Trouble

[theintrovertnation]

[astrologyqueenn]

top vs bottom

Acts like a top, is a top: aries, scorpio, sagittarius

Acts like a top, is a bottom: leo, gemini, virgo

Acts like a bottom, is a bottom: cancer, libra, pisces

Acts like a bottom, is a top: taurus, aquarius, capricorn

[bimbocracy]

Men think it’s ruder for a woman to say “don’t interrupt me” than it is for them to interrupt her in the first place

[fuckyallbitcheslol]

id probably call that ruder. Jus cause I interrupt someone don’t mean I was mentally thinking bout cutting this annoying ass bitch off. it just so happened my g.

[bimbocracy]

I know you would call that ruder. That’s what the post was about.

[bimbocracy]

Me: men think this

A man: no, actually I think exactly what you said men think

Me: right.

[sehnsuchttraum]

Things I want to tell people, that I wish people had told me:

You don’t have to achieve great things by the time you’re 25

You have intrinsic value above and beyond your perceived utility to other people and society at large. 

You don’t have to have sex, or have sex in any way that you find uncomfortable or unpleasant, to keep anyone’s love or good opinion of you. They didn’t love you or think very well of you to start with if they demand it. 

You don’t have to stay with someone who isn’t meeting your emotional or sexual needs because they need you, or you’ve been with them for awhile, or you need to be in a relationship. You need you. Your time is your own and it is finite. 

It’s ok to work at a job you enjoy that doesn’t make you miserable even if it’s not a career and it won’t “lead to anything.” 

Your life is not a narrative. It is not leading to anything, there is no overarching thesis, it does not have themes beyond the usual shared cultural experiences of your time and place. This is ok. It does not mean that your life is without purpose or meaning. 

It’s ok not to like or get along with the vast majority of people you encounter, so long as you afford them the same respect, courtesy and dignity that they afford you. 

Expensive is not always better. 

Failure is temporary if you’re still alive. 

People are both much better and much worse than you’d suspect, but usually not all at once. 

Stop thinking of your future self as a different person and it will be easier to prevent money and health problems. 

Let people help you, lean on them when you need to, and be available to help, but don’t swing too far in either direction. Try to carry your half of the life basket as evenly as you can. 

Set boundaries, and do not be afraid to kick people out of your life who disregard them. You will not end up alone and unloved. People who love you will be ok with your boundaries. 

Your power does not come from money or beauty, but from seeing life steadily and wholly, from a curious and thoughtful mind, and from your ability to say no when you want to, and yes when you want to, and I don’t know when you don’t know. 

There will be bad times, maybe lots of bad times, but not only bad times. 

Love will not heal the wounds in your soul, but love can give you the impetus to begin the work of healing yourself. 

Life might be a long series of starting over, and that’s alright. 

You’re really cool, you’re really beautiful, you’re really special. Really. Not to everyone, but to a lot of someones sometimes. 

[doomedyuri]

favourite lotr scenes: [1/?]

 'The way is shut. It was made by those who are Dead, and the Dead keep it, until the time comes. The way is shut.’

[imtrouble2016]

One of the best movies of all time. :)

[amargedom]

“Stay close to anything that makes you glad that you’re alive.”

— Hafiz (via naturaekos)

[wnq-quoteoftheday]

Yasmin Mogahed | @wnq-quoteoftheday

[babyanimalgifs]

Cuteness overload

[missymalice]

“young adult dystopian novels are so unrealistic lmao like they always have some random teenage girl rising up to inspire the world to make change.”

a hero emerges 

[inkgut-deactivated20180603]

And just like in the novels, grown men and women are going out of their way to destroy her. Support our hero.

[freifraufischer]

And it’s not even like it doesn’t happen regularly.  

Teenage girls are amazing.

[queen-of-the-merry-men]

Sometimes they’re not even teenagers

[missymalice]

I’ve been reposting this a lot to argue with conservatives who wanna mouth off, but here is a Genuinely Good Addition. 💖💖💖

[bemusedlybespectacled]

Though while we’re on the subject of teenagers, particularly teenage girls…

[spillywolf-deactivated20190920]

sometimes praying is like

Dear God,

-incoherent screaming-

[christ-be-all-around-me-deactiv]

luckily the Holy Spirit can translate!

[power-and-love]

”hi God, all i really have to say is *cries*”

[caffeinatedcatholic]

Me @ God: *incoherent screaming*

Holy Spirit @ God: help her

[toomucherin]

In case y'all didn’t know this is literally exactly what the bible says Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. Romans 8:26

[buzzfeed]

i’m not crying, you’re crying

[ccabellodaily]

Camila Cabello for Vogue Mexico

[phalaenopfish]

Please don’t take your pets for granted. Even if you’re frustrated that your dog has been barking all day or your bird has been screaming for attention, remember you are all they have in this world. Give your fish that extra water change. Give your dog or cat that tummy rub they’ve been begging for. Chop up some fresh fruit as a treat for your rodents or reptiles. Just spend some time with them. Be compassionate to your animals. They are living creatures that are alive simply because you wish them to be. They may only be a small part in your life, but to them, you are their everything.

[purplebuddhaquotes]

Relax. You will become an adult. You will figure out your career. You will find someone who loves you. You have a whole lifetime; time takes time. The only way to fail at life is to abstain.

Johanna de Silentio (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[suckedin]

[leslady79]

43 Female TV And Film Characters Who Empowered And Inspired Us In 2017

We want to be you when we grow up.

1. Valkyrie from Thor: Ragnarok

The women from The Handmaid’s Tale

4. The Amazons from Wonder Woman 

5. Princess Diana of Themyscira, Daughter of Hippolyta, from Wonder Woman

Bonus

40. Wynonna, Waverly, and Nicole from Wynonna Earp

“All of the ladies on Wynonna Earp, but especially Wynonna Earp herself. That queen was pregnant and still kicked ass. She is such a complex character.”

full list

[sleepbby]

Fran Drescher in The Nanny (1993-99). Extremely relevant, not just because of current events, but also because Fran is a survivor of sexual assault

[imtrouble2016]

Wow... I didn’t know her caracter had suffer sexual abuse.