Warning about a harmful person in the Doc Ock fandom
Youāve probably seen this person around, they have some amount of popularity thanks to their ocksona, Olive G Octaviys.
Their popularity makes posting this extremely scary for me, since I hop around socials a lot and never really made a name for myself, so Iām going up against someone with a lot more influence than me.
The personās name is EvilSteeble or Evil-Steeble.
The events discussed in the following doc happened in two servers, which Iāll refer to Server 1 and Server 2.
What happened in which server is not that important, other than the fact that we met in Server 1, which was owned by someone else and had an rp section. We later migrated to Server 2 with some other friends, and it was meant primarily for rp. This one was created by Steeble. As early as Server 1, there were already red flags that slipped past me.
Please be aware this doc contains heavy discussion of abuse roleplay with explicit NON-consent, as well as manipulation and intimidation.
For clarityās sake, Iām going to highlight names. Character names will be purple and Human roleplayer names will be orange. Character names
Afternath
As mentioned in the doc, I blocked Steeble and left Server 2. I kept very low contact with him in Server 1 and didnāt get close. I mostly kept him blocked because seeing Olive had become triggering. While I preferred to avoid him, the gravity of how he treated me hadnāt fully set in yet.
Since the initial migration to server 2, the members werenāt quite as active in Server 1, so I was comfortable enough with this setup.
Everything was going fine until someone posted art in Server 1, of their oc. I loved this oc, but they were designed for an au we all created together in Server 2, one set in Oliveās universe.
Since it was related to Olive, and server 2 as a whole being a place where I was mistreated, the subject matter was triggering.
I mentioned that I was uncomfortable with discussion of this au, and to please take it somewhere else so that I can avoid seeing it.
My request was ignored and buried under more convo.
To this, I reactedā¦ not appropriately. I got really upset, and became passive aggressive, and made some of the people I called my friends really uncomfortable.
I take full responsibility for this and apologize.
In another server, me and two other people from Server 2 talked, trying to figure out what to do. They also noticed Steeble showing a lot of mean behavior in both servers previously.
Another member of Server 1 noticed red flags, and they were never even IN server 2. They called Steebleās behavior extremely creepy, and I didnāt agree at the time, I thought he was just mean. But after compiling all the evidence together, I see why my friend said that. The absolute cruelty of Steebleās characters toward mine went so far that it became extremely weird, as well as his INSISTENCE on being allowed to treat my characters this way, and considering the fact that most of his other characters acted like carbon copies of Olive. This, combined with Steebleās intimidation-based way of handling things and controlling behavior, is an extremely bad look.
This same friend offered to talk to the owner of Server 1 for me but I said no. I didnāt wanna get her in trouble with my problems.
After talking things over with these people, I went to the owner of Server 1 with my concerns, and shared the history of how Steeble treated me. She said it was really bad, butā¦ it kinda just got brushed off after that.
So Iām going public with this as a last resort, hoping that some kind of responsibility will be taken.
That said, please donāt go attack Steeble. Just block and report or whatever, but I don't want to be responsible for a minor getting attacked on my behalf.
Most of all, Iām hoping the people I met in Server 1 and 2 will see this and understand that I have been badly hurt.
I want everyone in those servers who are fans and friends of Steeble to see how he acts behind closed doors, in dms where nobody else can see.
Like I said though. Donāt attack him. All I want is for myself to be HEARD and not be pushed aside and silenced like I have been.
Please reblog this ESPECIALLY if you're in the Doc Ock fandom because I have been so badly silenced, and I want that to change.
Considering the history of my concerns not being taken seriously and preferential treatment toward Steeble as well as his much larger following, I imagine posting this may get me banned from server 1. I understand and accept that as a consequence. Thatās always what seems to happen to people who speak out anyway.
I got banned from Server 1.
No, I will not let this silence me. Im sick of that.
