Eventually...

26 | New York

[thegoodvybe]

[quotespile]

“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.”

— Ursula K. Le Guin, The Lathe of Heaven

[thoughtkick]

“I don’t know how I can be so ambitious and so lazy at the same time.”

— Ned Vizzini, It’s Kind of a Funny Story

[remanence-of-love]

[remanence-of-love]

[thoughtkick]

“I still catch myself feeling sad about things that don’t matter anymore.”

— Kurt Vonnegut

[kangarue94]

I’m happy with it, just haven’t found the happy medium of not bringing work home and not letting what happens at work to influence my home life. Haven’t found a way to handle what I see and not let it affect me in a negative way

That makes sense I am glad you atleast like the job. You’re still fairly new so hopefully it’ll come with time. Or maybe talking to someone out side of work to be able to learn better skills on not bringing it home with you. I am sorry thought that’s a hard thing to manage I can imagine.

[kangarue94]

Yeah, home life is good. Work life is taking its toll

I am glad home life is good! I am happy for you. I am sorry work is taking a toll. Just not happy with the job?

[kangarue94]

That’s good. Things are fine

Just fine?

[kangarue94]

How are things?

Things are good. How are you?

[latenights]

if you’re meant to be with someone, it will work out. whether it’s next month or in five years, what’s meant to be will always be

[lostindarknessss-deactivated202]

[violentwavesofemotion-deactivat]

Where do you live?

Not to be poetic but truly, really, inside my head

[bittersweet-hiraeth]

It always has....?

[lovelikemountains]

you ever just get in bed and ur like yep this is where i’m meant to be

[meanwhilepoetry]

Singing at the top of your lungs with someone you care about is a love language. Randomly breaking into a dance together is a love language. Being weird together, knowing how the other person likes their coffee, saying “you’re brilliant” or “you’re beautiful” at unexpected moments are all love languages. Text messages that day “I’m thinking of you”, or “this song reminds me of you” or “how is your day going?” are all ways of saying I miss you and therefore a love language. “Let me know when you’re home safe” is a love language. “Do you want a hug” is a love language. Listening, truly listening to a rant and offering comfort is a love language. So is sitting in silence together. Saying “I believe in you” is a love language and encouraging your passions is a love language too. Look, just look at the thousands of ways people say I love you. They don’t have to use the words at all. All you have to do is listen. Just listen.

- Nikita Gill, Love Language

[1617]

all i do is listen to music and dissociate from reality