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adult, he/him🏳️‍⚧️ im ngl this is fully just a place to archive posts i like and want to see again, i dont reccomend following cuz i dont queue anything i just post a bunch all in one go and dip

[cam-orange]

sorry... that was a bit harsh...

[bebsi-cola]

disabled people are often in permacrisis

[bebsi-cola]

there's never enough money each month. there's always an unexpected illness. new symptoms pop up or old symptoms flare up. meds have to be managed always and refilled constantly and any refill has the opportunity to go wrong. any regular care has the opportunity to go wrong. any mistake can send your health spiralling. it's always "i just need to get through this bad patch" but as soon as one ends another begins. another crisis begins in the middle of the last crisis. managing one thing leaves another thing to be neglected until that becomes a major issue and has to be managed asap and the cycle starts anew over and over and over

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

via prev

[pinkinink]

Ok yeah no yeah awesome no yeah cool beans

[maidling-deactivated20260401]

[the-owl-tree]

i'll always make fun of how stupid the "born evil baby" trope is but truly it is such a wretched trope i hope it dies forever

[the-owl-tree]

it's like the perfect package of "child you are allowed to harm" and "easy way to not interrogate how commonplace child abuse is". thank goodness this child was simply born wrong, we never have to examine the conditions they grew up in.

[thefriendlypigeon]

❤️💙💛GRACEFUL💛💙❤️

⭐[my social media links]

[amaijm]

doodle

[ryanthel0ser]

One of the design principles through every Trigun iteration that I just adore and is brilliant to me is how Vash with his coat on completely hides the fact he is extremely well built under it. His 98 and manga versions may have the big shoulders but you go "oh he's some lanky dude," then Stampgaze he's so swallowed by the coat he looks even smaller.

Then the coat comes off and GOOD LORD

The scars are the least shocking part of these scenes to me, it's the massive fuckin tits

[valtsv]

my that one friend that's too woke opinion is that in a similar vein to how you almost never see fat people or women without makeup on tv you never really see anyone experiencing incontinence issues unless it's a humiliating comedic moment at their expense and that's kind of scary

[valtsv]

like sorry to be the bearer of bad news but people piss themselves. when they're afraid. when they've experienced mental and/or physical trauma and their body needs a way to express that stress. when they've been sexually assaulted. when they get older and their muscles start to wear out from a lifetime of service. a not insignificant majority of people Will experience incontinence in their lifetimes and while there are steps you can take to manage it for your own comfort and others', there's simply no moral dimension to it whatsoever. & like i'm not saying every show and movie needs checkhov's bed wetting scene but we have seriously got to get more okay with acknowledging that somehow.

[valtsv]

[radiqueer]

Human relationships are not transactional but they are reciprocal, which I think many of you with your ‘i don’t owe anyone anything’ shtick are too happy to forget

[aromanticduck]

Transactional: everything has to be exactly 50/50 all the time, pay me back for the £5 sandwich or buy me something worth exactly £5, I refuse to make an effort for you if there’s nothing in it for me

Reciprocal: you were there for me when I needed help, and I’m going to do the same for you, it doesn’t matter if one of us needs more or is capable of less, because the point is not equivalent exchange but mutual care

[glowingemberz]

This bit for everyone who fears they are a burden to the friendship everytime they need the other person

[cazort]

one bit i’d add is that valuation of favors and work and even material goods, money, and time is subjective

a rich, busy person might find their time much more valuable than their money and might be willing to be really generous on the financial burdens, but might really appreciate a favor someone did for them that saved them a lot of time

someone who is lonely and loves driving and has a car in great shape might really appreciate giving a friend a ride to some distant destination so they could talk the whole way in the car

someone who is trying to get better at cooking or baking might really love having people eat their food in exchange for feedback or a critique

also…friendships and mutual aid both work better when you’re not exactly the same as the others. if someone needs the exact same things you do, and has the exact same things to offer, you might end up seeming like a bit of a burden on each other. this is where knowing a diversity of people can help you a lot. people from different ages, cultural backgrounds, socioeconomic statuses, can often help each other out in ways that people within highly homogeneous groups cannot

don’t measure your own contributions by your own valuations. listen to other people about what they want or need, and what they have to offer. be open to the possibility that others might have wildly different valuations, and you will stumble onto those win-win interactions where you both feel like you’re benefiting hugely from the interaction.

like, oh, i really wanted to get rid of this thing, and you really want this thing. perfect. oh, i really want practice doing this service for someone, and you really want this service done, perfect. i really want to hear someone’s trauma and you really want someone to open up to about your trauma, perfect.

making these connections is like the hugest life hack ever and when you learn how to feel out new people and find these connections it makes so much in your life easier

[theslowesthnery]

🥹🥹🥹

[kinuko]

Why did she say that

[renibet]

🥂

[renibet]

🖤

[beastliness]

hate it when the people who I love are suffering due to circumstances beyond my control 👎 there should be a sea monster that I can slay to fix the problem

[beastliness]

nobody ever gets locked in a tower or chained to a rock at sea anymore - it's always some shit like chronic illness or ptsd related depression

[lesvegas]

passing in public makes me feel like white shrek

[lesvegas]

literally how it feels

[emilicorail]

It makes me so sad to see how depressed and guilty Razlo feels because of what happened after his fight :C