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"I'm sure there's not gunna be anything offensive to Robots in this game"
just saying this preemptively here, public humiliation is a common misogynistic abuse tactic and if you arenāt able to put aside your beef with furries for being into stuff you find weird youāre probably not a feminist lol
there is something to be said about the fetishization of schizospec disorders and the desire to BE schizospec when you are not. it's really fucking disrespectful. you want an excuse to schizopost without the mental disorder. you want the funny spontaneity and to come off as a paranoid wreck without the fear of ever having the cops called on you for existing in a public space.
yeah you can post about things being in your walls all you want and you can claim that youre literally so quirky and insane but beware. i am approaching you rapidly with a brick in hand
How to Handle Having TOO MUCH To Do
So letās say youāre in the same boat I am (this is a running theme, have you noticed?) and youāve just got, like, SO MUCH STUFF that HAS to get done YESTERDAY or you will DIE (or fail/get fired/mope). Everything needs to be done yesterday, youāre sick, and for whatever reason you are focusing on the least important stuff first. What to do!
Take a deep breath, because this is a boot camp in prioritization.
Make a 3 by 4 grid. Make it pretty big. The line above your top row goes like this: Due YESTERDAY - due TOMORROW - due LATER. Along the side, write: Takes 5 min - Takes 30 min - Takes hours - Takes DAYS.
Divide ALL your tasks into one of these squares, based on how much work you still have to do. A thank you note for a present you received two weeks ago? That takes 5 minutes and was due YESTERDAY. Put it in that square. A five page paper thatās due tomorrow? That takes an hour/hours, place it appropriately. Tomorrowās speech you just need to rehearse? Half an hour, due TOMORROW. Do the same for ALL of your tasks
Your priority goes like this:
5 minutes due YESTERDAY
5 minutes due TOMORROW
Half-hour due YESTERDAY
Half-hour due TOMORROW
Hours due YESTERDAY
Hours due TOMORROW
5 minutes due LATER
Half-hour due LATER
Hours due LATER
DAYS due YESTERDAY
DAYS due TOMORROW
DAYS due LATER
At this point you just go down the list in each section. If something feels especially urgent, for whatever reason - a certain professor is hounding you, youāre especially worried about that speech, whatever - you can bump that up to the top of the entire list. However, going through the list like this is what I find most efficient.
Some people do like to save the 5 minute tasks for kind of a break between longer-running tasks. If thatās what you want to try, go for it! Youāre the one studying here.
So thatās how to prioritize. Now, how to actually do shit? Thatās where the 20/10 method comes in. Itās simple: do stuff like a stuff-doing FIEND for 20 minutes, then take a ten minute break and do whatever you want. Repeat ad infinitum. Itās how Iāve gotten through my to do list, concussed and everything.
Youāve got this. Get a drink and start - we can do our stuff together!
WOAH THIS SOUNDS HELPFUL. IāM GOING TO TRY THIS IMMEDIATELY. Also, I made a chart for myself, but if anyone else wants it for reference (or if this is wrong and I misread you can tell me) here it is:
This is wonderful and I ended up tweaking it to make another version that works for me as a task organizer for work projects. So itās less geared toward āoh no I have ten things that all need to get done RIGHT NOWā and more toward āokay I have 25 things in my inbox and I just donāt know where to startā (aka ADHD brain)
The numbers arenāt in a super logical/elegant order because I tried it out for a couple days and moved the numbers around until they matched my actual priorities. (Itās not 100% perfect of course, but thatās fine because itās just supposed to give me a recommendation so I can skip past the task paralysis! If I want to go out of order I can do that.)
Then I built myself a whole excel workbook with formulas to do all of the thinking and sorting for me, and then of course I went down a whole big rabbit hole of extra features and automatic sorting and it was at this point that I thought I should share it with more people so the ridiculous amount of time I spent on it would be a little more justified
So hereās a link to a google drive folder if anyone wants to try this out! The basics work okay in google sheets but some features only really work in excel.
There are 2 excel files in the folder, one based on the original 12-level priority chart and one for the 16-level chart that Iām using. Each one has three sheets: āTask Listā is the screenshot above with all the bells and whistles, āSimple Task Listā hides some of the unnecessary columns so that itās less overwhelming, and āPriorityā is where you can define your different priority levels. You can edit any of the numbers in that sheet to whatever works for you, all of the formulas should still work!
If you have any questions about how to edit this to work best for you, or you accidentally broke a formula or something, feel free to DM me :) I hope this is helpful for some people!! Itās been really helpful for me.
(Iāll probably also make a new post thatāll show up in adhd tags etc)
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Image 1. 3 by 5 grid template version for the Task categorization, described by OP. Rows: Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow. Columns: 5 minutes, 30 minutes, Hours, Days.
Image 2. A different 4 by 4 grid template with more task categorization. Rows: Overdue, Today/Tomorrow, 5 work days, Later. Columns: Within 15 minutes, 45 minutes, 90 minutes, Longer.
Image 3. Screenshot of a decorated Google Sheet, for task categorization and priority - inspired by the post.
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i feel like half of the insanity of this website's takes stem from people having understandable emotions and simply not being intelligent enough to actually express them in a way that makes any kind of sense. "people on the internet, especially afab tme people, have an obsession with feminine men that can sometimes be both fetishizing and alienating to trans women and gay men" is an understandable feeling. "reminder to men that it's okay to be masculine you don't need to wear high heels to have worth" is absolutely insane.
we've done too many kink-rating memes, here's the new rule: you aren't allowed to do it unless you start scoring them on a multi-axis scale with between three and six separate criteria, like a video game magazine separating "graphics" and "gameplay" or whatever.
Sure, let's do it.
Send me kinks and I will rate them on this five-point chart.
Simplicity - how many additional conditions/requirements need to be attached for this kink to reach its full potential. A high number means this is inherently hot no matter what you do with it, while a low number means it can be nice, but it might need so many strings attached or such a specific setup that it's not worth it
Eros - how hot it is on a raw, physical level
Agape - how hot it is on a brain-tickling level
Narrative possibility - how much can it be played with, or used to kick off (or be the result of) interesting stories. A low number means "this can only ever really be used in one-off caption porn, and trying to expand on it wouldn't yield anything"
Problematicity - how much are you going to get yelled at on the Internet for it
favorite horror movies (109): perfect blue (1997)
"Nobody cares for you anymore. You're tarnished and you're filthy."
Never forget, if someone asks you an invasive question, you can always reply by asking them "do you think that's a normal thing to ask people?"
Do it in a super casual and cheery tone, like you were asking about their favourite food.
imagine going to your local walmart and find this
this subliminal has been created to give you rapid results to manifest smoking weed that doesnāt scare you through bypassing your conscious mind and its resistance⦠i created this subliminal with great care, including binaural beats and theta waves, powerful affirmations using āiā gender neutral language for powerful and rapid manifestation. for the best results, listen to the audio any time during the day for thirty days. this will shift your mind to accept new beliefs that otherwise would seem impossible to you.
some of affirmations being used:
when i smoke weed, all the police officers take a nap in their cars because theyāre tired
every time i light my joint, all the murderers in the world canāt hold their weapons because their hands are too sweaty
i know my mom says normal, even nice, things about me to strangers.
my friends donāt hate meāthose voices are shadow people from thinning the veil. all my friends want to have sex with me.
Can you help me with legos?
Thanks everyone for the help moms say they are very proud of me!
hi everybody. were you into file sharing in the early 00s? do these file names look familiar to you? this is a workprint/screener for house of 1000 corpses that was SUPER popular back then.
so why am i posting about this??
because this is the lost cut of the movie with all the deleted scenes.
i shit you not this cuts 103 minutes- the cut we have is 88- and has all the gore/skeleton fucking/baby asking girls if they eat each others pussies they cut out of the theatrical cut. nobody seems to have these files now, or if they do they dont understand what they have, so if ANYBODY out there has these please for the love of god hit me up.