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Breaking Up: Kink Edition [4 Pieces of Advice]
D/s is one of the most vulnerable dynamics you will ever find yourself in. From this vulnerability, it gets its power from. What makes D/s (or kink, in general) powerful enough to leave a mark so deep is that there's no place to hide from our true selves. We discuss the most taboo topics, parts of ourselves that we kept secret for so long, even before the actual play takes place.
When we engage in kink, we peel like an onion and see the layers of our personalities: shame, guilt, pride... It all comes to the surface. We share our innermost longings with someone in hopes that they'll be kind and brave enough to still want us around. And maybe even enjoy it... For most kinksters, this is just a dream. We love a good fantasy, don't we?
What if you had that... and now it's gone? Or you thought you had it, but it turned out to be a false alarm. How do you deal with the seperation? Let's talk about break-ups in the kink scene.
Oof, hard one
They just want to be reminded of their place, am I right? :)
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BDSM Abbreviations - 2
For part 1, see BDSM Abbreviations - 1
OTK: Over The Knee
CFNM: Clothed Female Naked Male
BYOT: Bring Your Own Toys
EMC: Erotic Mind Control
SAM: Smart-Ass Masochist
TiH: Taken In Hand
HoH: Head of Household
ATM: Ass to Mouth
CNM: Consensual Non-Monogamy
DADT: Don't Ask Don't Tell
SPH: Small Penis Humiliation
WAM: Wet and Messy
Confidence and BDSM: A little story
It's no news that the unrealistic is the new chic. Even though it doesn't represent real people and bodies, media representation takes a toll on us. It makes us feel undesirable and doubt ourselves. How kink can help with that? Here's my story.
In the beginning of my BDSM/kink journey, I was intimidated by the Dominatrix style served by media. From day one, I hated it. Mainly because I was chubby and thought that I could never look good in such attire. Another reason is that, many people I talked to, they would see me as just a Domme and not a multifaceted human being outside of kink. I was just another fetish in their eyes. That made me hate it even more.
A few months after, I was shopping online and I saw a cute little harness. Normally, I would make a displeased face because it was a reminder of my insecurities I was passionately running away from. But I decided to challenge myself and give it a try. It was really cheap, what could I lose after all?
I remember the first time putting it on. Let me tell you, I felt POWERFUL! I was wearing a regular tshirt but, oh my... That little change in my appearance made me relate to my role more and gave me the confidence boost I very much needed at the time. It changed my attitude so much that I felt like I could make all subs kneel before me. Then, it hit me. I am not feeling this good just because of the harness. I already had it in me. Seeing myself look and feel good in it was just a validation.
I always believed that people can dominate others in pajamas, too. I still do because clothes don't make you a Dominant. If my attitude is what makes me look good in clothes, in spite of my insecurities, it means that it's really me who make it glow so much in the first place! If all it takes to remind myself of this fact is wearing a harness, I can wear it especially when I feel insecure about my body.
Moral of the story: Kink is about expression whether it's mental or physical. Wear what makes you feel good and confident in your body and role. Tail, latex, boots... Experiment with your style.
BDSM Abbreviations - 1
D/s: Dominant/submissive
M/s: Mistress/slave, Master/slave
S/m: Sadist/masochist
TPE: Total Power Exchange
SSC: Safe, Sane, Consensual
RACK: Risk-Aware Consensual Kink
CNC: Consensual Non-Consent
PRICK: Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink
P0rn is not real, it's production. That's it. That's the post.
Lmao your memes are so cool 🤪
Hahah thanks, more will be posted... soon :)
Integration of kinky self and labels
Many kinksters, especially new ones, might see this kinky part of themselves as a seperate identity. Not to be shared with the rest of the world... We might feel like this different way of fulfillment is wrong, mainly because we were taught to fit in norms. The shame surrounding kink in this society might spill over our kinkster identity and cause some disintegration within ourselves. However, being kinky is not dissociated from our being. It’s just another aspect of ourselves. We can honour it by integrating our kinky side as a whole first.
If you don’t know me, I’m more of a soft Domme. I had some trouble with integrating some aspects of my kinky self as a whole. For a long time I felt like, if I called myself a sadist, I’d have to do some extreme sh!t that even I couldn’t handle witnessing. I thought people would expect it from me. What if I couldn’t draw the line where it’s supposed to be? Is a soft Domme supposed to do that? These are all valid concerns, if you ask me. You are indeed supposed to question what feels right or wrong. It keeps you aligned with your values. So, what did I do?
My brat friend laughed way too hard at this LOL
Kinky Friendship
Does such a thing exist? Very much so. But HOW?
What I mean by “kinky friends” is friends from your kinky community/circle who know your kinky side. They are your friends as much as your vanilla life friends. Plus, they understand your kinky nature. Best of both worlds!
Throughout my kinky exploration process, I’ve had many kinky friends. I met some of them online. I met others in real life, at a munch. Most of these people were/are amazing to get to know as a person as well as a kinkster. All of them? Unfortunately, no. I think that’s why some people are intimidated by this probability so much. So, how can you navigate kinky friendships as a kinkster yourself?
Next time a fake Dom messages you, send this LOL