Words Like a Loaded Gun. . .
When you want to say everything to someone, but you say nothing--the ten seconds, day, month or year you take to filter emotions tends to be time well-spent.Â
As good as it temporarily feels to immediately verbalize the ribbons of thought streaming through your brain--by default, initial thoughts revolve around one person, yourself.
It's like when you see a picture and you scan it for your face first and proceed to pronounce it good or bad. Change your focus!
Post op: wisdom teeth (May 2014).
Pastor Steven Furtick says recently in a sermon (Hold That Thought) that the one thing fear and faith have in common is focus.
Fear is self-focus. It will bury you in an avalanche of worried questions. How will it affect me? What will people say about me? Can I do it?
Faith focuses on Christ, subsequently freeing you to put others first. Â
While my sister was in town for the holidays we got a little snippy with each other. She'd say something pretty random, but negative like "Your car is so dirty." The statement would hang as she would wait for me to rise to the bait. I would growl back, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it all!" Funny thing, I started notices that negative nature in myself--Oh hey, Mr. Plank. In response to this revelation, Philippians 4:8 has become helpful guide to take control of my thought-life.
----------Â Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. (ESV)