Becoming an Escort: A Master Post
First, letâs define what an escort is. According to veteran escort Amanda brooks: âIf you are selling your time, undivided attention, and the (unspoken) offer of sexual entertainment, youâre an escort. If youâre selling a specific sexual activity for a certain amount of money, youâre a prostitute. If you wonât have sex with the man youâre dating unless he buys you dinner, youâre a (relatively cheap) prostitute.â
So now, a very brief and simplified set of steps to starting escorting:
1. Read the Internet Escorts Handbook 1&2 by Amanda Brooks. Read The Courtesan Handbook by Arden Moon. These books took me less than 2 days to finish and are absolutely amazing. Both are available on Amazon.
2. Educate yourself on sexual health. Look at pictures of herpes and people suffering with HIV. Ask yourself if any amount of money is worth not using condoms. Realize that there is absolutely no circumstance that you shouldnât use condoms. That includes oral. Find a gynecologist. See them often and feel free to be open with them. Choose 2 birth control methods, not including condoms I.e paraguard and pill.
3. Learn the risks and worst case scenarios. Think about how you would handle them. For example, if a client tries to slip a condom off without your knowledge or wants to do something you are uncomfortable with. Ask yourself again if you can handle this type of work.
4. Be honest about your weight, proportions, and age. Think about what you feel that you should charge. Charge 30% more than the number that just popped into your head. Women rarely over charge, often escorts ask for too little. Asking for too little does not give you competitive edge, all it does is expose you to worse clients and hobbyists.
5. Realize that you should never lower your rates. Never offer specials.
6. Decide your personal boundaries.
7. Check out Eros. Look at the girls profiles in your city. Read their bios, look at their websites, look at their pictures, and take notes on things you like about their profiles. Spend a very long time doing this. Research this for a few days. I do not recommend looking at virtually any other site for a beginner. Eros is tried and true, itâs expensive, but itâs the oldest and best of the online escorting malls.
8. Again, think about the rates youâd like to charge. Spend a lot of time on this and do not low ball yourself. ITS VERY HARD TO RAISE YOUR RATES AFTER YOUVE SET THEM. However, lowering your rates is quite easy but not recommended. I will do a separate post on this.
9. Check out p411 and The Erotic Review (TER). Google â (your city) brunette female escortâ and see the top sites that come up. Donât advertise on crappy sites full of hobbyists.
10. A mid range escort starts at 300-500 per hour. Personally I would be sad to see any girls on here going below that. High end escorts usually have a 2 hour minimum and charge 1k and up. The difference between high end and mid range is more about the time minimum than the priceâŚsort of. If you have a minimum of 2 hours and youâre charging 1k than some would consider that âhigh end â even though youâre still charging 500 an hour.
11. Learn about review sites and whether you want to use them. Personally I donât like them.
12. Figure out your image and market it. Find your niche. Create your story. What is your persona? Donât be a blow up sex doll, have some character.
13. Get some professional pictures done. Unless you are capable of taking instagram model worthy/Tumblr worthy pictures, in that case..I feel like thatâs an OK place to start. Eventually though, youâre going to want to have at least a couple professional looking photos. This is a business, remember that.
14. Calculate your minimum suggested hourly rate. That is the very least you can charge to make a profit and account for over head, living expenses, etc. Iâll do a separate post on this as well.
15. How will you get in touch with clients: you need an email, separate private phone number, and website.
16. Learn about incall/outcall and travel rates. What are you comfortable with? Most escorts prefer Incall because it is safer and more convenient. Learn about the pros and cons of both.
17. How much are you going to work? The average number of clients you take per week depends on you, but I find that anymore than 3-4 clients per week drives me to emotional burn out. Find out whatâs best for you.
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