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@jcinkanonymous
A place to vent, muse, compliment, shout-out, or just plain talk. Be kind, be courteous, remember there are people on the other side of the screen as well. We will not tolerate doxxing, witch hunts, name-dropping, or anything personally identifiable about anyone in the JCink RPC.
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So sorry to hear about burnie's loss. Wishing you all the best in these hard times. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
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hi jcink anonymous! thanks for being part of the change the rpc needs to see so badly. i hope more people begin to interact with you here!
Thank you! It's good to see people coming together to make the rpc a better and friendlier place!
shout out to the person reading this. if you need to hear it, this is for you. i think a lot of people want to be complimented without being singled out, so take what fits and make it your own:
shout out to the person that just did a bunch of posts in a row, because muse hit hard and you were excited about what you owed
shout out to the person who hasn't gotten to write in a while, but still bounces around the rpc until you find your rp home
shout out to the person who just did a post they weren't excited about, not in a bad way so much as it was hard to find the muse but you did it anyway so you wouldn't have to keep your writing partner waiting
shout out to the person who just left a site they loved because of real life
shout out to the person who shouted someone else out without ever seeing their name pop up in return, or even being found out as being the one behind it
shout out to the person who just left a site at all tbh, because it's never fun even if you don't like the site
shout out to the person thinking about getting into or back into the rpc
shout out to the person thinking about getting out of it, i know how hard that feeling is and i'm sending you lots of love
shout out to the person that is waiting patiently for posts because they know their writing partner can't right now, for any reason
shout out to the admin that wishes they had more time to write while also managing to be super excited about how much staff work they have because of member excitement
shout out to the admin of the site that just opened, and the one that just closed
shout out to the person working on a site right
shout out to the coder trying so hard to bring a design above their skill level to life
shout out to the coder trying so hard to bring any idea to life, because it's never super simple and that's okay
shout out to the coder who is trying to bring someone else's idea to life, because that is even harder sometimes
shout out to the person who said something nice to someone else today
shout out to the person who needs it, you know who you are
and shout out to you, for being here, because honestly? that's enough, and it's okay to let that be enough
and, hey, if you have something to add? let me know in the comments, or my ask box if that's a little too public right now. <3
hey rpc! its gonna be alright.
agreed. <3
luckily i have a bunch of friends like that 😂 always telling me to be firm! it's a great thing to have ❤️
Absolutely the best! Surrounding yourself with friends and people who are on your wavelength is one of the healthiest things someone can do in the rpc!
that was a great answer! thank you for the insight. i think a lot of people in the rpc have come to fear telling their writing partners 'no' because it could lead to confrontation. i dream of the day everyone learns how to communicate better.
All the rpc needs to survive the Era of Spilt Tea is learning to communicate. If you have a hard time due to anxiety (which I know I sometimes do), find someone who is willing to stick up for you and can act as an intermediary if they are up to it. That's the important part: only if they want to! I have a friend like that—whips me into having a backbone sometimes—and it really does help my confidence and self-esteem to grow at the (sometimes stern) encouragement of a friend.
yes! please spread love to rpcpositivitea. i'm a regular submitter, and i just stumbled across this blog. thanks for not allowing name dropping, doxxing and witch hunts. its likely the reason your submissions are so few, though, sadly.
so in the spirit of contribution i'll ask you, or anyone else who might be out there: do you ever put the happiness of others before yourself in terms of things you want or are comfortable with? do you find yourself trying to make your RP friends or partners happy at a detriment to yourself or the things you want to do?
i would love to know how to stop doing this.
I submit there as well sometimes, when I am at the computer. I will never allow name-dropping or doxxing, and definitely do not condone any witch hunt, ever. I don't take sides, but I do want to protect people because in the end that's what we all are: people.
In answer to your questions, I do it all the time. I've found that if you assert a little bit more what you want in terms of plots, characters, faces, etc. and your partner should be understanding. That's my test. If the person is willing to listen to my little bit of assertion, and also gives me as much as I give them, then they're a good partner. I'm comfortable with almost everything (keyword: almost), so I generally don't have a hard time finding writing partners who match my speed and energy.
Making sure my partners are happy means in turn they make sure I am happy. If they don't make me happy, but I try really hard with them, then I let them know it's not working out and that I need more energy and input from them. And if they still don't do it, I politely tell them we aren't compatible and move on.
This is a hobby at the end of the day. Finding people who match your zeal and writing style is tantamount to enjoying the rping we're all here to do.
yep. people who cried for mercy were dragged even harder, too. anonymity gives people the idea that they can say whatever they want with no repercussions, but i can only hope that karma will take care of that for us. i hope that from now on people are more invested in spreading love instead of hate, and shutting down any more tattlers that may pop up.
In total agreement to all of what you said. Anonymity kills kindness because people can hide behind their computers with little to no repercussions for their actions/words. It's sickening the same as the state of the rpc is now in. I'm wishing for all the positive vibes. And if you haven't already, spread some love to @rpcpositivitea . The rpc sure could use it!
same. i think everyone has taken a large, collective breath of relief since the deletion of tattler. imo it was cyber bullying at it's finest, which is an actual crime, and it went on for far too long. it showed a hideously ugly side of the rpc.
From what I can recall, people got doxxed, gaslit, manipulated, bullied, and harassed to no end. Some still are. It's sickening when we're all here to share our love of writing and create stories together.
now that the functioning tea blogs don't allow name dropping or dog piling (or will gladly remove tea upon request of name droppee), fewer people are submitting tea because they can no longer witch hunt.
and i love that.
Love this for the rpc. For all of us.
anyone out there? hello, hello, hello.
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