how do I personally manifest?
as someone that grow up hearing about the “law of attraction” concept, manifestation always felt like shooting in the dark. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t, and we don’t really know how it works.
I manifested a lot of big things in my life, such as money, friends, appearance and more. But then, I also lost some things (fell in the victim narrative), and I didn’t knew how to “bring them back”. When your life is literally failing apart, how could we maintain high vibrations, the right frequency, maintain only 100% positive thoughts? It’s not humanly natural.
My kick start was so random and so weird it borders on silly, but a day, I forgot to bring a hair tie to the gym, and as a curly haired girl, that’s a death sentence. Instead of being irritated, I just told myself “well, at least it’s a gym, I could probably find a hair tie there”. I thought about that and forgot about it, then, when I arrived, I found the hair tie in there (but I didn’t pick it, because ew). It seems silly, and probably a coincidence, but since of them, I started manifesting some much because I finally understood the concept.
then, the law of assumption.
The law of assumption felt like my rebrand, and I finally understood how manifesting is literally so fucking easy. The only thing you have to do it’s so recognize your desire, affirm to yourself as if you already have it, think and act like you already have and then, it’s done. I know it sounds revolting to hear it, but that’s it. Let’s get a generic example!
generic desire: I want a car. (writing this from inside my car btw)
find the specific car you desire. Now, you’re gonna affirm to yourself “I have that car”. Of course, you can choose a infinite of affirmations like “I feel so much relieved now that I have a car to ride everywhere”, “I love my car, it’s beautiful and convenient”. Whatever clicks to you! Repeat this how many times it feels natural to you. Visualize you riding your car in the mornings and nights. When you inevitable get up go walk/ride a bus, don’t tell yourself “I’m such a loser, I never going to get a car”, but continue to affirm your desire. The more you persist in the thought, the more it’s going to feel natural, until it inevitably manifest in your life.
That can apply to literally everything you want. I know, I know how much hard it sounds to let go of the old narrative, specially when it’s something so rooted inside us, but remember, you deserve every one of your dreams.