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Jay she/her, bi 16 I look death in the eye and ask if my ass looks good

[jacelynparis]

I’ve Decided To Start A New Journey.

Hello world, 

My name is Jay. Today I realized just how much of the teenage experience I’m missing out on, so I figured I’d motivate myself to have fun by being able to share my stories with you all. Maybe it will inspire some other people to start living life to the fullest, like you’re the main character. I’ll try to log an entry every day. I’m super excited to see where this takes me.

Have a good day. And if no one’s told you yet- you’re loved.

-Jay

[the-suburban-craft]

By @hollyisnotanartist

[jacelynparis]

Don't be sad, watch Dan and Phil and pretend it's the 2010's again :)

[kaviiinsky]

[annaaniece]

People are like bullets.

They only hurt others because it is in their nature.

[mikey-way-why-you-no-smile]

[foil-flingza-roller-deactivated]

[foil-flingza-roller-deactivated]

HAPPY FLATWORM NEW YEAR

[metapianycist]

autistic self diagnosis is valid

[actingnt]

a person: i’m autistic. i don’t have a professional diagnosis.

a neurotypical: you can’t! self diagnose! autism!!! onLy a dOctor can do that!!!

most doctors: don’t know what autism looks like in people other than nonverbal white cis boys

most doctors: recommend abusive therapies for autistic kids and teens

most doctors who specialize in diagnosing autism: refuse to evaluate adults

an autism evaluation for a minor teen who wants one: requires having supportive parents who understand that autism is not a tragedy and looks different for every autistic person, and that many autistic people can talk, have friends, do okay in school, and otherwise fake looking neurotypical

an autism evaluation for an adult: very expensive and often not covered by insurance in the U.S., also extremely difficult to get in France

an on-record autism diagnosis: can be used to deny you custody of children, to have your kids taken away, to forcibly institutionalize you

autism advocacy orgs that actually help autistic ppl like ASAN, AWN, AANE: Here are some resources for figuring out if you could be autistic. Professional diagnosis is a very personal decision and is not required for knowing that you’re one of us. We support you as an autistic person even if you don’t have a paper diagnosis.

a sincere autism self diagnosis: harms no one even if it’s incorrect, enables the person to feel part of a community of people with similar issues and learn more about autism, a gateway to learning about autism acceptance movements, often the first step toward self acceptance and self esteem

[ethan---green]

Okay, this post actually helped me a lot a while back. Idk if I’m ADHD or autistic, but either way, super helpful

[aprotestforyourheart]

This post is really helpful!

[shade-romeo]

Anyone know of any of those self diagnosis resources they talked about-?

[metapianycist]

here you go (the coding of the original post got weird, I’m the op of the long chat post section, not actingnt):

About Autism

Autism is a neurological variation that occurs in about one percent of the population and is classified as a developmental disability. Altho

AANE adopted the term Asperger profile to describe a range of neurological differences characteristic of over one percent of people in the U

Asperger/Autism Spectrum Fact Sheet – The Asperger / Autism Network (AANE)

Learn the signs and symptoms for Aspergers and the Autism Spectrum. Learn why women and girls with Aspergers or autism are under-diagnosed.

Asperger and Autism Spectrum diagnosis in adults. Symptoms and signs of Aspergers and autism. How to get an Aspergers or autism diagnosis. W

[confuzzledmiomio]

I…wait..really?

It’s, fine..? Because Ive always been so scared of like, calling myself autistic or smth because I don’t have a proper diagnosis and I don’t want to offend people.

[metapianycist]

it’s fine. there are actually very few autistic people who will be assholes about self-diagnosis and they’re usually the ones who most strongly support medical authoritarianism (and most paper-diagnosed autistic people don’t like them either)

[bambi-lesbian-posts]

My autism testing would’ve cost me $6000 if I had gone through with it (I’m an adult)

(I’m seriously not kidding, they also didn’t take my insurance.. they only took 2 insurance companies for a 10% dock on the charge)

So yes, for most people I’m pretty sure that self-diagnosis is the only available option to them (at least in the US).

[djkoenig-deactivated20140905]

(◡‿◡✿)

(ʘ‿ʘ✿) “what you say ‘bout me”

(ʘ‿ʘ)ノ✿ “hold my flower”

[chronically-ill-dandy]

✿＼(｡-_-｡) “Kick his ass, baby.  I got yo flower.”

[kahguyaht]

i found it

the original post

i found it

[eviesrealitychangesdaily-deacti]

this should have the opportunity to be on everyone’s blog. 

[i-wanna-diepacito-deactivated20]

I hope you guys are happy. You have no idea about the lengths I went to to find this post and get it on my blog.

[smooththegoofyshark]

Everyone on this post is deactivated, this is like finding a fossil

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[they-callme-ami]

Fossil post! Fossil post!

[that-owl-kid]

Yaaasssss

[habitrabbits]

fossil post fossil poST FOSSIL POST FOSSIL POST FOSSIL POST-

[tmarauder101]

FOUND IT

[jacelynparis]

OMG I REMEMBER WHEN THIS WAS ORIGINALLY POSTED

[cakeemoji]

projekt revolution - 08/10/2007

[credit; pookie-ray on livejournal]

[boyfriendfrank]

[okom]

(bass + electric + acoustic + frank)

[jacelynparis]

FRANK PLAYING BASS

Frank PLAYING BASSSSSSSSSSSSS

[rodrickheffeley]

[animatedtext]

requested by savemycrustysoul

[jacelynparis]

Lol I did not live up to my promise

[spooky-daddy-jim]

Reblog if you just love Fall Out Boy

[jacelynparis]

12/9/20

Today I woke up early again, I got some coffee in my favorite Star Wars mug. Did all my work in the morning. Read some Twilight, I'm playing guitar right now trying to write a love song. Feeling poetic and all angsty