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[janiceomg]

Here is a sincere letter to Inneedofanewname and all the supposed Nicola Coughlan fans interacting with that type of blogs:

You are a shame and you learned nothing from what Nicola said.

Nicola poured her heart out on an interview about how the scrutiny and parasocial fandom theories have affected her and you're here defending your loser human being and giving excuses to yourself to keep doing the same thing that she's calling out to someone else?

The same way as Nicola doesn't owe any of you freak weirdos any explanation or public statement about her private life, Luke doesn't owe anything to you pathetic lifeless stalker freak, he doesn’t need to tell you or anybody anything for you to finally behave like a somewhat normal human being and shut up and stop feeding the weirdos that visit your blog with your deranged theories, accusations and delusions.

You sit there in your sad existence to write this mentally disturbed posts theorizing about real people that you don't know and throwing accusations that Nicola herself have proven wrong, you call her a PR liar that praises Luke for work obligations so you can give free rein to your deranged brain and have the audacity to behave and talk like you are protecting her when in fact you are normalizing the same behavior that she's calling out.

You and the group of lifeless losers that mix with you and all those like you who maintain and normalize having trashy social media so that people who should be in a mental institution can have spaces for this parasocial behavior are responsible for all of this.

You are the reason this keeps happening to Nicola, Luke, Jake, Antonia and everybody involved because you're a group of deranged losers that think that your behavior is ok as long as you do it to the one you hate and mask it as criticism, all of you behave the same way and then accuse each other but all of you are the same category of loser parasocial weirdo.

You can make millions of posts telling yourself and your weirdos that Luke is a leech, a nobody, that he needs to be attached for relevancy, that he needs this or that, that he is a bad person or needs to speak the way you demand for you to stop feeding weirdo delusional narrative and behave normal but with one click everybody can see how all your stupid posts are trash delusional hatred, Luke is brought up in every Nicola article too, Nicola is inserted in every Luke project too and when Luke was more vocal it didn't change anything because you loser freaks move the goalposts because what you need is a psychiatrist, not statements from people you don't know and owe you nothing for them to receive the basic decency of you freak weirdos to leave them alone. The same situations happen both sides and your stupid brain lying to feel better about insulting him and trying to convince yourself that he's struggling in life to feel better about your failed fantasies won’t make your deranged wishes a reality.

And if you pretend to be a Nicola fan and are good with this person or any other blog with this behavior, I hope you are happy with what you are causing Nicola to endure, for you, your hatred for a man that did nothing to you is more important than her well being and it shows.

Seek mental help and leave all these people alone.

[janiceomg]

where are you janice

It's funny that people still write and message me asking where i am and when i'll be back every time i'm away for a while. Thank you, i've seen new people in my likes and comments. For those who don't know i've always told my blog followers that there will be periods when i have to be away due to commitments. My job requires me to travel a lot, and when i'm not traveling, i focus on spending time with my loved ones, so sometimes i go for periods without posting, some longer than others, but i always come back.

I'm abroad right now, but sometimes check the asks and there are always several, so i've turned off the anon option to prevent them from piling up, otherwise i'll never be able to catch up and keep my promise to read all, but from what i've read and saw everything has been very quiet in the recent days and that's good.

See you soon.

[janiceomg]

Anon with the comments about that Nicola solo stan, i get your points but i disagree with the language so i won't post it.

[janiceomg]

Anon about a past ask, i do intend to answer but i have a lot of unanswered asks from the days i was offline, i'm answering the ones from today because for the first time in a long time i've been able to be online during the day.

[janiceomg]

Did you see the x circus with the nic solos? i knew that people were going to start showing what they are. What a group of clowns saying they defend nicola but acting fatphobic to her and to others over some nonsense

Yes, and what a way to prove to everybody that they're everything this fandom has been saying about them. We can only say poor Nicola, supposed defenders engaging in the same behavior she has told hurt her and when confronted it was excuses about others doing other stuff, this doesn't seem real🥴

[janiceomg]

Whatever you say, Arienne 😂 look in the mirror and repeat what you write to yourself

Let's pretend you're talking to me, why would i look in a mirror if i'm not part of the group in the fatphobic conversations, i'm not the owner of any of those profiles exposed and i was not caught being friends with people that made ableist attacks or ICE threats. Seems that you're having difficulties with your comebacks but i'm invested now

If you want to talk to Arienne why coming to a blog which the owner has told you this is not Arienne and avoid talking to her that you know has a public profile that everybody know its hers, seems like an odd choice for someone that is so fixated with this😂. You also came telling me you were going to screenshot and tag her but i didn't see you do that, its seeming like you're having nerves to confront her directly and i was all in awaiting for that. I'm curious you're feeling so sure and powerful but you keep avoiding what we all expect, your little showdown.

You say everything is okay, but you keep making us await and keep coming back to hide in my asks to repeat the same things multiple times and avoiding the actual show😂

[janiceomg]

Please remove that picture of Nicola from your Twitter profile. You don’t deserve to have it.

I don't have Nicola in my Twitter profile, i have a personal photo, and as i said, i've not stanned her in a while, so having a picture of her would be pointless. But i can't deny that i've been lurking, and i'm quite entertained by you all and your attempt to use my blog because you think you can attack someone with it. I admit i was disappointed when i didn't see you took a screenshot and tag her like you said. If you did, please send it to me i want to know what happened.

On another topic, I think you have bigger worries because several masks have slipped, people in your group were making fatphobic comments about Nicola and a Kanthony says she has it recorded. The barjoy account that used to insult Nicola and went to the lengths of comparing her to Jake's mom belongs to one of you, as does lazydayz and it was confirmed. Finally it also happens that the attacks on melaniethewicked and another Nicola solo stan account, and the threat to call Ice that the so called Royal did, were done under the influence of some Nicola solo stans and today it was confirmed that they are all still in contact and mocking you, all of this after some of you moved to put the blame on Luke fans. It seems there are some internal problems in the Nicola solo stan community and many have started to explode, your focus should not be a small Luke fan blog defending him right now, you have bigger problems to attend.

[janiceomg]

Nicola's fan don't know how to defend her without somehow including Luke and then taking a dig at him, trying to make it his fault, that's the problem unfortunately and they end up in that same cycle

Because they've never cared about Nicola's well being, they only care about hating Luke, and they get upset when the fandom doesn't listen to them but nobody listens to the sermons of people who have been worse than what they attack

[janiceomg]

So you don’t stan Nicola? Let me go and screenshot and tag you Arienne.

Go ahead, whatever helps you sleep at night.

[janiceomg]

Why aren’t there any posts about how vile people are being towards Nicola for archiving some Bridgerton Post? You seem to like calling out all of her fans who like to say negative things about Luke but never about all the negativity that Nicola receives what’s the deal’

Because i don't have to focus on Nicola on my Luke fan blog, i've said and repeated what my blog is about for quite some time now and i've also clarified that i left Nicola's stanning a while ago and i'm not involved with it. If there's a shipper attacking Nicola and you're a fan of hers do your job and write the post you're asking for, like we do when the same people are attacking Luke.

On my blog i can talk about whatever i want and although i've talked about the mistreatment of Nicola and Jake on several occasions you're in no position to come here and dictate what i post. Use that energy to do something productive by yourself or is it that once again instead of being truly concerned about Nicola your focus is how to make the situation about Luke and his fans because your obsession with him is the real priority on any matter?

[dara-90]

Luke spotted probably for a photoshoot

[janiceomg]

Nic solos need Nic to be mistreated in fandom spaces because that's how they feel in real life. They need to relate to her so they put her down to their level. Making it seem like people don't like her or are awful to her. When it's simply not true. Nicola is beloved. Where Nic faces scrutiny is from hateful Kanthonys and Benophies (who do the same to Luke) and their vitriol really has nothing to do with Nic at all. And she gets it from people outside of the fandom. Random internet users who don't know her. But that is par for the course for any loved celeb.

But in general, well meaning Bridgerton fans love Nicola. Polin fans LOVE Nicola. Luke fans love Nicola. She is not this poor mistreated woman. She is a strong, talented, beautiful, lovely person, who doesn't need this group of "fans" crying on her behalf all of the time.

I was talking about this a while ago. If you look at the fandom behavior of several other Bridgerton actors, you'll notice a clear difference. When Yerin spoke about glow ups in an interview, her fans tried to clarify that she didn't mean any harm by it towards Luke N and Jonathan. Regé's fans always highlight interviews where he's grateful for the show and defend him against those who call him ungrateful. Jonathan and Simone's fans always show interviews where they speak fondly of the rest of the cast and their desire to always return. When Luke T gave an interview about not needing past leads, his fans found the original and defended him because the translation wasn't accurate. When Luke N was accused of cropping Nicola out of a photo, his fans were the first to point out that Nicola wasn't originally in that image and that it was actually a cake made with only images of him.

Nicola solo stans are the opposite. While all other fandoms are always trying to protect their favorites from attacks and hate, Nicola solo stans try to create it. You'll always find them giving misinterpretations of Nicola's interviews, pretending that she said she hates Bridgerton, the fandom, or Luke. They'll twist even the smallest nonsense to make people believe that Nicola isn't friends with those people, that she hates the people they hate, or that she's being arrogant and ungrateful because they are. That's where you'll see their priority: while other fanbases are always looking out for their favorite's well being and protecting them from hate, they do the opposite and try to provoke it. Their priority isn't Nicola's well being and leaving her alone, their priority is convincing people of things that aren't true to provoke a negative reaction towards Nicola, regardless of the consequences to her, because what they want is something to say that the fandom hates her. It's the worst fanbase anyone could wish for because their priority will always be themselves and their personal feelings, their own problems with fandom people and their mental health issues, they only use Nicola as a means to unleash that and it doesn't matter what consequences their actions could bring to her, she and her well being are not important to them.

[janiceomg]

The psychos are checking if i've left tumblr to see if they'll finally be free to continue their deranged activities without anyone clocking them. No, i'm still here. The thing is, unlike you, i have something called a life. But thanks for writing, knowing your deranged ass is eager to resume its activities will make me come back sooner, i have many asks to catch up with.

[janiceomg]

I'm reading your asks, no i'm not gone. Remember that i've always told you that i have real life commitments that sometimes keep me away, but i'll always come back.

One of my best friends is getting married and i'm on bridesmaid duties.

Furthermore, it's always healthy to take some time off and enjoy real life, don't forget that being present for your loved ones should always be a priority and when i say present, i mean truly present.

I'll see you in a couple of days to catch up.

[janiceomg]

And how embarrassing these self inserts are, saying Nicola doesn’t need this, Nicola is that. Someone should hold a mirror up to their ugly faces so they can finally understand that they are not Nicola, that the fact they are rejected and not accepted in fandom spaces has nothing to do with Nicola, who is loved and supported, and that lying about Luke won’t take away his achievements, and listing Nicola’s won’t change that they are still a group of losers with no accomplishments in life who need to be self inserts into someone they don’t know and who would be disgusted by them if they did

They would have to have a fulfilling life to understand this, as long as they keep being parasocial weirdo losers, they would need to insert in Nicola's life so they can live through her to feel less like what they really are.

[janiceomg]

Them saying there’s no Nicola fans on the Polin sub… there’s plenty of Nicola fans there, what there’s not anymore is Nicola solo toxics trying to control and ending up ruining every place where Nicola is supported because they were booted, and that’s burning them up because their mission in life is to turn Nicola’s stanning in hate and attacks to Luke, and since they can’t do that in the Polin sub they cry and vent their bitterness on their blogs and other accounts. I loved that you showed many posts supporting Nicola’s career while they’re over here telling lies and repeating the attacks to Luke that they can’t post there, womp womp they can keep crying🤣

As always creating alternative realities because the real life doesn't adjust to the world they want to live in, that way to live is deplorable

[janiceomg]

I read one post about the polin sub dying and i almost spit my drink laughing at the intent to cope bc just last week it was posted the grow of the sub and polin is the only past ship with a sub consistently receiving around 50k visitors weekly and almost 2 years after their season, there you have artists, fic writers and editors always active and giving content. Its a big space in which they haven’t been able to sneak in and that have them acting in despair about it

I was sent that one and had the same reaction, the ridiculousness is priceless, seeing them rubbing their own backs and saying to themselves that they "don't need that" while constantly posting complaining about it is killingly funny, but lying to themselves about the relevancy of the space to feel better about their inability to crack into it with their behavior is a new low in coping mechanisms.