hi and welcome to my trainwreck

23, she/her, demi below is a s m o l list of all my favorite things, thank you and goodnight

[lutzlig]

the war is over

[write-on-world]

[ivelivedathousanddlives]

💛🌼🌼💛 send this to the twelve nicest people you know or who seem to have a good heart and if you get five back you must be pretty awesome 💖✨💖✨ (only if you want to 💜💜💜)

💛🌼🌼💛 send this to the twelve nicest people you know or who seem to have a good heart and if you get five back you must be pretty awesome 💖✨💖✨ (only if you want to 💜💜💜)

💜💜💜

[thisisahugemistake]

Ok here's something I just found.

You can get any book you want to read for free at b-ok.org LITERALLY ANYBOOK. I JUTS FOUND THIS AND ITS FREE

You don't even have to have an account to download a book. THEY ALSO HAVE TEXTBOOKS!!!! I REPEAT THEY HAVE TEXTBOOKS!

You can even add the books to your kindle directly but you have to have an account to do that but again, ITS ABSOLUTELY FREE!!!

It's a free electronic library and they have numerous articles, textbooks and ebooks 😭

Save lives guys😭

[outofcontextyaoi]

[outofcontextyaoi]

every single reblogger has tagged this with some variation of ‘me’, except for the one person who tagged it

[genderfluid-and-confuzled]

[Image ID: A panel from a comic reading “instead of making the best of his brains and his skills with the piano, my brother was printing down the path of homosexuality and living destructively, end ID]

[Image ID A tag that reads “elton john”], end ID]

[catchymemes]

[academicssay]

[djdangerlove]

Here. Have kudos on that fanfic you wrote in your head while you were in the shower and never typed it out. When I recover from the brilliance of it, I’ll come back to leave a review.

[pascalcampion]

It will hurt

Another late night random thought.

Take it with a grain of salt of course!

#pascalcampion

[nicollekidman]

i’m just over here like love isn’t a pyramid where romance is at the top and friendship is at the bottom…. it’s a soup…. different ingredients but all delicious and necessary for a truly fulfilling meal… 

[99yikes]

today is just as the shirt advertises

[excitementshewrote]

[hellenhighwater]

I'll admit that this one has cemented itself in my psyche

[strawberryhorrorshow]

My conservative family members seeing me taking up embroidery:

One week later when I post the finished project:

[ebearcrochet]

I had to reblog this as soon as I stopped laughing

[a-spoon-is-born]

one of the ways i know this culture has a massive issue with consent

is the sheer amount of people I’ve known that just lie & tell people they’re deathly allergic to foods they dislike

because otherwise people will hound them, mock them, coax them, harass them, try to force them to eat it, or even trick them into eating it, and they will never hear the end of it

your coworkers will bake it into a fucking pie, call it something else, and wait til your birthday, gather everyone and their first cousins to sit around in a circle waiting for you to put a forkful into your mouth and then point rhythmically at you in a chanting, glaring, sweating, unholy circle like SWISS CHARD SWISS CHARD YOU JUST ATE SWISS CHARD HA HA HA SWISS CHARD NOW YOU LIKE SWISS CHARD

Because forcing someone into a situation where they don’t feel safe declining putting something into their body they’d rather not be there is totes 100% wholesome American fun

And this is something so known that it’s infinitely easier to just lie and tell people that you’ll die if you eat that food…which actually doesn’t always stop it from happening

[aspiringwarriorlibrarian]

I literally told one of my coworkers that alcohol interfered with my meds and I wasn’t drinking because it might kill me. (It wasn’t true, but that kind of underscores the point here, because I didn’t feel safe refusing him). He still tried to pressure me into drinking, demanding that I just “try it once and see what happens”. This was only the beginning of the bullshit he pulled.

I work at a camp with a zipline, rock climbing, and other activities. We have to repeatedly get in between people who don’t want to do a challenge and their peers/bosses/parents pressuring them into it. Seeing my coworker, a four-foot-eleven woman, get in an angry drill sergeant’s face and tell him very politely that he’s not allowed to force his soldiers to go on the zip if they don’t want to gave me three extra vertebrae. Some people feel incredibly entitled to other’s choices, and when you remind them that they aren’t, they get aggressive. Most times passively. Some times not.

For some people, no doesn’t mean no. No means force. The fact that they can’t legally use it outright doesn’t tell them it’s wrong, just that they have to resort to trickery to get their way, because they know best. They choose professions like police officer, nurse, or parent to assert that control, that need for dominance over those they consider unworthy. And we let them, because we as a society believe that certain people should be controlled for their own good, and teach that from the cradle.

[garlic-slut]

Consent isn’t limited to sexual experiences. You’re not being a “baby” or “stubborn” for not engaging in experiences you don’t want to.

[lantern-flower]

reading “goodbye my rose garden” has also got me like 

[when-youre-demi]

So you know, one of my friend who knows about my demisexuality and demiromanticism thinks it’s about wanting to feel special or to victimize ourselves. 

But it’s not? I don’t know for you, but for me, discovering my demisexuality actually helped me feeling normal. Like, we all feel attraction in a different way, but since only one way of attraction is socially acceptable or shown (heteroallosexuality), we believe that we are weird until we have a word for it and realize we are not the only one who feels that way. 

Just a disclaimer: aspecs people do not think that they are better than anyone or more special because of their attractions. Everyone is different, everyone is unique. That’s just your insecurities speaking.

[1800dumbass]

yeah yeah making out is cool but have you ever considered: almost-but-not-quite kisses? forehead kisses or cheek kisses and after they just sit there and stare at each other just shifting between looking into their eyes and lips and either one of them walks away like "haha, yeah, well i got to go!!! hahahah" or someone walks in on them but the tension is there and it won't go away like every time their skin brushes it's just electricity

yes making out but drawn out yearning? that revives the man