Kicauan Dhila

Seorang manusia yang ingin membagikan kicauan tentang dunianya pada dunia.

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"......Sesungguhnya jika kamu bersyukur, pasti Kami akan menambah (nikmat) kepadamu...." QS. Ibrahim : 7 Selamat hari jumat, jangan lupa bersyukur, alhamdulillah 😊 . . . . . 📷 : @prita_ms #spring #friday #vsco #quotes #cherryblossom #sakura #korea

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Ah, that's definitely the Murtlap. You must be particularly susceptible. See, you're a Muggle. So our physiologies are subtly different - Newt Scamander on Fantastic Beast and Where to Find Them. . . . . 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 #fantasticbeastandwheretofindthem #bookstagram #navy #flower #jkrowling

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That in spite of the difficulties and frustrations of the moment, believe your dreams. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Will it be easy? Nope. Worth it? Absolutely 🎓 . . . . #graduation #master #engineering #lifeacademia #pukyong #quotes #vsco (at Pukyong National University)

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The art of "nerimo". 🙂 . . . . #selfreminder (at Dongdaemun Design Plaza)

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We are all like a snowflake, all different in our own beautiful way. ❄️❄️ . . . . . 📷: @sarasyaz #snowflake #snow #letitsnow #vsco #bw #holiday #seoul #latepost #quotes (at Dongdaemun History & Culture Park Station)

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24.

Some people said age is only a number. But for me, the more your age are the more you feel the weight on your shoulder.

This year, my age is almost the half of 50. Some people said it’s your critical age. The age that will affect your whole life. And I am feeling like I am not ready to really face the world alone. The cruel world that always makes you feel very tiny.

What if I stumble in my journey? What if I make a mistake in my choices? What if there is a bad person who will hurt me till I really break and cannot fix again? What if until right now my parents still not proud of me? That kind of worries that make you awake when you entering this critical age.

But, when will you be ready?

It’s just the destiny of being mature human, isn’t it? To take all of the risks in your life, to face the ugly truth, to get hurt from someone you care or love, to make your own decision and get all the consequence, to not play safe, to really see the world with your own eyes. And when will you be really ready for that? You just somehow will get through it without being notice. That’s just life.

I know 24th is still really a young age, I still don’t know anything about how really cruel the world is. At least, I am not saying that I will ready for all of this, but I will get through it, I will survive because that’s God’s promises. For all big problem that I will or need to face it, now or soon, I have a God who promises me that I will get through it no matter what.

Today, in my new 24th age, I also learn how to be a truthful giver. In all my life, I always become a take and give person. And that makes me always gives too much and then expect something from someone, and when that person doesn’t fulfill my expectation, I will be really hurt.

But I learn, when you expect something from someone, it’s always you that will get hurt. That person will not get any effect from your expecting. It’s always you that will feel tired. That person will feel nothing happened. But expecting something is just a natural human being.

Sometimes we just forget, instead of lower your expectations, just move your expectation to God. God is the best listener to your prayer. If doing too much it’s just the way you care someone, just doing it. Don’t change at all. Here, I give you the best positive think that I learn in my new age,

That maybe you also will get too much as you give from someone that perfectly God prepare for you.

And when that times come, you will feel incredibly happy, like all of the wrong things in the past doesn’t affect you at all. You just need to wait. You just need to be patience. Because it’s all life about, to wait. Wait to go to school, wait to get first love, wait to get a job, wait to get married, waiting to die. Waiting. And how our attitude while we are waiting that’s all matter.

And don’t forget there is always some sincere endless love from our two favorite persons. Sometimes we just forget that our Mom and Dad are the real truthful giver. They always give too much to us and never expect anything, they just simply want us to be happy. 

That’s how beautiful true love is. When you are just happy to just give something to someone you love, that simply just from our parents.

I love you, Ma, Pa, always. Thank you for always being there, accompany and support me with endless love until this 24 years old of my life. And I am sorry that I am still cannot give anything as much as you give to me. But this is my promises, no matter what happened, you always become my cozy and comfortable home sweet home. And I will do my best to give as much as you give to me, I know is impossible, but I will try my best.

In the end, there will be always something to be grateful for. Even the tiny simple things. You don’t need to find the happiness to hard, just be grateful and you will be happy.  

Don’t pretend it, don’t fake it, just feel it. Feel the happiness. It’s everywhere. You just need to stop rushing and feel the simple happiness around you.  

All we want is just to be happy. Stay happy and genuinely happy.

Happy birthday to me and to everyone that born today.

I hope the best luck for all of us. Let’s get wiser and happier from today. Let’s always be grateful to God for everything. Let’s always love our parents. Let’s always love our family. Let’s always spread the love. Let’s always feel the love and be grateful for it.

Nadhila Sylvianti

Busan, January 19th 2017

10.57 AM

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And you get head, a head full of dreams. You can see the change you wanted, be what you want to be. And you get head, a head full of dreams. Into life i've just been spoken. With a head full, a head full of dreams. . . . 🎧 A head full of dreams - coldplay #vsco #coldplay #aheadfullofdreams #krl #indonesia

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Behind the clouds the sun always shine. ⛅️ . . . . #clouds #vsco #sky #bluesky #busan #korea (at Pukyong National University)

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Goodbye 2016, Welcome 2017!

What doesn’t kill you make you stronger.

That my 2016 all about.

Udah tinggal beberapa jam lagi menuju pergantian tahun. Udah berjejeran abang – abang petasan dan terompet telolet yang nampang dengan harapan bisa dapet rejeki lebih di malam pergantian tahun ini. Udah banyak juga supermarket yang tetiba jualan alat barbeque dadakan bukan tahu bulat digoreng dadakan. Dan gue disini cukup memandangi pemandangan dari teras rumah ditemani secangkir teh manis hangat diiringi letusan kembang api dan petasan yang udah curi start merayakan malam pergantian tahun baru.

Sruput teh hangat sejenak.

Time flies, isn’t it? Rasanya baru kemaren gue merayakan tahun baru dingin – dinginan di busan bersama teman – teman sambil nonton film dan dengan harapan ke gwangan-li di pagi hari liat sunrise yang ujungnya wacana. Eh sekarang 2016 udah mau berakhir dengan hitungan jam dengan gue lagi di rumah di Indonesia.

Yang sekarang terlintas pasti, apa aja sih yang udah lo raih di tahun 2016 ini? Apakah udah tercapai semua resolusi yang udah lo buat di awal tahun 2016 kemaren? Entah kenapa 2 pertanyaan itu masih belom ngalahin prioritas 1 pertanyaan yang selalu terngiang di kepala gue.

Pelajaran apa saja yang udah lo dapat di tahun 2016 ini? Dan apakah dari pelajaran itu lo udah benar – benar belajar? Untuk menjadi sesuatu yang lebih baik.

Dari sebegitu banyak nikmat dan rezeki yang gue dapat tahun ini, ada satu pelajaran yang benar – benar memorable buat gue tahun ini. Pelajaran menghadapi masalah terberat yang pernah lo hadapin.

Semua orang punya masalah tersendiri yang mereka hadapin. Gue ngga bilang masalah yang gue hadapi di tahun ini adalah masalah yang paling berat. Not at all. Problem yang gue hadapi tahun ini mungkin hanya setara seukuran upil buat bapak presiden atau mentri yang memikirkan masalah negara yang segitu jublek nya, mungkin cuma setara sekelabatan angin buat orang – orang yang diuji dengan ujian yang lebih berat.

Yang gue amaze adalah masalah – masalah yang harus gue hadapi tahun ini adalah problem yang bisa bikin gue bener – bener mikir. Bikin gue mulai ngerasa keluhan gue adalah sesuatu yang percuma dan terasa sangat childish dengan mengeluh untuk hal semacam itu. Nampar gue cuma buat nyadarin, daripada ngeluh dan putus asa, you need to do something about that.  You need to solve that problem.  

What a great year to learn how to control your attitude while you are facing your problem.

Tahun ini benar – benar bikin gue belajar ketika lo ada di posisi terendah dalam hidup lo dan lo siap untuk menyerah selalu ada suara dari hati lo yang bilang

“I am not and never ready for giving up”

Karena ketika manusia menyerah, disitulah jiwanya mati. Menyerah bukan pasrah. Pasrah itu harus, memasrahkan segala sesuatunya kepada Allah SWT setelah kita sudah melakukan yang terbaik yang kita bisa. Gue jadi inget satu quotes di status temen gue yang bilang “Wherever you are, do your best, and let God do the rest”. Satu quotes yang sebenernya sangat klise tapi punya makna yang dalem kalau kita resapi. Menyerah itu berarti kita kalah, kalah dari masalah yang menghimpit kita. Gue ngga mau jadi manusia yang masih hidup tapi mati.

Ada satu janji dari sekian janji Allah SWT yang pasti yang selalu menjamin,

“Allah tidak akan membebani seorang manusia diluar kemampuannya”

Kalau ujian itu diberikan kepada kita, Allah tahu dan menjamin kita pasti bisa melewatinya. Karena tidak pernah suatu ujian itu diluar kemampuan kita. Yakin, cuma butuh yakin.

So, keep your head up and put a smile on your face and always move forward.

Let us always finish what we start.

Let go of something or someone who make you feel not grateful and not worthy.

Work hard, play harder, pray hardest.

Do your best and let God do the rest.

But, don’t forget to stop for a while and enjoy the moment, you only live once anyway.  

Let’s start our 2017 with this magic thought and feel the miracle throughout the year.

Happy new year, everyone ^^

December 31st 2016

3 Jam menuju 2017

di kota sejuta kenangan dan selalu jadi tempat kembali pulang.

[kicauandhila]

Presence. Not present. Sometimes we just forget that the best gift we could give is just only our presence. . . . . #morningquotes #latepost #D-2 #nampo #lightfestival #vsco #holiday #busan #korea #menujuliburan (at Nampo-Dong, Busan, South Korea)

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Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep the good attitude while waiting. . . . . *balada nunggu es krim gulung 1,5 jam* *makannya cuma 10 menit* 😂🤣 #vsco #quotes #waiting #icecream #nampo #busan #korea (at Nampo-Dong, Busan, South Korea)

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No language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism, and majesty of mother's love - Edwin Hubbell Chapin. Dari Abu Hurairah r.a berkata 'seseorang datang kepada Rasulullah SAW dan berkata "wahai Rasulullah, kepada siapakah aku harus berbakti pertama kali?" Nabi SAW menjawab "ibumu!" dan kemudian orang tersebut bertanya, "kemudian siapa lagi?" Nabi SAW menjawab, "ibumu!" Orang tersebut kembali bertanya, "kemudian siapa lagi?" Beliau menjawab "ibumu!" Orang tersebut kembali bertanya "kemudian siapa lagi?" Nabi SAW menjawab "kemudian ayahmu" ' Selamat hari ibu, mah 😊. Love you as always 😊😘

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It won't be easy but it'll be worth it. . . . #journey #longjourney #sky #blue #winter #vsco #yeungnam #gyeongsan #korea (at Yeungnam University)

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They always become someone who takes my hand and said everything is going to be okay. They always become someone who grabs my hand tightly and said no matter what happen we always proud of you. They always become someone who holds my hand and said you are coming home, sweetheart. Always. 😊 . . . #2016gratefulmoment #countingto2017 #holdinghands #withmysupercoolparents #vsco #tbt #ketikamasihanaktunggal

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Still round the corner there may wait, a new road or a secret gate - J.R.R. Tolkien. . . . #cozycorner #coffee #cafe #vsco #korea #quotes #blue #warm

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But if you change your mind you'll find me hanging on to the place where the big blue sky collapse. . . . 🎧Blue Sky Collapse - Adhitya Sofyan #bluesky #pukyong #busan #korea #jumat #TGIF (at 부경대 용당캠퍼스 4공학관)

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Be strong little marshmallow 💪 . . . #marshmallow #latte #coffee #enjoy #winteriscoming #busan #korea