KimThuggaMf

26. HTx. Aries.

[houstonsugarbaby]

Freestyling 101 for SBs.

Okay…. so freestyling isn’t for finding men to give you x per meet, that’s something else. Freestyling is looking for vanilla gems that are willing to be a SDBF (sugar daddy boyfriend). Most men don’t know that they’re a sugar daddy waiting to be found until you find them and make them realise they want to spend it all on you. The goal is find a dapper older man with a Hublot on a nicely fitted suit at a bar that has been making eye contact with you all night. You chat, you flirt, light taps to the knee or slight arm grabs. You exchange numbers. You DO NOT talk money. You talk about your goals and how career minded you are. You go on a fancy date. You tell him you’re attracted to older men because they “know how to spoil and take care of a gorgeous young lady”. They “appreciate” your time more. He’ll get the hint. It may start with shopping and gifts (no intimacy yet, just kissing). You could even go as far as aaaalmost having sex then “having to go because you have to be up early for work! Work pays the bills!” He won’t be able to get you out of his mind. Wow, he never thought he’d get so lucky with a young, hot 20-something year old. You can then mention a pesky bill that you’re struggling to pay for (real or fake to test the generous waters)… if he sends money without batting an eyelid then JACKPOT. If it’s an issue, you kick to the curb and start against.

[theluxemiss]

Old Hollywood Gold Digger Classic Films

All About Eve (1950)

Bringing up Baby & Holiday (1938) – Cary Grant & Katharine Hepburn

Butterfield 8 – Elizabeth Taylor

Cat on a Hot Tin Roof

Daddy Longlegs – Fred Astaire

Double Indemnity (1944)

East of Eden

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes – Marilyn Monroe

Gilda (1946)

His Girl Friday (1940) – Cary Grant & Rosalind Russell

How to Marry a Millionaire – Marilyn Monroe

It Happened One Night

Jezebel (1938)

La Dolce Vita (1960)

Porgy & Bess (1959) – Sidney Poitier & Dorothy Dandridge

Sabrina (1954) – Audrey Hepburn & Humphrey Bogart

Spellbound (1945) – Gregory Peck & Ingrid Bergman

That Touch of Mink – Cary Grant

The Apartment (1960) – Jack Lemmon & Shirley MacLaine

The Clock (1945) – Judy Garland & Robert Walker

The Lady Eve (1941)

The Postman Always Rings Twice (1946)

The Seven Year Itch (1955)

The Snows of Kilimanjaro (1952) – Ava Gardner & Gregory Peck

The Women (1939) – Norma Shearer & Joan Crawford

[bittersweetbutterfly]

Always sweetie, always.

[borntooearlyborntoosmall]

[letterstoleia]

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Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!

So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo

Safety

Deleting yourself from the internet

Sending pictures via google voice texting 

Square cash warning 

Amazon gifts safety

COP or POT?

Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby

Phone safety

What information should you give your SD?

Verify him

Safety links for sugar babies

All about screening

How SD’s can track where you live

The Miranda warning

Internet safety tips

Receiving packages

Staying safe as a sugar baby

Sugar baby safety 

Sugar baby safety tip

Sugar baby safety & catfishing

Free background check website

Is he the real deal?

Tricking him to keep your privacy

Keeping your privacy

Very important hoe safety tip

Free-styling

Free-stying guide

Eye-contact

Turning vanilla to sugar

How to approach men while free styling

Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies

Where to freestyle

All about free-styling

Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start

Free-styling tips

Top three places to freestyle

Free-styling & staff

What NOT to ask him

Meeting SD’s online

Craigslist title tip

Ashley Madison

Sugar dating and craigslist

List of sugar dating sites

Sugaring using tinder

Tindering tip

How to tinder

Craigslist masterpost

Craigslist sugar

Writing/writing back to messages

The perfect message

How to message men on sugar sites

Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid

Perfecting your message

More messaging advice

Sugar sites to check out

Weeding through messages on sugar sites

Allowance, financials, and budgeting

How to get the allowance you want

How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance

Allowance or pay per meet?

All about money

Cash/gifts on a POT date

What form should I take my allowance in?

How to make real money

Sugar baby banking tips

Spending your sugar money

Asking for money on a POT date

Getting him to buy you something

Financial advice

Drain his bank account

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…

Saving money

How much can he really pay you?

Budgeting tips for sugar babes

Tips on spending your sugar money

Allowance and AmEx cards

Let’s talk budgeting

5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer

What to say to get the allowance you want

Sugar banking

Allowance and bank laws

Random cash tips

He pays for what he wants

Investing 101

Allowance negotiation tactics

The art of sugar dating

How to handle a first date with a POT

What NOT to talk about on a POT date

Organizing your POTs

How to: manipulate the conversation 

How to create a positive impression

6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had

What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!

50 unusual date ideas

Checklist the night before your date

What you need to do before your POT date

Your first POT date

Dining etiquette

Dining etiquette pt. 2

How to fake confidence

Conversation tips

Confidence

Classy conversation topics

First date conversations with your SD

What to bring in your purse on a sugar date

Bullshit to spit on dates

Things to know about wine

First date advice

How to handle a first date

100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date

How cheat your way through small talk

Conversation topics

Developing your personality

The psychology of persuasion

Seduction, manipulation & negotiation

Remember: You are an actress/actor

The art of seduction

Strategies to try on your SD

Sugar negotiation

Bullshitting 101

Make him take you seriously

How to make him want to say yes

Body language 

Master guide: Body language linguistics 

Manipulation tips

How to manipulate people into liking you more

Sugar manipulation

How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more

Emotion, seduction and manipulation

Marketing yourself

How to attract a man

Perks of sugaring - power

Being your SD’s fantasy

Manipulation success

The girlfriend experience

Keeping your SD

Treat your SD right… Or someone else will

Keeping him hooked

Don’t become familiar or ordinary

Become his fantasy

Don’t forget the details

Keeping your sugar daddy

 Bedroom tips

Treating your SD right

How to keep an SD interested

Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD

Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)

Blowjob tips

Appearance

How to make yourself more attractive

Fashion tips and dress codes

How to dress “sugar”

Hoe products

Fuck-proof makeup list

How to be a kept woman

Looking elegant

Sex prep

Lingerie masterpost

20 beauty tips

Charming cash out of your sugar daddy

Vaginal hygiene 

Invest in yourself

Sugar tote essentials

Contouring cheat sheet

A hoes guide to body care

Sugar baby check list

Platonic Sugar

A tip for aspiring sugar babes

Being a platonic SB

Being a pure sugar baby

Sugar Travel

Traveling with your SD

Travel etiquette for sugar babies

Sugar baby travel tip

Traveling sugar

General tips/info on sugaring

The rules of sugaring

Sugar baby manifesto

Sugar baby academy

How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone

The secrets to being a successful sugar baby

Random sugar baby tip

Great sugar tip

“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”

25 tips to make you better sugar

Being a successful sugar baby

10 golden rules of sugar dating

General sugar baby tips

Sugar baby general guide

Apps every sugar baby needs

Sugar baby mentality

Sugar baby survival tips

Sugar baby wisdom

Sugar baby resources

What being a SB is all about

6 common sugar baby mistakes

Remain calm, cool and collected

Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:

What SB’s often forget

You are not asking for too much!

Beginning advice for newbies

Tips for new sugar babies

Always have a plan B

Tip to new sugars

So you want to be a sugar baby…

What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?

5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them

Patience

Remember this when you become a sugar baby

4 things every aspiring SB should know

“How do I become a sugar baby?”

How to stand out as a sugar baby

“Learn from my sugar mistakes”

“When is right to start sugaring?”

Tips from a successful sugar baby

6 tips for aspiring SBs

All about him

How to know if he’s the right sponsor

Sugar daddy check list 

Don’t believe what he says

How to get him to raise your allowance

POTs

Filtering the POTs

How to spot a fake POT

Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay

Distinguishing sugar from salt

10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship

Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date

“What should I say?” And personality

Don’t be mundane and predictable

When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”

When he complains about paying you

When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before 

Communicating your standards

How to say “no” to your SD

How to insist on a condom

What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”

When he says “I’ll pay you later”

Your sugar profile

Writing tips

Make your profile work for you

Face shot or no face shot? 

Random tips/things/misc.

P.O. boxes and why you should have one

“Advice I received from a whale SD”

Long distance sugar

How to be a boss ass bitch

Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote

How to organize your hustle 

Sugaring from scratch

“Sex is sex, but money is money”

Mandatory sugar tool

No luck finding a sugar daddy?

The official sex worker reading list

Getting your sugar daddy back

Sugar baby texting

Suggested sugar reading list

[silviesb-xo-blog]

Super useful list!

[bellasugarxx-blog]

Useful list for newbies! X

[meetsinnamonbanxxx]

🙏

[studioussugar]

An Escort’s Favorite Products and Their Hoe Uses

For those that have asked about my self-care regimen, here are my favorite products and their uses! I’ll definitely update this as I get more escorting experience and my product selection grows. 

Body

I have sensitive, weird skin. I’m allergic to almost all BBW products. Here are the things I love! 

Aloe Vera Baby Oil - Shaving the cooch

Tend Skin - Prevents razor burn after shaving the cooch

Neutrogena Body Clear Scrub - Exfoliates and gets rid of random bumps

Aveeno Therapeutic Shave Gel - For a soft, super close shave on your legs

Lollia Perfumed Shower Gel - All of their scents smell amazing and they leave behind a muted scent. Plus, it’s very thick so a little bit goes a long way. Seriously, a quarter sized dollop is enough to get foamy suds over your entire body!

Lollia Hand Creme - Will give you the smoothest, softest hands ever. Especially important for touching wieners. 

Intimore Intimate Wash - My favorite wash for cleaning the vag. ALL of their varieties are safe for sensitive skin and they have great uses. The Therapeutic wash is great if you’ve been fucked raw. Very soothing!

Lush Sugar Scrub - Great for exfoliating, it leaves your skin very bright and radiant and it is supposed to reduce the appearance of cellulite!

Nip + Fab Glycolic Fix Extreme Pads - I use these to get rid of weird bumps or razor burn on my legs after shaving. Will literally clear up those weird clear bumps that aren’t quite whiteheads or pimples. 

Kiehl’s Soy Milk & Honey Whipped Body Butter - Will leave your entire body smoother than a baby’s butt and the scent is very light. Super hydrating. I use this every night after a hot bath. I also use this to moisturize my cooch. YES, YOU CAN AND SHOULD MOISTURIZE YOUR COOCH. It’s okay! Try it!

Sally Hansen Airbrush Legs - It’s like foundation for your legs! It comes in either a squeeze bottle or mist. I use the squeeze bottle more because the mist WILL STAIN your bathroom tile or toilet, if you prop your leg on it to spray. 

St. Tropez Express Bronzing Mousse with Mitt - I used this for the first time last night because my spray tan was wearing off. It gives a really natural tan and you only have to leave it on 1-3 hours, depending on how dark you want to go, before rinsing! I left mine on for a little less than two hours and I have a nice, NATURAL looking tan glow! 

Hair

I’m a light ashy blonde with frizzy, unmanageable hair. Here are my top picks for products. 

Batiste Dry Shampoo - Absolute BEST dry shampoo and it’s super affordable. Very fine powder. It comes in a bunch of varities, I like the sleek and shine the most. 

AG Hair Cosmetics Sterling Silver Shampoo - Great purple shampoo for blondes. 

Davines Alchemic Conditioner - They have different formulas for different hair colors. I use the purple conditioner for blondes and it’s a great purple mask that tones and deep conditions. 

Kerastase Shampoo & Conditioner - Comes in a ton of varities. I use the ones for damaged hair and frizzy hair. BEST shampoo and conditioners I have ever used. It doesn’t take much product and every product does what it says it will. 

Kerastase Fluidissime Blow Dry Spray - For frizzy or curly hair. It gives heat protection, shine and smoothness. I use this when I want my hair to be super straight or I want to style it after blow drying. 

Kerastase L’ncroyable Blow Dry - Most amazing blow dry lotion ever. Seriously. Now my most used product. 

Kerastase Ciment Thermique - Protecting blow dry lotion for damaged/colored hair. 

Davines Melu Serum - For disguising split ends. Also adds shine. 

Davines Minu Mask - Illuminating hair mask used to add back shine and dimension

Carol’s Daughter Monoi Mask - Great for softness and hydration. Smells amazing. Probably my favorite mask. 

Kerastase Masqueintense - Second favorite hair mask. It’s ultra smoothing and revitalizes your hair. 

Kerastase Elixir Ultime - Great hair oil! Lighter than Morrocanoil with the same benefits, though the smell isn’t as nice. 

Shu Uemura Straight Forward - Great blowdry spray oil. It really does cut down the amount of time it takes to blow out your hair. I use this with the Kerastase Incredible Blowdy. 

Skin Care

I have sensitive, combination skin. I used to get random hormonal acne. 

Glamglow ThirstyMud - Great for hydration and smells amazing. You can use it as rinse off or a sleeping mask.

Glamglow Flashmud - Brightening, revitalizing mask. I use this on my butt to help get rid of a few blemish scars. No, I am not joking. Yes, it is actually working. 

Glamglow Thirstycleanse - Amazing mud cleanser for whenever my skin is feeling a little dry or needs some nourishment. 

Glamglow Supercleanse - My favorite cleanser ever. It’s a mud-oil dual pump and it takes off every BIT of make up and keeps your skin super clear! Plus, it’s not drying!

Peter Thomas Roth BHA 2% Acne Wash - For if I feel a breakout coming on. One bottle will likely last you over a year. 

Peter Thomas Roth Blemish Buffing Beads - Great for body acne.

Glamglow Fizzy Lip - Great exfoliating lip scrub, plus you get twice as much product as most other lip scrubs. 

Glamglow Wet Lip - Intense softening lip treatment. You should definitely be using both of these to get seductive, soft, kissable lips! 

Sunday Riley Luna Sleeping Oil - I use this at night before bed. It’s anti-aging, moisturizing, clarifying, fights wrinkles and reduces pore size. 

Sunday Riley Good Genes Serum - I use this in the morning and it makes my skin look superb. Best skin product I’ve ever had. It brightens, exfoliates, gives radiance and evens out hyperpigmentation. 

Clarins HydraQuench Intensive Serum Bi-Phase - I use this serum as my moisturizer and it keeps my skin super nourished! It doesn’t clog up your pores and hydrates your dry areas. Definitely the best moisturizer I’ve ever used.

[soulfulfilled1]

The Law of Attraction Technique More Powerful Than Visualizing:

What is it? Re-writing or imagining the day as you wished it had been. Every incident and conversation.

Where did it come from? Neville Goddard, a mystic teacher who taught in Los Angeles and New York in the 1950s, was the first to understand and apply the technique of revision.

How do I do it? In your mind recall the day from when you woke up. Make each incident conform to your ideal wishes. So, if you woke to a loud bang from the neighbour above, you would change that to seeing that you woke peacefully. If you received a letter with disappointing news, mentally read the letter you wished you had read instead! Imagine all your bills were paid. Imagine he/she didn’t snap at you, but infact helped you. Imagine that phone call you’ve been waiting for. Imagine you had a sense of peace that never left you today. Imagine you had more than enough time, money and energy left over at the end of the day! And either see this in your mind or write it out. The essential point is to feel the reality of what you wished had happened.

Why does it work? Neville Goddard said revision allows you to radically change your attitude to your present circumstances and to the world. And to the degree you can change your attitude, the world around you will change to reflect that.

What are the benefits? •It is similar to mindfulness meditation because it helps remove the residue of stress that builds up daily. •It helps you press Pause on the negative flow if you are in one. •It enhances your mental faculties of imagination and willpower as you imagine what you’d like •It helps you believe you are more in control of your life than you know.

Examples: •A woman that saw a hat she wanted but couldn’t afford, imagined she had it and was later gifted the exact same hat. •A boss that was hard to work with for 11 years, became more appreciative of his employer overnight, praising her design skills. All the designer did that morning was imagine on her walk to work that her boss was with her the whole commute, praising her. •A young person imagined a tax refund letter and a revised bill, with an apology for the over-charge, came within a week.

*For affordable private law of attraction coaching please see: http://manifestingsuccess.tumblr.com/post/159165420894/new-offer-law-of-attraction-life-coaching-for-10*

Change your today, and tomorrow will follow.

[ninuile]

The New York Times did an article about the science behind this: https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/01/19/writing-your-way-to-happiness/?emc=edit_nn_20170518&nl=morning-briefing&nlid=59536457&te=1

[sugarrangel-blog]

How to stand out as an SB

#1 Don’t talk about money at the get go. 

Look, I understand. It’s tiring to get your hair done, makeup done and strut in heels and be on your best behavior on dates without knowing if your POT’s budget for an allowance meets your expectations. 

But remember this - the best SB’s understand that the real value is in the intangible benefits that an SD can provide.

There are tons of millionaires who can shag you 4 times a month and give you money to pay off your rent, utilities and bills. No big deal there.

But finding someone you can connect with saves you all that faking of chemistry. If there’s a real mutual benefit there, you find someone who’s willing to invest time in you - to listen to your needs, as you will with his. 

If your POT realizes that you’re in it for the long haul, and are interested in understanding how he got so successful - guess what? 

You’d have snagged priceless lessons that’d help you be financial independent one day - even as a trophy wife.

#2 Have unshakeable standards

I just had a really nice first date with Champagne Pot yesterday. And he just sent me a text this morning to meet this wednesday for coffee and … head to the Hilton for an hour. He mentioned $500 and a talk about future arrangements.

This is what I replied:

“hi xxx - I’m really flattered that you’re interested in me :-) But I hope you understand that even if I’m a sexual person, I wouldn’t be comfortable being intimate with someone who isn’t my formal sponsor. I’m extremely exclusive, and hope that you know that I’d love to first discuss if we want a similar arrangement before becoming intimate - as much as I’m attracted to you ;-)”

Sure. I kinda would like the $500 before going for my $500 WYP date. That’s a grand for half a day’s work, and I don’t even have a model’s body.

But hey, I’m tall, smart and hopelessly ladylike. I command attention whenever I step into a room. Heck, I was doing my nails yesterday and every one did a double take when they passed by the salon. And nope, I’m not even skinny. 

It’s the way I carry myself, It’s the way I dress. Always classy, always confident - always smiling and charming.

I used to think about all that was wrong with me. That was then.

Guys can find an easy fuck if they want. Go ahead. I’m not that girl. Don’t get me wrong. I love a good fuck. If I’m attracted to a guy? Heck I’d do him without thinking if I’m getting paid. Sex is sex. I still enjoy it. But I won’t fake it for money.

What my SD will get though - is my grace and attention and all that jealousy from men who’d pass us by. 

Really. I’m sure a lot of you babies are even more beautiful than I am. Remember that you’re more than just a fuck. But more importantly - Act like it.

#3 Be patient

Men can smell desperation. And it smells like an easy screwover.

The odds for SDs are so much better than for us babies. So they know its their ball game - any day, any time. They know it. We know it. And they sure damn well know WE know it.

Champagne asked me about my financial expectations. I said 5k a month. I saw him typing, and deleting.. and typing and deleting..

So I said this:

“Hey.. I want you to know I’ve met with others - and even with their generous allowances, I’ve never gone with someone I don’t feel attracted to. And I’m attracted to you. I just usually don’t talk about money this early on in our relationship.  But please don’t rush in thinking about it. I want you to be comfortable with me as well. This is my expectations but I want you to be happy in knowing that you’ve selected the right babe for yourself.”

If I bag him and bossy banker - that’s 10k a month for 3/month meetups. Great? Yes.

But if I don’t bag them? I’d move on and find someone else.

This is a marketplace. But don’t be that desperate product on sale that’d settle.

If they’re not meeting your expectations - someone else will. Maybe not today, maybe not this week, maybe not this month.

Look babies. You’re in this for longer than a month, right? Be patient. 

Don’t give up your standards, ever, just because you’re greedy and impatient.

The real gold takes time to be found. And you definitely want to be an available sugar baby when that time comes.

So be patient, my babies and all the best!

-Via: Sugarrangel

[sophisticatedsugar]

Good advice. Thanks for sharing xo

[babybree-deactivated20160902]

Pro-Tip

I know most people associate LUSH Cosmetics with white girls and bath bombs but products from this beautiful company have faded my scars and stretch marks, completely gotten rid of my acne, fixed my dry skin problems, thickened my eyelashes, laid my edges, made my hair grow like crazy… I can go on and on. I’ve actually never tried the bath bombs, but their skincare and haircare products work magic.

[babybree-deactivated20160902]

Fading Scars / Stretch Marks Organic Therapy Massage Bar

Extra Dry Skin King of Skin In-Shower Body Conditioner, Skin Drink Facial Moisturizer, Sultana of Soap Bar, Tender is the Night Massage Bar, Each’s a Peach Massage Bar

Acne Fresh Farmacy Solid Cleanser, Eau Roma Toning Water, Full of Grace Serum Bar

Thickening Lashes Eyes Right Mascara / Lash Milk

Edges R&B Hair Moisturizer (if you put this on your edges before wrapping your hair, they’ll be relaxer-straight when you wake up, lasts about 12 hours), Dirty Styling Cream (cream-based edge control with a matte finish, no more shiny or crunchy edges) 

Hair Growth NEW! Shampoo Bar, Retread Hair Conditioner

[babybree-deactivated20160902]

I was asked to list the rest of the products I currently have in my possession, so here y’all go!

FACE / HAIR STUFF

Magical Moringa Facial Moisturizer Oh my lordy. Let me tell y'all about this stuff. It’s marketed as a moisturizer but I use it as a primer because when you put this on your face, it’s completely matte. Like completely. All day. And it will lock your makeup in place like no other. You can sweat in it, swim in it, whatever. Shit won’t budge. Ever.

Jason & the Argan Oil Shampoo Bar Amazing for volumizing. It made the three bundles in my head look more like five when I used this thing the first time, I kid you not. Also gives your hair a really natural shine. I only use it when I really need a volume boost, otherwise it’s just too much.

No Drought Dry Shampoo If you have a weave, you need this stuff. Period. A lot of times, the natural oils in our scalps (referring to my fellow black women here) are too heavy for Brazilian, Peruvian, etc hair, and so it’s easy for weave to get weighed down between washes. Shake this stuff in your hair, brush it out - bam, flow city.

Honey Trap Lip Balm My favorite lip balm, ever. Really improves the texture of your lips and seals in moisture. However, this is not for fixing chapped lips - use Ultrabalm for that first, and then this to prevent them from chapping again. Also, pro-tip, if you apply it before liquid lipstick, your lipstick won’t crease or dry out all day.

MASSAGE BARS

Strawberry Feels Forever Smells like fresh strawberries! Has a much thinner consistency than the other massage bars, so it can be used every day, like a solid lotion.

Soft Coeur Smells like chocolate and honey, and is ridiculously moisturizing. More heavy-duty than the other bars, so I like to only use this one on spots like my knees, heels, and elbows.

From Dusk til Dawn The shape of this one is amazing. It’s shaped like a cone, so it gives a deep massage when you’re using it. Definitely recommend if you have any sort of muscle pain.

SCRUBS

The Rough with the Smooth This stuff smells soooo good. Like cotton candy. I use it before I shave because it really does an amazing job at removing any dead skin and it doesn’t leave a residue, so it won’t clog your razor. However, it’s a sugar scrub, so it melts super quickly.

Ocean Salt This is a heavy-duty scrub. Really amazing if you have dry, flaky skin, and the healing properties of the salt are really great if you have acne. It’ll dry it up and heal it super quick.

Cup o’ Coffee Face & Body Mask I’m on my fourth jar of this already. The coffee beans are ground up just enough to give a deep, yet gentle scrub and the caffeine in the bar really does wake up your skin and make it look brighter. Great for the morning.

Buffy It smells like a vacation, that’s really the only way to describe it. It’s an exfoliant bar and body butter mixed together, so you rub it all over while you’re still in the shower, and then rinse the sand off. After, rub the oils in and pat dry. No need for lotion after because it seals in the moisture from your shower.

SHOWER GELS / JELLIES

Rose Jam Shower Gel Smells like roses and has a really bubbly lather. More cleansing than moisturizing. I like to use it before a more moisturizing soap because it’s great for removing dirt and oil from the skin.

The Olive Branch Shower Gel A long-time favorite of mine. Great for dry skin, as it has a really creamy lather versus a bubbly one. Also, the smell is very calming and lingers for a long time.

Needles & Pines Shower Jelly It’s a solid shower gel (consistency of jello), and it smells like Christmas trees! I like to store it in the fridge and use it when it’s hot outside, super cleansing and refreshing.

SOAPS:

Roses All the Way Personal favorite! Smells like roses & vanilla ice cream. Super moisturizing and so, so creamy. Definitely buy if you suffer from dry skin.

Yog Nog Very moisturizing and the scent lingers for a really long time. Smells like snickerdoodles and eggnog.

Bohemian Not at all creamy, as it’s an exfoliating soap. It’s great to use on dark spots like knees and armpits because the exfoliants soften the skin and the lemon juice evens out your skintone. Smells like lemons.

Karma Another favorite. It has a super thin consistency but is still very moisturizing, so it’s a good shaving soap because it won’t gunk up your razor. Smells like incense and patchouli.

Figs & Leaves Smells like dirt and grass, in a good way. Super cleansing. As in your skin will literally squeak after using it, so I recommend using an in-shower moisturizer like King of Skin after using it.

OTHER:

Atomic Toothy Tabs Solid toothpaste that you crush up in your mouth. It sounds weird but these things are phenomenal. They really leave your teeth squeaky clean, and are the sole reason my teeth are so white - I don’t use any whitening products. This particular kind smells like cloves and cinnamon.

Ultrabalm All Purpose Balm This stuff is amazing. It’s an all-over balm for rough spots. I use it in the winter time on my hands and lips, because they get dry. I also use it year round on my face where I get dry spots, as it doesn’t clog pores.

Silky Underwear Dusting Powder Another holy grail. If you could turn cocoa butter into a powder, this would be it. It’s not drying like baby powder, it’s more silky (it’s also talc-free). I use it between my legs to prevent chafing and under my boobs when it’s hot outside to prevent sweating.

[raincitykittyy]

This is actually so helpful because a lot of times I go into lush and I just end up getting pink things and things that smell good because I don’t know what other products are worth purchasing!

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Sugar Bowl Master Post

None of these posts are mine and for all I know there’s 300 master lists filled with the same links. I also am no professional in this job field so if you have questions contact the people attached to their own links. But this what I’ve gathered up and feel free to add your own links/experiences.

Filer Method for POTs

Shopping With Your SD

What To If You’re Worried You Won’t Get Paid On Time

Uping Bedroom Game

How To Be a Successful SB

(not SB specific) Sales Techniques

Reasons To Become a Sugar Baby

Positive Reminders

Tips for POTs

Occupational Hazards

Basics For Being Around a POT/SD

Marketing

A Reminder For SB Newcomers

Taking Care of Yourself

10 Golden Rules

Apps to Use While Sugaring

7 Top Mistakes Made in Online Profiles

Banking Tips

10 Mistakes That Can Be Made

Apps Like Paypal That Don’t Require Your Actual Name

Advice From a Sugar Daddy

Natural Acne Care

Perks of Sugaring

Possible Long-term Goals

Financial Advice

Types of Sugar Daddies

Advice from a Sugar Baby

Short FAQ on Sugaring

New SB Tip

Get the Money First

Searching for a SD

Tips for Dealing With POTs

Cheap Self-Care

Sugar Baby Allowance

Communication with Sugar Daddies

Good Sites to Find POTs

Upper Class Culture ( 1 ) ( 2 )

Plans for SBs

Negotiation Tactic

Allowance Tips

6 Common Mistakes

Allowance and Bank Laws

Steps to Become a Sugar Baby

Tips for Your First Date with Your POT

Sugar Baby Reminder

Appropriate Responses to Give to SDs

Budgeting Tips

Money Making Tips

That’s all I have saved.

[sugasugabae-blog]

I think one of the harder things about sugaring is learning to hold in your pettiness unless it is definitely a closed deal. You want so badly to tell these men off but doing so would sometimes be more ruinous than beneficial. Especially when you’re a petty bitch like me. 

[parkavenueprxncess]

[realglucose-deactivated20191201]

Where are all the Houston, TX SBs?!

[brownsugarrbby]

Ugh I wish I was in Houston so bad, I’m in wack ass Austin 😞

[realglucose-deactivated20191201]

Start a group chat in Austin, I know their has to be quite a few there.

[brownsugarrbby]

Thanks babe! Couldn’t help but notice that you’re also Nigerian. Love to see my girls killing it

[realglucose-deactivated20191201]

😱😱 you’re naija babe too?!? Why are you in Austin? You should be in Houston too 😂 lol

[onlytwitterpics]

[dontletthemcallyouskinny]

Dani's guide to getting Thick/Gaining Weight!

First off I just want to say that it is frustrating and kind of difficult, but completely possible of course!

*****This Is Just What I Do!*****

Number 1 rule, consistency is key! I have a hard time with that, but when I’m eating consistently that’s when I see results.

Number 2: The key to gaining weight is to eat more! Sounds simple but I know it can be difficult. You need about 500 extra calories a day to gain 1 pound a week. (*I personally don’t count calories though) Eat all the time, more than you usually do, eat until you’re absolutely full. Until you can’t take another bite! It’s going to be uncomfortable at first but it’s important. The more you eat the more your stomach will stretch, the more you’ll be able to eat! 

Good things to eat: Starchy foods like pastas and potatoes. Bread, cheese, peanut butter sandwiches, chicken, fish, rice, beans, anything calories dense but healthy. Drink lots of milk. Mix things, like beans and rice. All kinds of sandwiches. Bagels w cream cheese. Snacks like granola bars, peanuts… Not Junk food! 

I usually eat a bowl of oatmeal and some eggs with cheese on top for breakfast. A sandwich with some type of snack and a yogurt. And whatever my mom cooks for dinner lol. It’s usually some form of protein, chicken or fish and rice or pasta. And I snack throughout the day. 

Also to get extra calories in I drank nutritional supplements. There’s name brand ones like Boost and Ensure but I just drank the rite aid brand. I would mix a can with milk and it would end up being around 400+ calories. I’d drink them twice a day.

Number 3: Lift heavy! You want to do exercises that are going to shape your body. Squats, deadlifts, lunges, stepups, bridges, donkey kicks, the leg press machine all build up your booty. But there’s tons of moves you could do and tons of variations!

Work your abs to keep them tight. Keep in mind though, you can’t control where the weight you gain goes and everyone carries their weight differently. So, it’s possible you might gain a little on your tummy area and just doing ab work isn’t going to get rid of it. You’ll have to do some cardio, which probably sounds scary to someone trying to gain. But it’s okay, you can do sprints/hill sprints! You’ll burn fat and gain muscle!

This is like a basic plan, which just starting out is all you really need. There are weight gain supplements and protein shakes you could take, but I don’t think that’s necessary to begin with. It all depends on your goals, so research bulking and female body building if you’re going for a more muscular look. I personally just want to look thick, with abs.

*I don’t count calories because I know my eating habits. I normally eat two small meals. So changing that to three large meals plus adding snacks, adds more than enough calories for me to gain, no counting needed.

Feel free to ask me any questions you have! 

[houstonsugarbaby]

Houston babies...

Who wants to go freestyling tonight?