doing life quietly

ISFP 3w4 sp/so    

[zynhamus-deactivated20230529]

Sevmeyerek baktığı bir şeyde güzellikler görmesi zordur insanın....

Sevgiyle baktığında ise,

en sıradan şeylerdeki gizlenmiş güzellikleri görebilir.....

İbn-i Sina

11.11.2021 23:39 #newsharing

[spicyshimmy-blog]

if you mention star trek in front of me what happens next is your fault not mine

[atomicfilm]

MBTI types as lies

ENTP: lying about facts (”it was a hyperbole, okay?”)

INTP: lying by omission (is it really lying?)

INFP: white lies to avoid hurting someone’s feelings (but they end up somehow hurting their own)

ENFP: lying about your situation to gain pity/sympathy

INTJ: lying to cope with reality (they may be regarded as being a pathological liar but they don’t think of it that way)

ENTJ: lying about your federal income (”I didn’t have to report cash tips on my tax report, geez, it’s legal.”)

INFJ: accidentally lying because you forgot what your favorite movie is

ENFJ: lying to protect yourself and loved ones from criticism 

ISTP: lying about lying (”I’ve never lied before. Except for like three times…maybe more…”)

ESTP: lying about how much you can bench and what sports you play/watch (your favorite basketball team is the Los Angeles Angels? They’re a baseball team…)

ESFP: lying to make your anecdotes more interesting (”Susie, stop talking to my mom to verify my stories, it’s annoying!”)

ISFP: lying about your own self-worth (you’re perfect)

ISFJ: lying about how much money you have because you really want to buy someone a meal (even if you’re going to go into debt for it)

ESFJ: lying to your mom and immediately regretting it, then vowing to never lie again (or at least, not until your next report card)

ISTJ: lying when someone asks you about your crush (”crush? I have never had a crush in my life! Cooties!”) (Unless you’re not, that’s cool too.)

ESTJ: lying about your feelings to keep up your guard (it’s okay to be vulnerable, I know, it doesn’t feel like it is, but if someone hurts you that’s on their conscious)

[safe-haven-safe-place]

[mbtiandstuffz]

I mean option A) isn’t that far off from the truth….

[studio-thomas-walsh]

Little the mushroom climbs a tree 🍄🌳🐝

[anneuhken-deactivated20200828]

my kid has started to write stories and like, no lies, they’re funny as fuck

[anneuhken-deactivated20200828]

actual dialogue:

“to your battle stations, boys! it’s time to line up and see who’s tall enough for the roller coaster to hell!! some of us may not survive this, but the ones that do will get the ultimate reward.... paid.”

[anneuhken-deactivated20200828]

“here’s a penny for your thoughts, and a quarter to not tell me them”

B A B E

[anneuhken-deactivated20200828]

“everyone knows those quiet girls. the ones who never say anything at school unless a teacher makes them. the ones who you see every day but don’t know what they sound like when they laugh. lindsey is not one of those girls, but the teacher wishes she was.”

[anneuhken-deactivated20200828]

“lindsey was always loud, especially when she was being kind. she didn’t smile at people to make them happier, she screamed all the reasons they shouldn’t be sad. it was hard not to listen.”

i can’t wait to read this book tbh

[anneuhken-deactivated20200828]

thanks for all the love!!

the story is part one in a series she’s gonna write called “the 23 islands” and it’s about a planet with 23 island like lands that have like..... nothing around them?? an unknown drop and total darkness surrounding them, and each island is like a different thing?? idk how to explain it but one island is like an ancient rainforest and one is snowy mountains and one is like still in the middle ages but another has flying cars??? and it’s about a group of friends trying to find a way off their island because it’s dangerous there, and hopefully to a more habitable one??? i guess they don’t find it tho because each book is a different island

[cipheramnesia]

These are all amazing.

[typing-mbti]

Some common misconceptions

Ni isn't about planning the future, but keeping making connection about how things will probably be in the future

Si isn't about having good memory, but sticking at their own experience to validate and understand things

Ti isn't about being intelligent, but looking for logical correctness in a detailed and specifical way

Fi isn't about general values, but trying to be always coherent about how they act and how they internally are

[chunkecheeks]

My local red robin has a framed painting of data in the bathroom hallway

[itsme-isfp]

And I'll take one of these for my office, please and thanks

[typing-mbti]

Some common misconceptions

Ni isn't about planning the future, but keeping making connection about how things will probably be in the future

Si isn't about having good memory, but sticking at their own experience to validate and understand things

Ti isn't about being intelligent, but looking for logical correctness in a detailed and specifical way

Fi isn't about general values, but trying to be always coherent about how they act and how they internally are

[caleod]

1-11-21

[itsme-isfp]

Final Autumn Days

[itsme-isfp]

What can I do to improve my mental health

Hmm, well I don’t know much about your specific situation and I’m not a trained professional. So here’s some simple advice from a fellow human who is often anxious and lonely:

Talk to someone. This can be as simple as making small talk with someone in the checkout line or waving to a neighbor while taking a walk. If you need to get the weight of life off your chest, find someone safe to talk about what’s going on in your life (can be a friend or professional).

Get outdoors for a few minutes everyday. Sunshine and fresh air are good for the soul (also vitamin D helps boost your mood and you get that from sunlight. Science.)

Make time to do something you like or be with someone who makes you feel happy inside. That someone could be a friend, neighbor, family member, pet, or that person with cool socks you spotted at the grocery store. Make a pie, rewatch a movie you like, call your grandma, for example. If you can’t immediately identify something you’d rather be doing right now, try some things.

Establish healthy bedtime and morning routines. Consistency helps keep your brain healthy and happy. Do what works for you, whether you’re a morning person, night owl, or something in between. The key is to avoid dramatic differences in your sleep and daily schedule that can lead to sleep deficits and interruptions to other self-care habits (eating, hygiene, etc.).

Be kind to yourself and accept that some days there will be progress and some days will suck regardless of your best efforts. You’re still a good human if things aren’t perfect.

Beyond that, please note that symptoms that interrupt your ability to function and do the things necessary to survive (i.e. maintain a daily rhythm, work a job, sleep, etc.) are an indicator that something is wrong and you should seek help. It could be a physical problem, it could be emotional trauma, and it might take awhile to get to the root of the issue. However, from someone who has suffered from depression caused by physical issues and now has treatment options, know that it’s worth seeking answers.

Hope things get better for you friend.

[itsme-isfp]

How are you doing today?

To quote Lt. Commander Data: "I am functioning within normal parameters." Thanks for asking :)

[itsme-isfp]

What do you think of entp isfp friendship do you know any entps ? Are they scary as google say they are ? Because I really get bubbly cute vibes from them :(

Ohmygoodness ENTPs are so much fun!

I think the ISFP/ENTP friendship doesn’t get many good vibes from the internet simply because they don’t seem like a pair that would naturally gravitate towards each other, theoretically speaking. I kind of ran into my ENTP bestie by accident; he walked into my workplace a few years ago as a new hire.  He was a little shy at first, but I had a training shift with him early on. By the end of the week, we were teasing each other and goofing off like we’d known each other for years.  Generally I’ve found them to be bubbly, fun, and mischievous, with a soft caring side that comes out when you’re not expecting it.  So yeah, they’ll sass and tease and play the devil’s advocate sometimes, but they’re definitely not scary.  

[catchymemes]

[ironwoman359]

This is the greatest thing

[damn-shawty]

So wholesome,,,

[another-enfj]

Mbti Types as Gift Givers

DISCLAIMER: I lub all the types.  Stereotypes used.  Spelling has been compromised.   ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ

ISFJ - makes you a super sentimental gift from scratch (if level 10 grandma, then didn’t need to pull an all nighter to finish your beloved gift) - laced with love, unicorn tears, and mermaid dreams

INFJ - *pinterests* *tumblrs* *scours the whole internet for the perfect gift for you*  Ends up with an incredibly thoughtful DIY gift that fills in a void you never knew you had

ISFP - 10/10 will make something for you.  1/10 will forget to give it to you. 8/10 of you will not have any idea where to hang it/what to do with it.  1/10 of you will be surprised by the gift bc you forgot your own bday.  1/10 of all isfp gifts is a flower crown

INFP - will make you cry with their gift because it is something you briefly mentioned 0.3 times offhandedly that one time.  Just kidding! They’ll prolly make themselves cry when they tell you the deep emotional backstory behind their gift and it’s secret heart-wrenching significance that has nothing to do with you

INTJ - practical gift giver #1! If they run out of ideas, they might skip the gift altogether and plot world domination instead.  It’s thoughtful because as a gift to you, they won’t make you a minion/slave worker in their new world order

ISTJ - practical gift giver #2! gift card giver! might give you a textbook/rulebook/agenda/notebook-to-write-more-rules/anything-to-organize-your-mess-of-a-life 

ISTP - gets you something to do - i.e. sports equipment, gym membership, woodworking lessons, fix-your-car-yourself lessons, lazer tag, paintball, trampoline dodgeball (this shit is fur real, son) (be prepared to get your ass whooped)

INTP - ERRRORRRR cannot process giftgiving.exe. The following file is missing or corrupted: C:\Windows\socialnorms.exe.  Press any key to continue.

ESFJ - buys you something for your kitchen.  Esfj has really gotten into home decorating recently so you get some nice candles, potpourri, a spice rack … basically anything that smells so nice that you’ll never want to leave your house

ENFJ - buys you a super cute fluffy animal !!! !!! !!! omg look at its cute little nose! its cute little ears! I’ll take care of you forever! I’ll feed you until your belly becomes a balloon!  *whispers* Never leave me. *snaps to reality* Oh what? Oh …. ya … I meant you enfj, never leave me ^^ … …. … wait wut? *enfj moves in*

ESFP - gets you tickets TO THE EXCLUSIVE DANCEPARTY YOU’VE BEEN WANTING TO GOOOOO.  Esfp knows you’ve been putting in all those hours at work so you need a well deserved break with some hotass dancers—No? Well, fuck you too Mary Lynn.  Just trying to spice up your life a little so you’ll stop complaining about how Aaron was a regrettable fckboy.  Gosh.

ENFP - wasn’t sure what to get you for the longest time.  Too many ideas and wallet too skinny. Asks you what you wanted. Diligently asks your friends about what you really want.  Does not end up getting anything for you.  Makes it up with a spontaneous ski trip.

ESTJ - sets you up with a mutual fund at the bank with a diverse portfolio. Takes you to a surprise party (actually a networking party) organized by estj’s long-term monogamous significant other at their amazingly affordable home where they live together.  Estj leaves with 5 competitive job offers.

ENTJ - treats you to a lovely steak dinner prepared by a highly paid professional in-home chef in their mansion atop of a hill belooking the peasants and commonfolk below who are building a statue of entj at minimum wage.  

ESTP - isn’t around during your birthday because they’re climbing up Mt. Everest/naked fishing/shark diving - but they take time out of their busy day to skype with you until the reception cuts off.  When you do meet up, estp blesses you with stories from their trip as you live vicariously through them and promises to take you with them next time.  Estp txts you from Australia the next day. 

ENTP -  Category 1 (acquaintances): bath soap or gag gifts // Category 2 (friends): a book your entp thought you’d benefit from reading (educate yourself mtherfker … with the kama sutra ;)) // Category 3 (family): relatives do not subscribe to the satanic rituals of gift giving