Mother Calamity

Trans mom (literally and metaphorically)/38/🔞

[kalamity-jayne]

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[not-a-spy-garak]

[valas-illyn]

I need this gif reversed

[freakdroids]

nice

[cutie-chimera]

Today marks 37 years old and 4 years into my transition.

This was me 4 years ago. 3 weeks on HRT 33 years old.

This is me today.

DON'T YOU EVER let "It's to late for me" slip into your heart because my sweet and beautiful sisters. You are just a few short years away from the best years of your life.

Go on get it 💪

[cutie-chimera]

Since this blew up, I wanted to take a moment to say something very important.

This isn't just a post of what HRT can do. It is meant to show the power of choosing you. Starting your transition is a radical act of self love. A catalyst, but that alone isn't enough.

The woman you see is the product of 4 years of work. I quit drinking, I quit smoking, I went to bed earlier, changed my relationship with food, and started moving again.

None of which was easy, but I kept something in the back of my head this whole time. That if I choose myself a little bit each day. To drink the water. Eat the veggies. Go for a 5 minute walk. That it wasn't nothing. What it really was is small moments of radical self love.

Choosing to transition is such a realization of power. The power to choose what is best for you. Carry that with you every day. However much you can. Whether that is doing an hour long workout, or just going to bed 15 minutes early. Choose you radically my loves ❤️

[acquired-stardust]

Soulcalibur 3 Playstation 2 2005

[lilyblisslys]

in elegant repose ✨

Onlyfans

[puppygirllaika]

so. i just learned that my entirely me-written resume flags as being AI-written by automated HR systems for a few writing quirks and the fact that i followed all the rules of good resume writing, which is apparently a telltale sign of AI use in this fucking hellworld. i've been desperately applying to jobs that i am massively overqualified for for months with no response, not even an interview, and now i find out that at least part of the reason is because some fucking moron decided that following the rules every career advisor has given me for a decade means i cheated and should be disqualified. the ai bubble cannot pop soon enough. what the actual fuck.

[puppygirllaika]

"frequent use of action-result sentences. bullet points all start with action verbs. no career gaps." girl what the fuck are you talking about. that's just resume writing advice being followed. i just did what i was told. it's a fucking resume. you're supposed to do all that stuff. what the fuck do you mean it looks ai generated and wouldn't pass basic detection systems?????????? for following the resume writing rules????????????

[puppygirllaika]

wishing every AI bro and ceo a very [REDACTED]

[closet-keys]

this is what I mean about how right now in the united states (won't speak for elsewhere but feel free to lmk in the notes if you'd like) a lot of us trans adults who are able to access transition care can only do so at the direct expense of trans minors. this clinic would not have opened if they held the line and offered equal access to healthcare to trans minors.

"Martin announced the direct-care clinic, calling it “one of the first times a public health department has ever taken that step.” But when Cabán pushed back, pointing out that trans youth are the ones most under attack right now—noting that there are “almost no providers” left for youth the entire city—Martin indicated the clinic would not serve youth, citing the need to “strike a balance” between providing care and avoiding “clawbacks from the federal government.” This morning, EITM can directly confirm that the age cutoff is 19—matching the Trump administration’s executive order threshold, not the standard legal age of adulthood in New York."

a lot of the structural transphobia we are experiencing is hitting minors even worse. their care gets banned first. if you want a preview of what access to healthcare will look like for us trans adults in 2 years, look at what access looks like for legal minors right now.

please have the compassion to show them solidarity now. do for them what you hope a cis person will do for us. like at the very least, talk about it.

[tofu-rebecca]

my take on the "can trans men be lesbians?" thing is that i would never ever comment on a stranger's identity and i would never tell someone i don't know what they can or can't do but also like. come on. if you're explicitly choosing to be a man you can get mad when women don't want to date you.

[tofu-rebecca]

if you're going into a space where there are women explicitly saying "I do not want men involved in my romance" and you are actively identifying as a man you cannot get upset when they don't want to date you or are uncomfortable with you being there

[tofu-rebecca]

i also deeply empathize with every trans femme lesbian who has had to watch her existence debated and been seen as a pervert for loving women see most of the lesbian community go "oh yeah you have a vagina, you have the Unbreakable Woman Bond that means we are connected forever" and get a little frustrated about that

[tofu-rebecca]

Also: do you think a cis man could be a lesbian without identifying as a woman? if not, and you think trans men can, i think you're just speaking from bioesstentialism and maybe don't really think trans men are fully men in the way cis men are

[tofu-rebecca]

i'm remembering that trans man/lesbian i knew who was mad the girl he was seeing ID'd as straight its like damn maybe you don't really see yourself as a man.

[miyoriia]

"transgender sports ban"

look inside

only bans trans womenfrom women's sports

"transgender bathroom ban"

look inside

only bans trans women from bathrooms

[marypassw-deactivated20150303]

Xena: Warrior Princess

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[kitteecassee]

[segamascott]

[harkbus-deactivated20161118]

should be doing a million other things but y’all get canti in a seifuku instead

[lexsreadingcorner]

So many people hate their own body so much and are so casually fatphobia toward themself and the thing is, when you're not, when you've healed yourself enough that you can look at yourself and say "my body is just a body that does body things" it becomes nearly impossible to be around people who openly hate their bodies. It feels like they're flinging their muck all over you, and you gotta shake yourself out so it doesn't stick. And misery really does love company. They'll talk about how fat they are and how they can't eat this or that or wear certain clothes or cut their hair short, and they want you to lament with them. And you gotta not, okay? You gotta not. You gotta walk away from that shit.

And you HAVE to pay attention to the things you say about your own body in front of other people, lest you become the person flinging your muck onto others.

[captain-price-returns]

he’s sitting in his discomfort and interrogating whether his actions were worth the consequences… a great many of u could take notes

[the-fucking-fuck]

And get off my fucking blog 💅