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(54: August 16, 2019)

If it happens, let it. Say thank you. Say you’re grateful for everything. Then go.

#personal

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“For myself I am too heavy, and for you too light.”

— Franz Kafka, Letters To Milena

I'm here.

(53: August 26, 2018)

It's awesome having someone in your corner all the time. Fighting for you, fighting with you. Even when you're not ready to go to them yet, it's still comforting.

Today was a bad day for me. It's the kind of day where you get triggered by every little thing, the kind of day you want to just hug your knees and cry for no reason. But he was there. And instead of my knees, I hugged him and cried. He stroked my head, told me "I'm here" and that was all I needed.

So yeah, it's awesome to have someone you can lean on. Someone who understands when you have off days. Thank you for being my safety net.

#quoteoftheday #personal #quotes #daryl

Hiiiiii Jiayi! How's you and daryl?

Hello! We're doing good, thanks :)

So any updates in your life?

There are updates every single day. I don’t think I can document all of them haha

#Anonymous

Hi, recently, I found out that my partner had cheated in the previous relationship. However, he did not confess to it but I found it out myself. I am devastated. I did not know what to do. Why did he not tell me about it? Shouldn't we be honest and tell each other about our past? Should I confront him about this? I love him so much to lose him like this. Please help me. x

Hey. You haven’t lost him yet, and you don’t have to lose him. Just try your best to handle it properly. It’s easy to imagine that he probably didn’t tell you because he was ashamed or because he didn’t want you to think any less of him.

I think you definitely need to talk to him about it (confront is too strong a word) because I don’t think this is something you can just brush aside. But before you do, maybe have an idea of how you want to move forward. Knowing this about him now, can you look past it? Are you able to not let it judge your current relationship? Will you become insecure? Do you still want to be with him? You don’t have to have all the answers right now but at least think about them, and it’s your turn to be honest with him when you do talk about it.

Consider the possibility that he could react in a number of ways. Best case scenario, he is apologetic and comes clean with everything. But there’s also a chance he could be angry at you for digging up the past or for prying. What will you do then? I have a pretty clear idea of what I would do if I were in your position but I don’t necessarily want to influence you because we are two different people with different tolerance levels. But if you want to know what I would do, drop me another message! Hope it goes well xx

#Anonymous

How are you?

I'm good! x