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love is what makes us human, but what people need to understand is that there is so much love in the world beyond romantic. Love for your friends, love for your family, love of art, love of music, love of nature, love of books, love of sports, love of everything. There is so much to love in the world, so I guarantee that no asexual or aromantic person loves any less then anyone else
look, shipping canon!aroace characters, as much as it pains me to say, is not wrong. I do hate it and will block you, but no personal hatred or harassment here.
The issue comes when people try and claim theyre NOT canonically aroace. Its fine to be like "This character is aroace but im making them X for this fic". Weird but fine. It is not okay to say "actually character is not aroace theyre actually X canonically idc about the source material". The second one is erasure, plain and simple.
Most important to address is the hypocrisies. IF YOU WOULDN'T DO IT TO GAY OR LESBIAN CHARACTER WHY ARE YOU DOING IT TO AN AROACE?
That needs to be addressed; do you value aroace people less? do you see our identity as less worthy of respect or acknowledgement? is there a reason you would change a canonical idenitiy when its an aromantic or asexual idenity, but you would loose it if someone shipped your favourite yaoi with a woman or yuri with a man?
Just food for thought.
If you're okay with shipping a canon!aroace character with another character, but lose your shit, if I, for instance, ship Shane Hollander with a woman?
Why is that any different? Both are identities acknowledged in the media are canon, and they show no attraction/attraction to women, so why is me shipping Shane with a woman "so bad and gross" but shipping an aroace character is "normal and fine"?
Is it maybe because you value these identities differently?
Something to consider, that's all.
If you don't care about shipping canon gay men with women, this post is not for you. Its for those who scream about shipping a gay man with a woman saying its "erasure and gross" but turn around and turn a canon!aroace straight/gay/bisexual and say "but this is fine to do".
I'd like to understand why people after tgr talk about Jeremy as if he's "oh my god, I'm gay, my family found out and took away my inheritance 😭" when in reality he's "I'm gay and my family hates me for it and they take advantage of that to put ALL the blame for my brother's death on my shoulders (while I blame myself for that too) and they take advantage again by using the guilt to control and hurt me. I also take the blame for the sexuality of several players being exposed and them no longer being able to play. My family treats me like the worst mistake in the world, they manipulate me and make me feel less than nothing. I will never have their forgiveness or affection but I continue to humiliate myself because I think that way one day I will have my siblings back, my mother's love and my father will decide to be more present in my life. I think I don't deserve respect, love or concern."
Jeremy's story isn't more cruel than Jean's or Andrew's, but why does that make him less worthy of empathy? Why do people oversimplify his problems so much? It's as if they've only read about how he got addicted to cocaine and was caught having relationships with men, and then his credit card was blocked by his mom who's just very disappointed.
Are you even reading the book? Jeremy doesn’t victimize himself, he doesn't make his problems bigger than Jean's, he acknowledges he was with Noah that night and acknowledges his addictions (which we know didn't appear in the story just because he's a spoiled rich kid), he simply still loves his family and wants them back, he thinks he can have that and fix everything if he tries hard enough. He doesn't understand that it's not in their interest to forgive him, but to have him around as a punching bag and an image control. He's trying to fit their expectations while trying to keep alive who he IS and trying to help Jean and his team.
Allosexuals trying to explain asexuality to an asexual is fucking insane. "Um, actually ☝🏻🤓." Um, actually shut the fuck up.
Sugawara got really used to the subtle flex of having a boyfriend who was so reliably hitting the "right" things to do or say and being unintentionally incredibly romantic just by his nature, and as a result was a littttllle self important because Daichi would really casually say things like "why would I ever want to go somewhere without you?" when Suga went fishing for compliments over "oh, I bet your middle school friends dont want me crashing a reunion" which is all important context to understand why he is so salty when the two biggest drama queens in the world (Hinata and Kageyama) show up and start saying shit like "with me you're invincible" three times a day now everyone's talking about how insane Hinata and Kageyama are for each other and he's lost his pedestal as the person who was most loved by their boyfriend and the WORST part is he can't even complain to Daichi about it because Daichi never even knew what he was doing to begin with so he doesn't realize he's being out competed. Why are Hinata and Kageyama rolling around on the gym floor together.
"Do you insert yourself as the top/bottom of your favorite ship?" No, I'm the cameraman
jean moreau's cute lil nicknames for people: a comprehensive list because im in love with him
useless/ arrogant/ oblivious fool
ignorant/ feckless/ wayward child
hard-of-hearing imbecile
insignificant brat
tiny bastard
unhinged optimist
ignorant/ miserable/ ruinous wretch
tedious malcontent
abominable cockroach
worthless trash bag
rabid little fox
know-nothing/ ill-bred child
wretched beast
unwanted dog
malfunctioning cretin
braindead fool
IGNORE
fair-haired rat
rancid bitch/ menace
half-baked baguette
walking disaster
lackadaisical pushover
disobedient shit-stain
bonus:
you all are going to owe kevin day the BIGGEST fucking apology ok.
he’s just escaped a lifetime of abuse and manipulation. he was taught that exy is the only thing that matters, the only thing that makes you important. of course he’s going to be obsessed with it.
of course he’s a bit spineless. he’s just escaped and now everything he’s running from is coming back because neil won’t stop poking the bear.
i feel like the youth should be reminded that the point of shipping is not for a ship to become canon. the point of shipping is to collect all the canon crumbs like starved mice, run away cackling and make some fun little scenarios with them just for the hell of it.
I love aromanticism
also people underestimate how different mental abuse from physical abuse. people tend to favor physical abuse over mental because it has physical "proof" but mental abuse just fucks you up and no one believes you. it's not less severe or less important just because you don't carry the proof on your skin.
kevin is mentally fucked up beyond words. it is paralyzing. that man has severe anxiety and every choice he ever makes still gets effected by the way he was conditioned since birth. I don't think he ever got the chance to be his own person. he did not get to discover who is like everyone else might have when they were teens. he did not got to explore his own personality and quirks. growing up where he grew up, he was told to be someone they seemed fit. he didn't become himself. if it makes sense.
so I fucking hate kevin haters and I hate people who underestimate kevin's trauma and mental abuse he suffered. you do not care about abuse survivors if you only care about physical abuse survivors. it is performative.
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Most Kevin haters have one argument
"Kevin day is a coward look at Neil and what he did"
You mean Neil the idiot (I love Neil) with no survival skills who almost died at his dad's basement and only survived out of pure luck
You mean Neil who went to evermore with the promise that he won't harm Andrew (riko is a liar and will not keep his word) and got hurt there for two weeks for nth Andrew was still harmed
Neil who got them into an even deeper mess with the mafia
That Neil
Difference is Neil doesn't think rationally he has this weird complex he's chaotic which is amazing don't get me wrong but he didn't make a single good decision the entire time
"But Kevin is a coward" no he isn't Kevin has been with them the longest he knows how to play it safe
Jean been there for 4 years
Neil went there for two weeks
Kevin was there for 10 fucking years he knows how they operate
Also Kevin wasn't sold he was betrayed ofc he won't handle it the same
Neil is chaotic and stupid most his choices are made on impulse he doesn't care what the outcome is he thinks he's a dead man
Kevin has a lot to lose remember the mafia knows who his father is and his father is someone who isn't involved
Kevin thinks a million times he calculates the risk and the outcome because that's how you survive
Kevin didn't want to die because if he does so does jean and his father and probably Abby btw
Neil doesn't have that weight Neils mom was already dead
So no they don't compare when you have nothing to lose you have the luxury to act irrationally
Also Kevin was brainwashed some of you forget that 10 years isn't a short time spacially due to his cptsd
Kevin wasn't 18 or 14 (not saying jean didn't suffer he did my poor boy) when he was being abused he was 9 it shaped how his brain works
Plus to Kevin riko was his brother before he was his abuser and titsuji was his uncle/godfather so it's a totally different scene
So yeah read with your eyes open please it's getting sad
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One day, Kevin is looking for his favorite socks, the ones Neil keeps stealing. As he rummages through Neil's drawers, what he finds is not the damn socks but The Binder.
Neil and Andrew walk into the bedroom just a moment later to find Kevin flicking through the binder's pages, a deep frown on his face.
Neil freezes in shock. He very much stops breathing.
Andrew crosses his arms over his chest and leans a shoulder against the door's frame to watch the shit-show about to happen.
"Kevin... that's mine." Neil takes a step forward, hands reaching out to get his binder back.
Kevin evades him by lifting the binder over his head and out of reach.
"Neil, what is this?" he says, looking dangerously solemn.
"It's... It's not-"
"Sloppy work," Kevin cuts him with the tone he usually saves for bitchy exy feedbacks. "All the pictures are torn. Do you not know how to use scissors? Not that you seem to care, seeing how all the pages are crinkled... And why are there so many coffee spills everywhere? That's disgusting-"
And Kevin just. starts ranting.
Turns out, he is absolutely unfazed about Neil's stalker binder. He finds nothing creepy about it. He seems to believe this is a perfectly normal thing to do. (He is the Queen of exy after all. He is worthy of this kind of worshipping).
At some point during his endless diatribe, he goes to get his own binder (the one he made about Jeremy Knox) to show it to Neil:
"Look! This is proper work! This is nice and clean! That's how you do it!"
everyone get freakier NOW
nicky hemmick showing the twinyards all the love and acceptence he never got shown as a kid and getting it thrown back in his face because their both cunts
Kevin was done dirty by everyone. and his main fault was being an uptight lowkey obsessive bitch about like the only he has left of his mom
