A hobbit living with two humans and a wizard.

Smule: Honey_N_Harmony

[redlipstickresurrected]

Pho aka Photon Tide aka Photon is Dead (b. 1996, based CA, USA) - In Limbo, 2024, Digital Art

[prettyisnteverythiing]

[paganpie]

Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada: 2024

[cute-catts]

[lemonsharks]

Man, I miss this particular part of quarantine

[itsbrig]

I have deep love for the cat.

[chromaticabrasions]

sorry for being a hater i want to be a lover but everything pisses me off

[kosmogrl]

pre menstrual sadness beats my ass every month and I can't do anything about it

[artmagicly]

Geared up, ready to go! Follow me for more like this!

[thewindowofthesummerhouse]

Loputyn

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[eldritchbauble]

A lot clicked for me when my mom said the reason she was so reactive towards me as a kid was that she assumed intent behind things I did, rather than recognizing my behaviors for being normal kid behaviors or normal autism behaviors. So I got treated as if I was an adult who was intentionally doing things to upset her. She'd react to me like I had the maturity and wherewithal to do things in a cruel or manipulative way, making her life harder, when I was just existing. Just trying to learn how to cope and be a person myself. When she told me this I stopped in my tracks trying to process. Why would anyone's default assumption be that a kid is trying to antagonize them instead of like, struggling with something they're experiencing? But she was also raised the exact same way, treated like everything she did carried the weight of adult responsibility, not seen as a kid.

[assaultsofthought]

As a child therapist who focuses on audhd kids THIS!! So often parents put intent behind kids actions when it’s just “kid trying to feel safe and comfortable”. babies are not trying to “manipulate “ you, kids and teens are just pushing back to figure out the boundaries of their world, if a kid doesn’t like something don’t force it on them. Stop expecting better emotional regulation from your child than you’ve ever shown them.

[eldritchbauble]

Stop expecting better emotional regulation from your child than you've ever shown them.

[bethfuller]

does anyone have that unsettling oil painting of a dark window with a sheet leading out into the darkness? it did the rounds on tumblr a while ago and i need itttt

[bethfuller]

YES THANK YOU

Dragan Bibin, Dead of Night

[1989nihil]

@lee-and-other-things​

i don’t… see a dog???  👀

[captainhaterade]

Litmus test for “is the brightness on your phone too low for art appreciation”

[youneedtostudyives]

lovely ladies by akirablackpit

[everybody-loves-to-eat]

the worlds best fudge brownies

[anxietyproblem]

[tinykitchenvegan]

Rich & Comforting Vegan Potato Leek Soup

[keposhka]

it’s nonbinary feminine mustache frontman summer

[keposhka]

beautiful world where this exists