xenogenders are rad!!

ari/keeb - ace arospec nblm - ae/aers/aerself, robo/robos/roboself, 👾/👾s/👾self - MOGAI friendly safe space - dysphoric (if it matters to you somehow) - minor - always up for dms!

[kiibogai]

Hypergender Pride Flag

Hypergender: When one feels as if their connection to their own gender identity is influenced by their hyper or chaotic nature. Alternatively, they experience an understanding of their gender identity in great “bursts” as if it was energy.

Do not add this post to your flop accounts, it triggers my paranoia.

[kiibogai]

hello!! apologies for my absence. i recently enrolled into high school, as well as home and family life, and thus it has been hard for me to keep up with things online. however, i will try to get back into my regular posting schedule from here on out!

[kiibogai]

the ties between neurodivergence and identity; why xenogenders are important

this is based off my own experiences, and what others around me have experienced. keep this in mind.

a main thing ive experienced as an autistic individual is a sort of “disconnect” from certain ideas and abstract concepts, mainly because i cannot understand or feel them in the same way a neurotypical person would. this mainly applies to common social constructs around me, and what is expected to be known despite there being no “why” to it. something to note is the fact that gender is a subset of social identity, which as implied in the name, is a basis of social construct. think about it, what defines a “boy” and what defines a “girl”? this is where many others concept of identity (and my own) becomes blurry. since i cannot fully understand my own social identity (what even makes a ‘boy’ a ‘boy’? what defining factors, how could i tell?), i substitute it with what i can understand. (i know what something like ‘space’ is. stardust, planets, and such. because i can understand what space is, and i feel a kinship to it, i can identify with that.) this is also the basis for many neurogenders such as autigender (when ones identity is affected by their autism.) by demonizing xenogendered individuals, and blaming them for systematic transphobia and ableism we often see reflected in transmedicalist ideals, we often are basically saying to neurodivergent individuals, “your identity is wrong and you have to pick one of these inherently meaningless labels!” which is very harmful to us. we cannot change what transphobes think of the community. by blaming us for “everything that is wrong with the LGBT community”, you essentially erase the validity of those who struggle with the concept of identity. we cannot spread acceptance within this community if we dont learn to accept those with uncommon identities and ties to ones own identity.

[kiibogai]

hi!! im not too sure if ill use tumblr too much, because im quite busy. but for the meantime hello!!

i go by ari/keeb, my pronouns are ae/aers/aerself, robo/robos/roboself, and 👾/👾s/👾self, and im asexual arospec nblm (still questioning my gender).

all u have to know about my age is that im a minor; dont be weird.

stuff ill probably post about:

- xenogenders/MOGAI/LGBTQ+ stuff in general

- LGBTQ+ history

- maybe some actuallyautistic stuff?

- pronoun/gender hoards heh

- kin stuff? mayybbeee???

- idk whatever i find cool!!

im autistic, and my special interests are danganronpa and MOGAI stuff if you couldnt tell.

ill try my best to be active, so hi!

non-MOGAI or LGBTQ+ posts will be tagged with "#keeb.exe", and discourse posts will be tagged with "#keebs disk horse".

i try to trigger tag any potentially sensitive topics, but if you need something specific to be tagged, message me!

i guess thats all; this is my first time on tumblr, so go easy. ^^

[yirenqueer]

What trans jokes are:

“I’m abab. Assigned Bastard at birth”

“What’s your gender?” “yeah”

“What’s in your pants?” “a nickel and some lint”

What transphobia masked as ‘jokes’ is:

“Lmao look at that man wearing a dress”

“My pronouns are fuck/fuckself”

“Hey lets talk about this trans person’s sex life and genitals for funsies”

Every single tucute caricature

Know the fuckin’ difference.

[kiibogai]

i dont think my posts are showing up in tags just yet, so thats why im so quiet! after a while things should be alright again. 😁