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vol-au-ventbaudelaire

25 years of ads peeled away

A warning

tomorrow

Just a psa for fic writers who use the “trauma bond” tag, please make sure you’re using it correctly. A trauma bond is not two people who experience similar trauma and bond over it. It’s a carefully curated, manipulative bond between abuser and victim to keep the victim coming back because of the addictive highs and lows that come with abuse.

If you want to tag two characters bonding over shared trauma, a good substitute tag would be “bonding over shared trauma.” Trauma bonding is, by definition, an abusive relationship and may steer people who have experienced it away from your fic. Please spread the word and happy writing!

dragonheartstring360

Feel like this is relevant again, so just gonna leave this here for anyone who needs it (been seeing this term used incorrectly a lot lately).

fangirltothefullest

Yes! "Trauma bonding" and "bonding through trauma" are two different things!

the-haiku-bot

Yes! “Trauma bonding”

and “bonding through trauma” are

two different things!

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

#ThisIsAbuse #HumanTrafficking

shiverandqueeef

Rūrangi S1E4 (2020) dir. Max Currie

chaithetics

This scene made my eyes water and seeing it on my dash did too

Watch Rūrangi! It's thoughtful rep for Māori and the trans community in the arcs, writing and casting.

Māori + (free app and website!) Has the Rūrangi film (all of S1 edited together) and both seasons and Neon (not free) has both seasons too.

yeehawllywood

I’ve been in a “cybertruck owners only” group for a year now just to watch posers try to haul over towing capacity but it has yielded something more beautiful lately

hollowboobtheory

I have to upload this as a video bc you can see her think this in real time

maraudingcaptain

OP you just can't leave out this golden comment

#too much purple and you're Barney

illmissyoutiktok

upsettingandunfortunateclasshate

This lad 👏

genginger

His name is Jesse Welles.

fvckinsociety

I want to kill myself.

That's it. That's the post.

sad-empty-lost

Looking at buildings thinking are they tall enough to jump off and kill myself

silent-poetry

what-even-is-thiss

It seems like there’s this cycle of republicans making the economy bad and then people get tired of the republicans and elect a democrat and the democrat inherits a bad economy and then they sort of fix it somewhat and then people are like hey the economy is bad it was better during the Republican administration and then they elect a Republican who inherits a better economy from the democrat while he’s trashing it and then people are like hey he’s trashing the economy and then they elect a democrat who inherits a bad economy and fixes it somewhat and then people are like hey the economy was better when there was a Republican and then they elect a Republican who trashes the sort of better economy he inherited from the democrat and so on and so forth like forever I guess

joporter89

there’s this cycle of republicans making the economy bad

what-even-is-thiss

It seems like there’s this cycle of republicans making the economy bad and then people get tired of the republicans and elect a democrat and the democrat inherits a bad economy and then they sort of fix it somewhat and then people are like hey the economy is bad it was better during the Republican administration and then they elect a Republican who inherits a better economy from the democrat while he’s trashing it and then people are like hey he’s trashing the economy and then they elect a democrat who inherits a bad economy and fixes it somewhat and then people are like hey the economy was better when there was a Republican and then they elect a Republican who trashes the sort of better economy he inherited from the democrat and so on and so forth like forever I guess

shirtsthatgohard

i got spanish anon hate for this one btw

soloorganaas

cbc-bb-deactivated20250802

there are enough tumblr users who can vote in US battleground states to literally swing the election, do you realize that?? the election is going to come down to like 80’000 votes in those states — that could be your vote! so if you live in pennsylvania, georgia, arizona, nevada, north carolina, wisconsin, michigan, etccc your vote is going to make a huge, huge difference. please for the love of god vote (and if you live in a different state, you still need to vote too)