Existential Crisis

26/f/Canada

[iamwizzzzz]

[anxietyproblem]

[typelikeagirl]

[kosmogrl]

may you get everything you want and be happy this october

[intosnarkness]

Hey, take it from someone creeping towards 40:

Ignore the fun police.

If you like it, order your steak well done. Get your bagel toasted with jam and butter. Put ice in your scotch and ketchup on your hotdog. Get red wine with fish and white with steak. Who cares?

If you want to, listen to pop music. Watch blockbuster popcorn flicks. Read dime store novels. Enjoy them.

Dye your hair or cut it off. Paint your fingernails blue. Wear whatever the fuck you want on your own time (ie, when not at a job or school or whatever where you can get penalized for breaking rules) as long as you aren’t like welding or shoveling snow.

Anyone who tries to tell you you’re wrong? Say “okay” and go back to what you were doing. You’re not hurting them by enjoying yourself or having things the way you like them.

There are no caveats or addendums to this. No “but what about x?” Nah. You’re allowed the things you like. You don’t have to justify your taste or apologize for it if it’s not hurting anyone.

And likewise, let other people live their lives. We’re all dead in the long run, so tend your own garden before you become fertilizer in it.

[garmentpurist-deactivated202603]

I love getting older. I’m hotter, more confident, more intelligent. Ageism is a dirty trap. Don’t get caught in it.

[sternen--staub]

occasional posts from users

[ann-decart]

reblog if you make occasional posts

[yourlocaldumbass0]

actually my occasional post of September

[offical-anon]

Occasional post day

[no-one-offical]

On a occasion always yes

[thelocalidiot]

this is like my 3rd occasional post today

[brittany]

Supernatural  |  1x15 - “The Benders”

[justanothersadface-deactivated2]

I would like to exchange my generational trauma for generational wealth please, thanks

[erkmurray]

Blue sunrise on the Oregon Coast

To those wondering, it is a sunrise! 7am. The light you see is a crabbing boat

[thememedaddy]

[thequotespot]

"Healthy relationships are not built on fear, dependency, or control. They are built on respect, trust, and mutual growth".

[goth-queen]

[catchymemes]

[cheaphalloweencostume]

i’m gonna say something that doesn’t feel good but you might need to hear it: bending over backwards being a people-pleaser, being conflict averse and not telling anyone your needs, and then being resentful and upset when your needs aren’t met is a You problem first

[cheaphalloweencostume]

not related but also just good advice: when you’re lowkey frustrated with someone and can’t quite figure out why their behavior is bothering you, i highly recommend examining if they have broken an imaginary rule or standard that you hold yourself to

[dead123454-deactivated20250717]

"stop bouncing your leg" well its either this or i start screaming

[vexheart]

[positiveautistic-deactivated202]

if u are reading this, i’m sending u lots and lots of love, stay safe