what earlier may have been pushing their limits, making them jump around and squirm, for instance. This new, more pain tolerant state is Level One. There is no altered state of consciousness yet – but there is an increased pain threshold.

Once this has happened, for the top it’s basically just about treading water for ten minutes and doing anything that provides relatively light but constant stimulation to induce the bottom’s body to prepare/create their next ‘load’ for release. This is a good time for sensation play, or light paddling, flogging or whipping – and since the only requirement is that it remain fairly constant stimulation, it is a chance for the top to relax for a bit, since the stimulation can be very mild and be easy and relaxing to apply during this time.

Once the ten minutes has passed, a build in intensity over a subsequent five minute period will excite the body to a peak, and a sudden 10–15 seconds or so of intense stimulation just beyond the person’s current pain threshold limit will trigger the body to eject its freshly made, current load into the bloodstream. Now the bottom will be at  Level Two – with still no perceivable altered state of consciousness (beyond panting in relief that you, the top, have ceased with the intense bit!), but there is a considerable  and noticeable leap in pain threshold now.

Following this, again, ten minutes of mild, easy stimulation to provoke the body into generating the next load as quickly as possible. Keep this well below the pain threshold you’ve now created, with just a little intense whack, etc. every so often, about a minute apart. This will keep the adrenalin build up to a minimum, for reasons explained later on. Take it easy, tops, relax, rest that arm and wrist a bit! Then, this relaxing ten minutes is followed with five minutes of building the intensity again to well above the previous level, as the bottom’s pain threshold is pretty high already now and they can take a lot more before the body interprets this as being ‘in crisis’ and thus triggers the endorphins’ release. Finished off with 10–15 seconds (up to a minute) of a real intense, over the edge push, and the body will inject that next load.

Now at  Level Three, the bottom will definitely feel a little bit ‘woozy’ — exhibiting a “mildly drugged” state. Their eyelids should become heavier seeming, and they will fall into a more relaxed condition than before, with more low moans and groans, and with their inhibitions becoming more relaxed. Again, applying ten minutes of any relatively mild stimulation (don’t have to work hard, tops!), followed by a five minute build to a 10–15 second intense climax now that is WELL beyond the previous one, will result in the next endorphin “load” being released to push the bottom into a very nice Level Four head space.

At this Level Four state, there will be a very definite altered state of consciousness in evidence, and the bottom will feel clearly drugged and will be very compliant and submissive now. This is countered, however, by the largest charges of adrenalin they have received so far (from the intense climax just used to push them over this “edge”), so they are still quite communicative and their reaction time is still quick (even hypersensitive – a small whack with a paddle, cane or whip can now generate a huge amount of twitching or jerking of the subject’s body with certain bottoms.) Now, during the ten minute ‘treading water’ period for the top, the moans and groans will be longer and deeper, the body often limp in it’s restraints, and the reactions to the occasional harder 'strikes’ will be obvious and even somewhat amplified. This is the tops finest time – they can still relax and obviously not be exerting themselves very hard, yet produce fine moans of ecstasy from their bottom with hardly any provocation! The pain threshold is high, even if the reaction time is increased due to the adrenalin, so harder occasional strikes are welcomed, and the reactions are certainly encouraging!

After this ten minute “endorphin replenishment” period, now it is important to be very sensitive to the limit levels crossed earlier, as you begin that five minute build in intensity that will end in the most intense limit pushing you might do with the bottom for this session (if you are stopping at level five). The bottom will have a very high pain threshold at this time, but also will be fairly groggy (in spite of the adrenalin-fueled reaction times) and less able to communicate their safe word – in fact, will now be so compliant that it is very UNLIKELY that they would use it even if they should do so! So, push this “grand finale” with finesse and sensitivity to what is going on with your bottom! At the other end of the 10–30 second climactic build in intensity – in a wonderful blast – this latest endorphin load will push the bottom into Level Five: a state of supreme ecstasy, docility, and the ability to take just about anything you could throw at them. They will become very limp and relaxed very suddenly – and be very clearly in an altered state of consciousness now.

This is the point most people end the scene and remove the bottom to cloak them in a blanket and begin the all-important aftercare … and unless you know your bottom extremely well, this is where the session should end. However, for those in that category of knowing their bottom’s limits and abilities quite well, the rules and timing are the same as with the earlier segments. Now, your 'mild’ stimulation could be fairly intense if you wanted it to be, and the bottom will become extremely submissive – and receptive – and accepting of any amount of stimulation you could lay on them. This is a dangerous condition, because there is NO WAY a person will utter a safe word in this condition – they can barely talk at all! So, it is best to keep the stimulation relatively intense but not too too (Note: the stronger intensity applied now will hold up the adrenalin levels, and the combination with the elevated endorphins levels creates a condition of intense excitement and of simultaneously intense ecstatic relaxation for the bottom, so they’ll be into receiving whatever is being doled out. More on adrenalin in a minute, though!) Again, finish off after the ten minutes with a building in intensity to one beyond that reached earlier, with a 10–15 second extreme point, and the next 'load’ will be released. So, now we have brought the bottom to a very amazing  Level Six! (But, again, this should only be attempted with a bottom whose limits and abilities are already very well known! The top is working without the benefit of safe words being utterable, in most cases by this time, so care must be exercised this whole while.)

With all the adrenalin now in the body – as well as the complete release of inhibitions from the heavy dosing of endorphins now in their brain – behavior of the bottom can become unpredictable at this point, and you should be prepared to restrain against some wild thrashing and arm flailing that could take place (at least be out of harm’s way!) The person/bottom is going to be in such an intensely altered state of consciousness now that their reactions could possibly be of an extremely primitive nature, and they may be capable of only 'animal-like’ noises and reactions, and no or very little recognizable speech. So, watch out! Following this reasoning, approach the subject as you would a wild animal – very gently, talking soothingly and gesturing in a calming manner. Be prepared for sudden wild jerking, or seeming attempts to 'get away.’ And don’t take it personally! At Level Six, this person is totally ga-ga! Be assured, they are enjoying every millisecond of this experience! And a very long period of dreaminess is now in store for them – if their aftercare is handled properly!

So, why do I go on and on about the aftercare? The work of putting endorphins into the subject’s body is finished, right? Well, yes, but you have also succeeded in putting very, very large amounts of adrenalin into their system, and adrenalin is tricky stuff. Even at Level Four, aftercare is important now because of they way adrenalin burns off – it burns off very quickly – compared to endorphins, which burn off very slowly. At Level Five or Level Six, there is enough adrenalin in the body that it will take 10 to 20 minutes for it to burn off (even up to half an hour!), and during this time, the bottom very likely will experience a number of adrenalin 'crashes’ (similar in a way to coffee jags), and some of these can be very intense — and even quite frightening! They will need to be kept warm and be held and comforted AT LEAST throughout this period of adrenalin burn-off. My feeling is that if you don’t care enough for the bottom to enjoy cuddling and caressing with them for up to half an hour, you probably shouldn’t be taking them to any Level Six endorphin/adrenalin levels! (Or even perhaps to a Level Four!)

This adrenalin “crash” experience for the bottom is something many, many tops are unaware of, and they have no concept of the amount of harm they could be doing to someone’s psychological state by not performing adequate, loving, fondling and comforting aftercare during this time. All the bottom needs now is to be held and to hold you (or whoever you assign to perform aftercare) back – in order to be comforted by your presence, and to be allowed to make you become the entire focus of their awareness. No stroking, or massage, or other stimulus is needed or even desirable at this time. What is important is to keep in verbal contact with the bottom (not requiring words as responses, merely nods), instructing them every little while to relax. The adrenalin will have them in a very agitated state – high heart beat and breathing levels, etc. – and this situation is completely counter to the endorphin experience.Sure, they have a ton of endorphins in their system, but the adrenalin is presently holding them off from experiencing the full effect of them. The top’s guidance is extremely important at this time to help them relax through the adrenalin burn-off period.

The important thing to realize is that, if not actually 'talked down’ out of the adrenalin agitation, the person could easily never allow themselves to relax enough to even feel the massive content of endorphins that currently exist in their system! (Maybe you’ve all seen the bottom who, after 45 minutes to an hour of intense stimulation to the point of near-total collapse on the cross or bench, is released and – after a mere couple of minutes – is just mingling around and talking and mixing with people as if nothing ever happened. These people are floating on a self sustained adrenalin buzz. This not only is likely to be unhealthy, but these bottoms are cheating themselves out of a long, long stretch of total endorphin-induced ecstasy!)

Step-By-Step Aftercare Instructions

So, while gently holding the bottom and letting them hold you back, coo softly and comfort them, and tell them to go ahead and to let themselves relax. You will feel them do so as they comply to your wishes, as they are quite docile and compliant to receiving instructions at this point. But they will also slowly tense up again from the adrenalin. Keep reminding them to relax, telling them to give themselves permission to relax totally. As they begin to succeed at doing this after a while, some will encounter a frightening feeling, which some describe feeling as if 'falling off a cliff,’ and they will tense up a great deal from fright in that event. Or, they might encounter a feeling of intense 'blackness’ (as the endorphins get a chance to relax even their optic nerve) and they will freak out and pull back from relaxing again.

If they report such experiences (or even before they do) tell them not to fear that, but to let it go and pass through it – telling them to relax themselves through the sensation of falling or blackness with the understanding that this is quite normal and is a common experience. Once they do that, having learned to “relax through it”, they will be “in it” after that point, and will begin to relax very deeply, very often seeing colors and beautiful technicolor visions and dreamlike landscapes, spaces and places. How sweet!

Once this happens (which, again, will take at least 10 minutes — and up to a half hour for some, depending on the amount of adrenalin that they must burn off), then your bottom needs only a little more loving attention, and can then be left bundled in a blanket somewhere on their own to float in a happy bubble, very possibly for hours!

Tops should be mindful of the fact that if they had intended to have sexual play with their bottom, they should probably fit that in around level three or four, for after hitting level five, their bottom may be too floaty to be able to concentrate for long on what they are doing. Then again, that can sometimes result in extremely passionate and inhibition-free indulgence, resulting in heights of ecstasy and orgasm never before experienced. But, if your bottom drifts out on you or loses their erection, don’t say I didn’t warn you! There’s no telling which way they will go at level 5 or 6!

“Flying”

There is another factor that can produce an altered state of consciousness FAR FAR beyond even that of the most extreme endorphin experience. This is experienced by submissives whose intense focus upon their Master or Mistress (their Dominant) – and upon pleasing them – eventually leads to a hallucinogenic kind of altered state known commonly in the BDSM community as “flying,” having an almost mythological aura surrounding the word by now, though for very good reasons! It is probably the most profound experience one can have as a submissive. It involves a state of intense devotion towards the dominant (who is not just a mere “top” at this point!) that borders upon religious worship, with complete trust and a total commitment to please and satisfy them thoroughly. Through the attainment of a complete selflessness and focus on the dominant, a transformation takes place that is very, very deep, almost trance-like.It can become so profound as to produce an extended, hallucinogenic state that is very wonderful and blissful. Many have reported even seeing visions under the spell of this “flying” effect. All have attested to the profound sense of peace and bliss they have experienced while even near the “edge” of this state.

This “flying” state can be attained by some with very little endorphin content in their system (some say even with none, but I’m quite certain most folks have attained at least a level Three or Level Four endorphin high in order to trigger the total release of inhibitions which this psychological state seems to require, at least generally speaking.) With practice, the release into this “flying” submissive-space should come easier and easier, eventually with even a mere suggestion being able to trigger the effect for some with very little or even no endorphin content being in the picture. COMBINED with the level 5 or 6 endorphin head space, there likely can be no deeper state of ecstasy possible for the bottom — short of total enlightenment! Until such an experience of full enlightenment can be accomplished, perhaps the attainment of this interim bliss is quite acceptable, and certainly should be considered an attractive and enjoyable state to be in! The secret ingredients are intense focus; a commitment to please the dominant utterly; and complete and total devotion! These ingredients – with some endorphins in the mix – should produce a quite satisfying effect for both the submissive and the dominant!

(Disclaimer — I am not a medical doctor, I assume no responsibility for people who try to use this information or for the effects which may arise from the application of the information above. As resulting from my personal knowledge, research and experiences, I can, however, assure you that this information is completely accurate to act as a guide for those exploring these effects as part of their own BDSM explorations.)

[fur-n-steel]

This a brilliant, a must read for anyone who doesn’t understand fully how sub space works! What’s even more important is understanding the aftercare needed and why it’s so critical.

Of course this more relevant to the real life Doms out there

[1-sadistic-lover]

I am rebloging this now and I will reblog it on Wisdom Wednesday. This is fundamental information and should be a mandatory read for all Doms.

[mastergreywolf-67]

This is a “must read” for both Tops and bottoms. Especially the part about aftercare, the most critical part of play.

~Sir GreyWolf 🐺

@lovemynewlife

[sir-sates]

This is an excellent reference. I must say, as related by several subs over many years, most aspects of this piece are accurate.

Each submissive may require slight adjustments. It is vitally important to pay close attention, be a keen observer, demonstrate patience and follow through with intention. And, especially when you are worthy of her worship, the results are a priceless gift!

[daddyandhislittleprincess11102]

@daddysparrow @sparrowskitten

[lilltrinketangel-deactivated202]

Please Tell Me

You don’t need to cum

You’ve already had your last orgasm

Your clit doesn’t need stimulation

Your pleasure doesn’t count

If you want to touch, from now on only touch your nipples

You’ve had your last edge.

Strip

Bend over

Only my pleasure counts

Your pain is my pleasure

Show me your tits

You don’t need to cum

Bounce for me

You’re better when you’re denied

Your cunt is just a cocksleeve

You look cute when you gag

Take all of it

It doesn’t matter if you can’t take it

I don’t care

Suffer for me

You don’t need to cum

You’re never going to cum again.

[teasingdenialandruinedorgasms]

I want to hear from more of you about which of these phrases would make you the wettest.

[antediluvianking]

Do tell me, dear!

[strictpigowner2]

What else would I tell you?

[dyketobebred]

Whenever I edge I have to first thank Master for taking my orgasm and then any other edges beg him to never let me cum. Eventually I get so entirely out of it from edging that I start to wonder if cunts can really cum. Of course he takes the opportunity to say we can’t, which I think somewhat stays with me since lately I’ve had trouble getting close

[daddys-little-batman-slut]

You don’t need to cum would probably get my the wettest.

[anatasiasub]

You don’t need to cum

You’re better when you’re denied

Suffer for me

Show me your tits

[cuckqueansteffi]

Drooling so bad over that, soon its 15month since last O.

[dumbbigtittedslut-deactivated20]

I choose degrading sex

because getting fucked up the ass while I bark like a dog is approximately one million times better than missionary in the dark.

[17894532]

because feeling her struggle to keep from pissing the carpet while im inside her ass is one million and one times better than kisses down her back.

[17894532]

because forcing her face into the stain asking her “didn’t I train you better, bitch?” gets her one hundred times wetter than “oh baby, you’re so tight.”  

[17894532]

because the look on her face and whimper she makes before barking after you mutter “maybe i should send you back to the pound” is one billion times more satisfying than some “six month anniversary” blowjob. 

[naomitweet-blog]

Because when he tells me to take his cock is Ten thousand times better than hearing “do you want me to stop?”

[dontgetwisewithme]

Because forcing her to cum repeatedly against her will until she’s begging and crying is a few hundred thousand times better than asking “did you finish too?”

[pacifiers-and-paraphilia]

Because being told that I’m a vile little slut is more thrilling than half hearted sweet nothings.

[boysschool]

Because transforming the grossest, most embarrassing things imaginable into eroticism as a couple is about a trillion times more bonding than vanilla sex. Vulnerability is true intimacy.

[jennzipuppy]

Because my orgasms are much stronger when he’s holding me down with the entire weight of his body as he nearly rips my clothes off and manhandles me than the run-of-the-mill vanilla sex

[lunashantelle]

Because calling me a good little slut while he slaps and spits in my face and fucks my mouth is so much better than having him fuck me for 2 minutes, then fingering me for 12. 

[thecunthunter-deactivated201710]

Because unleashing all my aggression on her and leaving her a bleeding, bruised, and sobbing mess at my feet, not letting her up until she’s managed to say “Thank you “ is a million miles better than saying “oh I’m sorry I didn’t mean to hurt you”

[meoww-maid]

Because knowing he’s going to turn me into a drooling whimpering mess makes spending the time to get dolled up a bushel and a peck more exciting than hoping my lipstick will stay intact the entire night.

[buttercupbaba]

Because him caning, paddling Or spanking me until I’m crying to unleash all the pent up stress, anger and sadness is better than me crying alone in my room.

[cass-ie-opeia]

Because giving up control to someone who cares about my safety and happiness is better than giving up control to drugs.

[anothersadist]

this post is why i love tumblr

[pierced13-deactivated20181108]

Because her sobbing thank you’d after a spanking session are a billion times better than “how was it for you, baby?”

[rawheadx-deactivated20201229]

Because her mantra of “Fuck your butt slut Daddy. Fuck your butt slut.” Is pure ecstacy even over sweet “I love yous.”

[dcdssxcc]

ὣܐ

[daddys-training-tips]

Is this discipline? Or reward? For pain sluts it’s hard to tell the difference. Come sit on Daddy’s lap and let me hurt you. I know you like it. The clamps make your nipples extra sensitive. Don’t forgot your manners. Say “thank you daddy for hurting me0

[fakenamesaredumb-deactivated202]

Definitely a reward. Thank you Daddy. 💦

[waniowani-blog]

Evolve 

[vividhotsexy]

[asspreciationassfreak]

Honey, does my cock taste like ass? 

Not sure lover…let me check.

Ass Freak - The Original “Caption Caveman” - 😜💋❤ 😈

[im-masters-playground]

It does taste like ass. Mmmm

~ yes Master

[theropegeek]

text and layout by TheRopeGeek

references:  (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6)

[the-dark-basement]

Required text for the kinky community.

[curiositykilledthecuckquean]

I rush in, concerned there is an issue. Jay never calls me home in the middle of the work day.

“Hi baby, is everything -“ I say, only to stop when he raises his hand.

“Hi baby. Get on your knees, I need you to get me ready for Dana - she’ll be here in 15 minutes and she always runs early.”

I fall to my knees. “You need me to get you ready? For Dana? Wasn’t Other Sue JUST here? And Tanya before her?”

“Yes.”

I smile. “Are you going to fuck me? It has been a few days….”

“No baby, just a blow job.”

I fall to my knees, nice work clothes on. I lick and move and work until I hear Dana walk in, her clothing dropping to the ground around me.

She moves to straddle him, hovering over my head. I hold his dick with my right hand, and twist my body so my face is between her legs. I use my tongue on her, before placing my left hand on her big bottom to encourage her to fully sit on his dick. I don’t let go dick until she’s fully on.

I suckle her nipples until she’s coming on him, then quietly excuse myself and drive back to work.

[fantasies-of-a-dominant]

“Why are you in serving pose, Princess?”, I enquire as I enter the room, just home from a hard day at work.

“Because I’ve had a really bad day, Sir”, she replies. “Because I don’t want to talk about it, Sir”

“Are you sure, Princess?”, I question in a soft, comforting tone; “You know I’m always happy to listen?”

“Thank you, Sir. I know that. But, I don’t want to talk right now. I need to serve you. Please may I serve you, Sir?”

“On one condition, Princess. We talk about your day in the bath tub together afterwards”

“Yes, Sir. Of course”

“Ok, Princess. Let’s get you restrained. Then I’ll spank the stress away. Would you like that?”

“Very much, Sir. I need you to take me, I want to be lost in our world with only you, Sir”

“Very well, I’m not going to be gentle with you, Princess”

“Thank you, Sir”

Copyright @fantasies-of-a-dominant 2018

Re-posted with new image 2019

[naughtynurse01]

Needed 💜