ISFP Probs

A collection of posts, memes, and advice for all your ISFP problems

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ISFP’s functions as Disney princess GIFs

Dominant Function (Fi): True to heart

Auxiliary Function (Se): In the moment

Teriary Function: (Ni): Skeptical but hopeful

Inferior Function (Te): Orderly yet overwhelmed

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What are the differences between infp and isfp? Because I already tested myself a couple of time and the result shows either infp or isfp.

ISFPs and INFPs often look like each other at a glance and can be difficult to differentiate.  I will try my best to help you (and others who have wondered the same thing) figure out which of these two MBTI types matches you best!

The main difference between the ISFP and INFP is whether you utilize the sensing function (the “S” in ISFP) or the intuition function (the “N” in INFP) to gather information.  Both are used in the same way, but they usually focus on different information.

ISFP - extraverted sensing (Se):  When types use the sensing function, they are focused on the here and now.  They enjoy learning and discovering new activities, experiences, and adventures by trying them out themselves and love the exciting things new adventures bring.  ISFPs like to get hands-on when it comes to trying things, and they typically enjoy soaking up the sights, sounds, and smells around them.  They are typically the people you see savoring every moment and lose track of time doing activities they love.  ISFPs are also fairly practical and straight-forward people.  While they can sometimes come across as blunt or even shy/quiet, it is possibly because they express themselves better with actions rather than words.

INFP - extraverted intuition (Ne): When types use the intuition function, they are focused on all the possibilities that can occur.  They like to focus on the future and what “could be” by noticing patterns and connections between objects and their environment.  Rather than experiencing one thing at a time, INFPs like to look at the big picture and think about the potential each experience could reach.  They tend to focus on what to do or experience next and have a difficult time sticking with just one idea or plan for the long-haul.

To compare these two types side to side, below is a situation where both types are participating in the same activity, but get different experiences out of it:

ISFP and INFP are both individual social media influencers who have traveled to a fun new city to take some eye-catching photos to post on their pages.  However, they have two different approaches to their photography adventure.ISFP most likely will play it by ear by walking down along the streets and if they happen to see some amazing wall art, or stumble into a trendy cafe, they’d take a few photos and continue to enjoy the sights and sounds the environment is providing them.  INFP would probably have scoped out the best places in advance to best utilize their time.  They want their photos to be individual pieces of a cohesive story/experience.  They would focus on taking their photos first, and if they happened upon a fun shop, or ice cream parlour, they would most likely come back to it after their photo session was completed.

Hopefully, this helped make some things a bit clearer.  If you have further questions about the MBTI functions, I highly recommend this article: https://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2015/06/if-youre-confused-about-your-myers-briggs-personality-type-read-this-an-intro-to-cognitive-functions/

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Sensors attempting to relate to their Intuitive friends

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Heeeey so im isfp and like all the descriptions fit me except for the artist part? Om sooo not an artist does that make me not an isfp?

You can definitely still be an ISFP despite not having a passion for art!

Most ISFPs tend to gravitate towards different types of art as a way to stimulate their Se function while also using it as a way to express their outlook on life and their inner thoughts.  However, this doesn’t mean all ISFPs are artists.  There are many different activities and experiences that speak to non-artistic ISFPs (such as sports, cooking/baking, traveling, etc.).

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Is it just me, or are all ISFPs r e a l l y bad at texting back right away, if at all?

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ISFP having to work a 9-5 desk job

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Unintentionally Neglected Asks ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If you’ve followed this blog for a while, you’ll know half of it is ISFP content, and the other half is me apologizing for not posting/replying

I do get notifications, but sometimes either the ask notification alludes my attention, or I might be doing some research/thinking about how to respond to your question. All that in mind, if you’ve sent me an unanswered ask in the past year (har har, but to be honest it’s been a few months...oops), I’ll try my best to get to it as soon as I can. Thanks for all of your patience!

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Explaining Emotions: Difficult or Doable?

{This post is for any fellow ISFPs who have opinions and experiences that they would like to share and discuss with other ISFPs}

So, lately I’ve been frustrated with how I don’t always convey how I’m feeling to other people in the best way.  By that, I mean someone might notice I’m not quite myself and ask what is wrong, but I can’t seem to explain my current emotion or exactly why I’m feeling the way I do at that moment.

It’s almost as if I have to process internally why I feel upset before I can even admit to someone I’m feeling upset at all (even though it might be obvious by my body language already).

Most situations are naturally easier/faster to internally comprehend, but unfortunately, it’s usually the complicated situations or the days where little things add up to where you’re not feeling right but don’t know the exact reason why (or how to verbalize it).

With all this being said, I was curious if other ISFPs have trouble with this and/or have an explanation as to why an ISFP might have this type of problem more (or possibly less) than a different type.  Feel free to discuss and share!

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reblog with your type & your partner or your closest’s friend type

Little survey

INTP - ENFJ

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INTJ - INTP

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INTP- no data available

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INTP - ENFJ

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INTP - INTJ

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ENTJ - INFJ

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ISTP - INTP

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INTP - ENTJ and ENTP (my two [only] closest friends)

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ISFP - INFJ

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ISFP

One of my best friends is an ISFP and she would like to hear from other ISFPs, but it seems like they don’t exist in this world. Any ISFP out there?

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Reasons why ISFP is being quiet

Something someone said or something in the room gave us an idea and we’ve zoned out trying to plan or visualize it.  AKA daydreaming.

We prefer to get to know you by listening and observing. We want to see if your behavior lines up with what you say, if you’re funny, if we have anything in common, if you’re a safe person to trust before we really open up.  

We may not have anything to contribute to the conversation. This can mean that the thought we had has been spoken already, so it would be inefficient to speak it again.  It can also mean that we really don’t know much about the subject and want to research and process to form our own opinions before we speak up about it. We don’t see this as hiding or withholding our opinion. If we speak up, we want to make a significant contribution to the group. We’re not into adding to the noise or making conversation for its own sake.

We’re thinking about what to say, and sometimes we just don’t move fast enough.  Often the conversation moves so quickly that we just aren’t able to come up with something meaningful to say fast enough to fit between comments. This is especially true when we’re quiet in a group setting.

We can’t always put what we’re thinking into words you’ll understand.  I can’t say this is true for all ISFPs, but I’m a visual thinker: which means I think in images, feelings, and broad concepts more than concrete words or sentences. Sometimes I really can’t put my thoughts into words at all.  This is why we tend to gravitate toward artistic occupations or hobbies; it’s easier to express ourselves through showing rather than telling most of the time, especially if it’s a thought that affects us strongly. (which leads to the next point)

We dislike being misunderstood. We find it’s often better or easier to keep something private if we know the other person just won’t get it or saying something will result in criticism (or both).  We’re pretty sensitive but don’t like to come across that way.

Sometimes we just like to sit back and drink in the moment: sights, sounds, smells, conversation. We can’t fully take in everything when we’re talking. 

We’re weird and we know it…but we also like connecting with other people and tend to avoid conflict.  If we know that revealing what we’re really thinking means that we may not be accepted by the group, we’ll often just keep that thought to ourselves.  It’s not worth debating something unless we truly, 100%, heart and soul believe in it.  

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Self-Care & Helpful Tips for ISFP “The Artist”

Functions: Fi-Se-Ni-Te

Strengths

Charming

Sensitive to others

Imaginative

Passionate

Curious

Artistic

Weaknesses

Fiercely independent

Unpredictable

Easily stressed

Overly competitive

Fluctuating self-esteem

Turn-on = Tenderness

Turn-off = Cruelty

What stresses ISFP out

Rigid structure and rules

Having to violate their deeply held values

Not enough alone time. Too much extraverting.

Too many demands or obligations.

Having to deal with excessive data

Long-term planning

Criticism

Lack of appreciation from others

Feeling that they are about to lose something (relationship/task, etc,..)

How to help an ISFJ experiencing stress

Give them some time alone to process their feelings and thoughts

Validate their feelings, and listen to them. Female ISFPs are often ready to talk sooner about their feelings than male ISFPs

Remind them of their strengths.

Don’t give them advice. It won’t help when they’re stressed.

Don’t try to reason with them or be logical. Just be patient, calm, and affirming.

Only after they’ve calmed down from the stress ask if they’d like any help with solutions.

How ISFP handle Grief

Talk about it with someone close

How ISFP handle Guilt

Over-apologetic

Try to make up for it

What ISFP are like when Sad

Retreat inwardly

Distance themselves from negative things & people

What ISFP need after a Bad Day

Patience and a fun physical distraction

What ISFP do when Angry

Holds in their anger and avoids the person they’re mad at, possibly for the rest of their lives.

What ISFP Should do Instead

Explain to the opposing party why their feelings were hurt and then ask to hear their side of the situation.

What ISFP Struggle with

Being predictable

What ISFP are Hard on themselves for…

Constantly worry how they are perceived by others

ISFP’s Purpose in Life is

Splash color into a grey world

What ISFP need to know

Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn’t mean they are challenging who you are as a person. Try not to be wounded by their lack of sensitivity.

What ISFP should never forget

Your unique view of the world helps us to open our minds and our hearts. Your sensitivity and caring heart is something to be treasured.

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MBTI types and what they look at first meeting

If you share intetest and spontaneity: ISFJ, INFJ, ENFJ, ESFJ

If you share beliefs and you aren’t fake: INFP, ISFP, ENFP, ESFP

How you behave and coherence: ISTJ, ISTP, ESTJ, ESTP

What are your opinions and why: INTJ, INTP, ENTJ, ENTP

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When you see an xNFP/xSFP get angry

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ISFP on a bad day:

“Woe is me!” (Lays around helplessly)

“Woe is me!” (Consumes excessive amounts of sugar)

“Woe is me!” (Consumes everything in the house for that matter)

“Woe is me!” (Binge watches Netflix)

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The Types Inner Mantra When Things Go Wrong

ENFP/ENTP: “I need to start over.”

INFJ/INTJ: “I need a different perspective.”

ESFP/ESTP: “I need to get closer.”

ISFJ/ISTJ: “I need to focus myself.”

ESFJ/ENFJ: “I need to walk through this again.”

ISFP/INFP: “I need to be alone.”

ESTJ/ENTJ: “I need to do it myself.”

ISTP/INTP: “I need more time.”

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Uhmmmn Hi! It's me, Does having an Ixxx (introverted) partner works out best for an isfp. Since many says that if you are an introvert you should have an extroverted partner. Will it work out best?

Hi there! :) I think that an introverted partner can work well with another introvert in certain situations just as well as an extrovert and an introvert. With two introverts, it's nice to understand that while they love each other, they also can appreciate some solitude when needed. With my INFJ, he and I often enjoy being in the same room while doing completely different things on our own. I think the idea that an extrovert partner helps balance out the introvert is true for most cases, but there's definitely something to be said for having a mutual understanding between two introverts that some alone time is beneficial and appreciated! (๑˃̵ᴗ˂̵)