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| follows/likes/asks/comments will come from my main: ayvenjb | My life with chronic pain! My name is Ayven, and I am working towards a diagnosis! Probably mostly reblogs but I will personally post throughout my journey. But I was bored so decided to make this. It'll be nice to be able to ramble somewhere. Mostly so I don't populate my main with a lot of chronic pain stuff. Thank you loves!💞

[booksandbrainsandsoftthings]

Not sure who needs to see this, but if a Service Dog starts backing into you, pushing you away from their handler, or they sit down at a leash distance from their handler

You Should Move Away.

They are performing a task known as "spacing" or "blocking" that helps reduce or prevent anxiety in their handler.

They are NOT "asking for pets" or being disobedient or asking to be spoken to. All you have to do is stay back from the dog and handler.

This is not a capslock PSA because I'm not sure how many people that don't have a SD actually know this is a trained task.

[vampire-bee-deactivated20210907]

I just want to say though,

For all of you stuck in quarantine, and are having a hard time with it.

Promise you will never tell a disabled person “at least you don’t have to work” “I wish I could stay home at sit on my ass all day” or “your just dolebludgers that sit at home being lazy” ever again, when disabled people say they have to stay home and rest.

Being housebound SUCKS!

Sure, work also sucks but at least you get to socialize, do different things, and feel productive. (And you’re likely not SICK. Unless your in the US because WTF???)

I waste away at home almost constantly. I’ve seen every movie I own at least 20 times. The novelty wears off REALLY QUICKLY when your alone. The bordem and isolation, they send you batshit crazy. It’s awful. Plus, again, I’m incredibly sick. (I know some of you are too, but many are not.)

But yeah, this is why it’s so ableist to treat disabled people who have to stay at home like they’re somehow “lucky, entitled and lazy”. We don’t enjoy it. It’s really hard. Please be more mindful.

We were in “quarantine” before the pandemic, we’ll be in it after the pandemic. We’ll have to watch you all get on with your lives when its over, while we are still stuck at home.

Remember what this feels like, and remember that some live like this every day.

(Not saying all of you are like this, but if you are, please learn from this moment. Disabled (including mentally ill, chronically ill, and permanently injured) aren’t getting anything extra by being forced to stay home and take care of themselves. It’s very difficult.)

[vampire-bee-deactivated20210907]

Well this certainly blew up.

So I want to follow this up by telling all you awesome people with mental and physical health issues that you are strong, amazing, and you kick ass! Don’t let anyone tell you different, they don’t know shit if they do. *high fives you all then dabs*

Also extra high fives and a hug for those who should be taking care of themselves at home because they are disabled, but are forced to work anyway.

You guys are heroes, and you deserve so much more. I hope one day society treats you better, and that they apologize for giving you a hard time by giving you a fucktonne of money and a free massage for all your hard work.

[spoonie-living]

Reminder

It’s okay to start feeling better on a day you’ve called out sick.

You might be in a cycle of guilt, telling yourself it obviously wasn’t that bad if you’re doing better. That you could have gone in after all. That you were blowing it out of proportion.

No. Stop.

If you’re feeling better, it’s not because you made the wrong choice. It’s because you stayed home and rested.

That’s what the sick day is for. That means it’s working.

[thisisnotwhoyoulove]

Everyone please stay safe. Be healthy. That means eat. Malnutrition leads to immunocompromization. We care about you. People care about you. Don't throw away everything you've worked hard to do on this earth to lose to a global pandemic because you made yourself sick enough to be vulnerable in the first place.

Please

Love you

[grannys-gingerbread]

……..sometimes you just gotta….open the windows in your house…….let some fresh air in…..change your bedsheets….make sure your surroundings are clean and tidy…..

[deadblogggu-u-deactivated202010]

messy thing just to get my thoughts down

[2am-soda-deactivated20211215]

THANK YOU SO MUCH

[yashas-strong-arms]

it's so stupid, adhd is a dozen vaguely related neuroses in a trench coat, including such popular hits as

Can't Fucking Sleep Disorder

Can't Fucking Wake Up Disorder

What Is A Focus

Oops I Did It* Again (*Spent Thirteen Hours On Youtube And Forgot To Eat Or Drink)

The World Is Too Noise Today

All My Friends Hate Me (I Deduced This From A Three Word Text)

I Forgot About [thing] Literally As Soon As I Turned Around

...and they decided to call it Trouble Sitting Still Disorder?????

[system-of-a-feather]

Just because you “function” doesn’t mean you don’t deserve help.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

No one is supposed to enjoy February. You’re not even supposed to think about it. It’s a practice in stoicism. mind your own business and just let it pass. Lock your doors and windows. Speak in quiet tones

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

Do Not Look February In The Eye

[byerlyv]

“You walk at home? Do you even need your wheelchair?”

Yes, because walking in my own house is different than walking class to class at school. I don’t carry a heavy backpack at home. I’m not on a tight schedule at home. I can sit on the ground at home. I can ask my parents or siblings to help me at home. I can crawl on my hands and knees at home. I can lie in the middle of the hallway at home. I can sit on counters and tables at home. I can bear a lot of pain at home. I can show that pain at home. I can collapse in the middle of crawling up the staircase at home.

Don’t tell me or anyone else where or when they need to use their mobility device

[impotsiblelife]

You know you have a chronic illness when… you haven’t showered or left the house for a week because of your fatigue and other symptoms. 

[yo-daddys-my-bitch]

May the 10 of Pentacles bless your account with more money than you can spend. 💵✨

[hermes-is-my-homeboy]

10 of Pentz came thruuu

[violaslayvis]

Omg this actually works!!! Thank you 10 of Pentacles!!!

[borkdork]

I could seriously use this money right now….

[ashashi-corner]

Please give me my refund of 400$ soon…

[hermes-is-my-homeboy]

I feel obligated to reblog this every time it shows up in my dash

[hermes-is-my-homeboy]

No bragging, just 100% floored and grateful. Work hard, maintain a positive attitude, and believe that anything can happen.

[mchashimi]

So I reblogged this exactly a week ago because I thought it was funny and uh lo and behold, a family friend wrote me a big ol’ check just to help me out of a tough financial spot AND my bank refunded me $32 for fees they’d originally taken out. SO UH YEAH. Reblogging this again in hopes that it brings equally good fortune to my followers.

[penprp]

Sure why not? Jobs bring in money and prosperity…

[leradny]

I NEED TO FIX MY CAR DOOR

[getlostpeeves]

It fucking WORKED.

[ohhhmyloki]

Loki, too, shall bless his loyal followers with the ten of pentacles money magic in 2020.

Seriously, I asked him real nice.

[eccedentesiastic-flower]

Hhh lit

[sword-and-nightingale]

Does this really work?

[aberrantemotion]

Does buying a lottery ticket?

[spoonless-cyborg]

Quick Health Update!

ow. 

[aberrantemotion]

next time someone knocks at the stall i’m using im gonna screech 

IT’S BIRTHING TIIIIIIIIIIME!!!!!!

at the top of my lungs. It will be a good time = )

[aberrantemotion]

i have been banned from the very concept of public bathrooms

[impotsiblelife]

Growing up with a chronic illness, especially an undiagnosed one, is such a hard experience. You think that the fatigue and pain that you experience is “normal” just because you’ve always had it. You frustrate your parents by asking them if you can stay home from school so often. Your teachers, school nurses, and parents wonder why you complain about physical symptoms so often. You’re constantly in and out of the doctor’s office, but the visits rarely yield any answers. You don’t truly realize that you were sick throughout your childhood and not just “lazy” until you’re diagnosed with a chronic illness as a teenager or adult. 

[b-leeding]

Disabled people do not have to disclose details regarding any of their diagnoses, disability or medical conditions just because you’re curious. We are not your personal learning experience.

[babyanimalgifs]

This is so wholesome

[anx1ous-op0ssum]

Update: he finally got the cat to the vet to see if she had a microchip

[callmebliss]

I was already on board with his sweet wholesome open-to-love-and-nurturing heart but I was fully unprepared for getting to that last tweet and seeing how off the hook HOT dude is

[deadjosey-deactivated20200613]

https://twitter.com/pariszarcilla?lang=en heres his twitter is here there is also additonal cat photos of his children. 

[strangeracrossthestreet]

CAT DAD IS BACK

[jackslenderman]

aww, the kids grow up so fast. ;-;

[aquilacalvitium]

HHHHHHHH I LOVE CAT DAD!

[midgardian-april]

This is, by far, the single most adorable fucking thing I have ever seen. 

[trishmishtree]

update:

[lemonsharks]

I love that he kept …. All of them.

[petermorwood]

I’ve reblogged the earlier part of this thread before, and the new stuff makes it even better.

This is the Tumblr equivalent of a warm hug on a cold day.

[teashoesandhair]

You’re welcome.

[askfordoodles]

I remember this thread, but I never saw the grown-up pics ❤

[theminingengineer]

@every-n-anything

[karmic-punishment-deactivated20]

[fierceawakening]

All hail Catdad

[daisy-rivers]

I saw Catdad for the first time today, and my day instantly became exponentially better.

[pretty-frown-deactivated2026011]

I’M CRYING!?