No, really, the fact that Becky and John decided to delete their individual Facebook accounts after six months of dating and create a joint account – Becky and John – is not my deep existential problem. But briefly, I don't want you in my friend list. Maybe I know Becky, maybe I only know John, and maybe I know both of you, and we can talk… But simply put, if a friend wants to write to Becky, they want to write to Becky. If a friend wants to write to John, they write to John. You have to understand that sometimes people have long-standing friendships and trust with that person. There are things someone wants to discuss 'between four eyes.' It may concern health, family issues… No, just because someone is writing to your partner doesn't automatically mean they are 'plotting behind your back.' Imagine, for example, a situation where you go to the doctor or a lawyer, and their partner is sitting there with them. The same applies to snooping in phones. I've actually been in a situation where I was out with a friend and her now ex-boyfriend, and they were sitting across from me, looking through each other's phones. And I also know a couple who had a joint Facebook account, even had a child, and still broke up. And yes, there was infidelity involved. This isn't to sow doubt in anyone… But really, those who want to find a way, will find a way… The most beautiful things in life are those that someone does on their own accord, without being asked. Such an act is a true sign of attention, love, and devotion
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