yes i’ll be just fine

James. He/him. Gay. Butt enthusiast. Rat dad. Dork. Scorpio. Top surgery: 4/9/19.

[jamesbuttwhy]

would you be friends with someone you ended on not so good terms with?

I think it would depend on the feelings after a conversation about why things went south, but I’m always open to reconciliation.

[autumnhobbit]

worst part of adulthood so far is definitely the fact that people have the ability to contact me and i have to respond in a timely manner

[nanocomputer]

wow i really like this song i think i’m gonna listen to it 1 maybe 60 more times

[ulibeanzz]

dont mind if i dont

[cursedcatpictures]

[anxietyproblem]

[jamesbuttwhy]

Chest reveal with Dr. Garramone.

[jamesbuttwhy]

I can’t believe it’s real. ❤️😭❤️

[thebestoftumbling]

[kintrig-deactivated20170803]

[bemylova]

i’m such a slut for reassurance my heart literally nuts when you tell me you want me

[orriculum]

I want some mcdick

[orriculum]

yes

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

in a constant state of ‘how dare you assume i know what i’m doing’ but also ‘don’t you dare question me or what i’m doing’   

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

artists & writers have so much to say about this post

[jamesbuttwhy]

So happy for your surgery! Also noticed you have a chest tattoo (kinda?) Did the surgery fuck with that at all??

Why thank you, pal! I haven’t gotten to see my chest yet and won’t get to for another 5 days. My chest tree did go down quite a bit, but when Dr. Garramone marked me before surgery only a few millimeters were marked to be cut off. So I don’t believe it fucked with my tattoo much at all. Plus, it can always be touched up after it’s completely healed.

[jamesbuttwhy]

As of yesterday, April 9th, 2019, I am officially post op for top surgery with Dr. Garramone.

It’s been 8 years that I’ve been waiting to have this surgery and it’s finally done. I’ve cried so many tears of happiness. The love and relief is just pouring out of me.

*Btw, I call this my chest diaper.

[1st-1]

[stephrc79]

A friend pointed something out to me about a bad friendship, and they’re words we all need to live by:

Sometimes a person isn’t interested in being your friend.

They’re only interested in you being theirs.

Learn to spot the difference.