Kan .

They/He/Cir/Crab/Bl69d/sign In a protogenic + neurogenic traumabased plural system. Pro-Endo , Anti-RQ , Pro-Good Faith TransIDs I do have a typing quirk but I do not use it for this blog, so it's more accessible.

[kankourse]

" You can do what you want forever!! " *Anti-endo in their tags / DNI, threatening (pro) endos* Oh. I see.

[kriptickuro]

UNPOPULAR OPINION

You cannot describe a server or blog as "System friendly" if it's also Anti-endo!!!!

[twentybillionwasps]

"Anti endos are ca-razyyy lol!! Endos don't claim to have CDDs-" and what if they do? What if an endogenic system has a CDD? You're only perpetuating the idea that all endogenic systems are non-disordered, you're pushing the stereotype that disordered traumagenic and non-disordered endogenic are the only two ways to be a system. Which is entirely wrong might I add! Formerly endogenic system here that is now traumagenic with DID, you. Are. Wrong!!!

Please for the love of all things good, find other ways to fight back against antis, stop telling them this. If an endogenic system claims to have a CDD, they probably aren't lying, so stop telling antis that 1. Never happens, and 2. That "not all of us are like that!!"

You're doing the exact same thing that lots of LGBTQIA+ folk do, "well xenogenders are the weird ones!! Not us, the normal queers!" You think you're saving yourself by pushing others down, when in reality, anti endos don't care. If they think you're faking, you will always be faking in their eyes. The only thing this is changing is how other endogenic and pro-endo systems view endogenic systems that have CDDs. This is only going to cause more infighting, so please stop saying this

[the100percent]

friendly reminder that endogenic ≠ non-disordered

-kokichi (he/shx)

[kankourse]

Exotrauma can hurt as bad as any other trauma and should be treated as such.

Send post.

[thechaotiiccollectiive-deactiva]

Sysmeds are scaring people away from the plural community more than endos are.

Looking at the anti-endo side of the community: "Oh, look! A community of people who might be going through the same thing I am! Let's take a quick look-" Rampant fakeclaiming, ridiculously high standards of what's "right," people being sent horrible threats over someone being a bit different, hoards of people in denial because they don't think they're "traumatized enough," the constant pressure of getting a diagnosis, blatant ableism/saneism, lots of anger and bitterness

Looking at the pro-endo/neutral side:

"Oh look! A community of people who might be going through the same thing I am! Let's take a quick look-" Understanding of people's differences, encouragement to get help if you think you need it, no pressure to get diagnosed or medically recognized, helping others find their identity/identities, no standards for trauma, acceptance of all identities, fakeclaiming is seen as one of the cardinal sins

This post is pro-endo. If you're gonna bitch about it, you can go jump off a bridge.

[kankourse]

When anti endos say things like “Why do they need so many specific labels?” Or “They have too many useless labels!” as a reason to fake claim, I can’t help but be reminded of queerphobes saying the same thing about queer folk and queer micro labels.

Just food for thought.

[rosebushcollective]

we made the mistake of looking at the tag "endos arent punk" because we wanted to be mad about something other than irl shit.

endos, you are punk. being an endogenic system or anything under the non-traumagenic umbrella isnt inherently ableist.

endos arent cosplaying a disorder. endos arent faking.

plurality is a spectrum, and being on that spectrum isnt ableist.

[rosebushcollective]

This post should be a blast from the past!

Reminder that tags like "#endos arent real" can cause dereality!

god i need to remember what other tags we used to do..

[kankourse]

By the way, shoutout to systems and/or headmates who formed due to joy , happiness , love or any positive feeling. That's a very beautiful and amazing thing to happen. Don't let anti's get you down, or feel you have to hide that fact. You are valid. Systems don't always have to be formed by negative feelings (Which is okay and amazing too, of course.) , and you are living proof of that.