Onika

she/her, aspiring writer. I love various unpopular fandoms.

[imfierylilac]

✨ Welcome, wanderer! ✨

Hi there! I’m Onika, but feel free to call me Oni.

⚠️ Just so you know:

I’m a feminist

I’m Russian. If that’s a problem — you’re welcome to scroll past or remove me from your feed.

No racists, homophobes, pedophiles or sexists allowed. Period.

❤️ My favorite fandoms:

Nevermore — I’m completely obsessed. This webtoon has my heart.

Tales of Arcadia — I adore this show with my whole soul. Krel and Claire? Absolute faves.

Arcane — Top-tier animation. Viktor is my everything, no arguments.

✍️ About me:

I’m an aspiring writer, currently working on my own book.

Who knows, maybe one day I’ll start sharing chapters right here.

Thanks for stopping by and I hope you have a lovely day!

Feel free to message or follow if we vibe.

[aetas-aurea]

You do not have nine lives. You have one body, one timeline, one set of years that will not be returned to you for revision. The elderly people who say they thought they would live forever are not being poetic. They are describing a very specific and very common failure of the human imagination to make the future feel as real and as urgent as the present. Your future self is a real person who will live in the body and the circumstances and the consequences of the decisions you are making right now. She deserves better than to inherit the results of your present comfort and present avoidance.

[womynsreality]

I don’t get how so many tras cry about this app being hostile to trans women when their posts about “feminism” get like thousands of notes while actual women get traction from their little mutual circle and then a bunch of hate comments from tras.

Like I don’t get it

[p0pipos]

a male character could be a serial rapist, torturer, and murderer of women....... and then suddenly identify as trans and dumbasses on this app will be like "wow....... she was just expressing pain at repressing her womanhood.....🥰 i relate to her so much........ unproblematic fave.....isn't she lovely...🩷 look she put on a bow........bow means girl 💅💅💅💅"

[gnomebutch]

on one hand calling women you disagree with unattractive as if that devalues any of their points is textbook misogyny but on the other hand I am a disgusting little gnome freak and proud

[its-terf-or-nothin]

I hate how when boys draw penises, people just laugh and say “boys will be boys”, yet if girls were drawing vulvas I just know people would find some way to blame feminists and claim we indoctrinated them or some shit.

[thefemaleterrorist]

ugly males wearing lipstick and a wig claim to be women and get on here to say women aren’t oppressed based on their sex like why some yall let them get away with the audacity because so called allyship it’s beyond me

[honeyapplebutterfly]

When one woman is killed every ten minutes, that’s normal.

When a few trans women are killed in a year, that’s genocide.

When it happens to female humans, it’s expected. When it happens to male humans, it’s a shocking tragedy.

[sunwornink]

here is your daily reminder to COMMENT ON THE AO3 FICS YOU READ! it goes such a long way, especially if it’s a multi-chapter work and you can only leave kudos once. ANYTHING is an acceptable comment—emojis, keyboard smash, screaming, in-depth analysis! i promise you, the writers want it ALL

[womynsreality]

I don’t get how so many tras cry about this app being hostile to trans women when their posts about “feminism” get like thousands of notes while actual women get traction from their little mutual circle and then a bunch of hate comments from tras.

Like I don’t get it

[noblackwomannocry]

at some point you have to look into your own mirror and realise that if you helped to peddle the new rape culture where instead of "some bitch woman said it and they're always lying you can't believe anything they say a man did" it was "some bitch TME said it and they're always lying you can't believe anything they said a trans woman did", you were part of the problem.

not only were you part of the problem, you were actively contributing to the situation we're in now where a loli-loving pedophile who molested a child felt comfortable sharing her story about molesting a child and a supposed "transfeminist" gave her a platform because it's transmisogyny to want a child molester dead. and this is billed as not only feminism, but as transfeminism. trans-inclusive feminism is supposedly one where an actual child molester can freely sob about how maligned she is for having molested a real actual child and then go "idk transmisogyny i guess" and everyone has to listen.

if you ever shared some shit about "you have to listen to trans women you can never believe accusations against trans women": you were part of the problem. and by refusing to speak against this issue after helping to create it you continue to contribute to the problem.

[loserdogma]

It’s nails on a chalkboard to my ears when someone condemns the radfem movement by saying “you just tell women that all they have is trauma and terror and that’s what unites women as a class, it makes being a woman sound terrible.” Like.

Yeah babes. Connect with reality rq. Being a woman is great, yes, and it’s also largely fucking awful. Girlhood and womanhood is not a majority of unicorns and pink dresses; most women I know started getting harassed by adult men as puberty began to hit. For as much of girlhood and womanhood is fun and lovely, such a massive portion of it is the never-ending trauma of living under misogyny. Refusing to see that or being incapable to acknowledge that a large part of womanhood is the persecution faced daily is either stupid and shallow, or straight up misogynistic.

[hurupasyt]

The only thing this Paris Mwendwa discourse has taught me is that trans women really believe that they are synonymous with black women. Like they truly believe that white women are the default women and the rest of us are some type of woman, but not really women. The idea that racism and gender criticism are even close to being the same thing really proves to me that they don't know what oppression is. But we really can't expect much from people who think not being allowed to be feminine is the same level of harm as girls having their genitals cut off.

[imfierylilac]

It’s so disgusting when trans women even dare to equate their nonsense with what Black women go through.We’re talking about the horrors of slavery, segregation, and racism, but I also often think about the unfortunate Black women in poor African countries. Early marriages, reproductive and sexual violence, genital mutilation — this is the hell they live in.Trans women have never, I repeat, NEVER experienced anything like this. They insult Black women by comparing themselves to them.

[lesbofuturism]

yes this is my tiktok post whateverrr but why am i coddling trans people in this comment section like crazy and im still called transphobic for saying “feminists should be allowed to focus on female exclusive issues”

[theoretical-terf]

It's pretty clear that a lot of TIM anger comes from jealousy.

They're angry about TIFs being welcomed in lesbian spaces because they want to be there instead, they think they're more worthy of being there. They frame it as concern for "men in lesbian spaces" and it makes them furious, because they know inside that they are the actual men in lesbian spaces.

They're angry about women and TIFs talking about our sex based oppression, because they wish they had oppression to talk about. They try to claim they're oppressed for their dicks, but deep down they're aware that they know nothing about sex based oppression and never will.

They're extremely angry about lesbians existing. They grew up feeling entitled to women's bodies, and lesbians rejecting them made them angry because they wanted access to them. So they tried to make up a workaround by identifying as a lesbian, and it infuriates them when it doesn't work, because they so badly want to force women into having sex with them.

They all try to pretend their anger is about trans rights or justice, but in reality they're just painfully jealous that all they have is male experience and they'll never have anything else.

[g1rluninterruptedd]

i am not happy for pride month at all anymore genuinely. i feel like this community sometimes doesn’t even gaf about lesbians, they’re disrespectful as hell to black lesbians, people are disrespectful to bisexual women, labels mean nothing anymore, a bunch of corporations are gonna pretend to care (and for some reason people will buy it? no im not talking about parents doing it for their kids).

it just feels like nowadays being a part of the community is meant to be seen as different. “we’re here, we’re queer!” and it just feels like it’s meant to signal that we’re “other” and i don’t want to be other. i get that this community has a unique history and everything and i feel like it can be celebrated just fine without making it seem like we’re some third kind of human, some odd creatures or some shit.

[pomodororagazza]

a lot of women are peaking on tiktok because transwomen dogpiled one black girl for talking about female oppression (what’s new?) and now that other women are jumping to her defense and pointing out that they never felt like transwomen cared about women’s rights and expected unquestioning fealty they’re just dropping the feminist act all together. in what world does someone who is ambivalent about trans people at worst warrant them wishing death and unwanted pregnancies on them? how are women still doing olympic level gymnastics to defend these men???

these people are standing next to you seething because you’re talking about how roe v wade effects you, because you broke up with your bf when you found out he is in the manosphere, because you said you were feeling bad from your period. they’re going to reddit to post cisfoid death or complain that you made him feel excluded. they won’t ever be on your side.

these dudes are the biggest misogynists on the planet i hope every one of them had to put an M on their passport. (report this post too btw and let’s see if we can really ruin these dudes day)