One thing about me is I would always prefer the found family be unhealthily codependent little freaks than “grow up” and become people that only see each other or talk on special occasions. I want them ENMESHED in each other’s lives PERMANENTLY.
Individualism like we know it in society is a product of white supremacy. It's actually healthy and normal for human beings to be enmeshed communally and it's unnatural for humans to be hyperindivualist loners who only see people they love once a year or so
Let the found family coregulate. It's not immature or unnatural or bad, it's decolonized and anticap


















