Just A Queer

Here is where I talk about shit I can't post on main- also some trans resources I want to reference later

[just-aqueer]

6 female presenting individuals and 1 crotchety libertarian vs one white man who thinks AI is useful: who will win

[just-aqueer]

It has occurred to me over the past 24 hours that the reason I haven’t sought out care for my medical issues for so long is the deep fear that I’ll be told there is nothing to be done and that I’ll have to live with this the rest of my life. And it’s not a life I want to live. Like what the hell am I going to do if I got through all the tests and poking and prodding and procedures and the answer is “hey this sucks but there’s no treatment good luck”? I am not built to be the kind of person who lives like this. If there is no fixing this, I want to die.

[arataka-reigen]

Show me how unwell you are by telling me what your top song of 2025 is so far

[just-aqueer]

Me: hey I’m concerned that xyz is going to happen bc historically it has happened over and over again

Friend: well good thing this group of people- that I am a part of- has never done that

Friend: *does xyz*

[just-aqueer]

My mom thinks I’m just as much of an introvert as her, and we share so little at this point that I don’t want to take that connection away from her, but I think it means she doesn’t recognize that when I pull into myself it’s a cry for help rather than an effort to recharge

[just-aqueer]

Birthdays are. Hard for me. They carry a lot of weight each time they come around. I approach them with the dread of someone who has no real fear of growing older, but never planned to make it this far. Celebrating the day of my birth feels wrong, only because every year I am faced with this confusing combination of seeing the world say that birthdays are a Big Deal, but my parents have approached mine for the past decade as some passing thing, barely to be of note. I can barely remember a time where my birthday was something I looked forward to instead of approached with fear. Everything goes wrong on my birthday. One year it was spent in the emergency room at my brother’s bedside, one year it was spent delegated to a small corner in a building I resented so that my mother could have a big party for her. Last year it was spent out in the cold, just another covid Wednesday, pushed smaller to make room for others. I resent people who have good birthdays, honestly. I hate that other people get that and my own birthday is just ignored and pushed aside. I just want to be special for once.

[just-aqueer]

You don’t get to brush me off when I’m heartbroken about losing my internship and watching my entire world crumble and having to move back into my homophobic and transphobic hometown and then look for sympathy from me bc your program got cancelled and mom is still gonna keep paying your rent in your nice apartment in the city ://// grow the fuck up

[bulbasaur-propaganda]

What the hell is this.. 👀

[bulbasaur-propaganda]

Someone just sent me this.

If you want these figures, please don't buy them from any store. They are actually free downloads. Don't support scammers.

[filthyprotozoan]

i wish someone had told me at 13 that depriving yourself of food and sleep is very much a form of self harm

[filthyprotozoan]

hey kids i know sometimes things are very rough, and feeling like ur in control of ur suffering can be a coping mechanism for a while, but pls eat and sleep, and try to be gentle to yourself if you can

[dea-thgrips]

I know that “ACAB” is an acronym for All Cops Are Bastards but every time I see it I still think Assigned Cop At Birth

[dat-soldier]

“Sir… Ma’am… it’s a cop.”

“No!! Surely there’s a mistake!”

[momomoomomoomomomomomomooooved]

[because-im-freaking-greed]

I know we all know that toph loves to cuss, but I just realized

She had an extremely sheltered upbringing, then when she snuck out to fight, she went to the Earth Kingdom version of WWE, which, if it’s like real world WWE, is family entertainment, and she never spent time backstage, she came she fought she left

I don’t think Toph knows any swear words

[lostfan10000]

She learns to swear from team avatar and becomes all powerful.

[because-im-freaking-greed]

I don’t think Sokka or Katara would know swears either; they grew up in a village consisting of them, Gram Gram, and a bunch of little kids and their moms

I don’t know if the airbenders taught aang swears or not but I know he’s not really the type to swear anyway

Zuko, on the other hand, spent about 3 years of his life as a young angry teenager surrounded by sailors

[waterbenderkat]

Zuko and Suki teach the Gaang to cuss— the Avatar spinoff.

[hybridsheart]

hi i just want everyone to know that i will never ever EVER be angry with anyone for not replying to my texts even though you’re visibly online and reblogging/posting. i understand that holding a conversation takes a lot more energy and effort than scrolling and posting and that’s 100% okay. take care of yourself first. the whole idea that you HAVE to reply to someone when you’re online is toxic and makes mentally ill people feel as though they are bad friends just because they can’t always reply within minutes. 

[blurrymango]

Remove the first and last letter of your name. Let’s see how cool is your new name.

Ranci.

[just-aqueer]

Idk but to me The Lonely doesn’t seem like it should be vast, empty rooms with immediately uncomfortable chairs. That’s for the Lukas family, for those trying to raise beings in isolation, not a way to topple those who have lived and lost. The way I see it, the Lonely should be cramped, overcrowded with now untouchable memories. Sure, looking at a picture of old friends you’ve lost touch with might bring a momentary comfort, but that just makes the ache that follows all that much deeper, more painful. Not being allowed books and movies growing up encouraged the Lukas’s in their journey to the Lonely, but when stories you once lived turn stale from over reading, when you grow out of the way of thinking that caused those stories to bring you joy... That’s worse, isn’t it?

[just-aqueer]

Idk but it really says something that in the same night my ex brought up senior year- an event she knows is a huge ass trigger for me and something I’ve told her on multiple occasions I can’t handle- my girlfriend is sending me TikToks of birds. I’m so much happier, and so much better cared for in this relationship than I ever was in that one.

[just-aqueer]

I’m so much happier now, with her, than I ever was with you. You never really cared for me in the way I cared for you, but she loves me just as much as I love her. I don’t think you ever really understood how I felt for you back then. I don’t know if you’ll ever understand, or if you’ll ever be able to grasp that there were parts of the way that we interacted that you will never see again. Things I said and did because I thought what we had was real and permanent, that now that I have moved on and have her, we will never have again.

I don’t know how to tell you that I don’t think you should come to my wedding

[timelordinaustralia]

The Cybermen on trampolines | requested by anon