i hate to be petty but does anyone know any way to dispute a friends and family charge off paypal? preferably without them closing the case and being the most useless resolution center known to man
i commissioned an old friend for like 70$ and never actually received my art. not even a sketch. i let it slide but they’re trying to open up comms on a different platform and i think for 70$ that’s not really right?? i can’t outright ask for a refund cause they’d just ignore me or say no lol
devi i just namedropped you publicly saying you are harassing, stalking, and lying abt them?
hello anon, what devi is saying isn’t true, but i cannot dictate whether you believe me or not. i’m going to go in depth on my reasoning as to why i broke the friendship off and everything that has resulted because of my decision.
to start, i decided break off the friendship for a few reasons that made me uncomfortable. i wanted a quiet departure, not to cause a scene and to allow devi to grieve and work on themselves. here are some notes i wrote explaining my why.
i also reached out to someone that confirmed that devi is known for twisting narratives and putting labels on people. now i’m not sure how credible their words are, but a fruit for thought in regards to the situation. but that situation doesn’t matter here.
not only that, but these ancient posts at the beginning/middle of our friendship that rubbed me the wrong way the more i think about it. platonic or not. mind you, i’m 19. once again, fruit for thought.
this is not to say i’m a saint of any sort. there was many things i did wrong and i am very very flawed, and i could even list them. but this is all from my point of view. to defend myself.
now fast forward, i’m being sent anonymous messages that clearly indicate someone going through my profile. the “vagueposts” in question? tiktok reposts. because i felt a certain why cutting them off after the circumstances. was it meant to be hurtful? no. but i can see how it was. but my mental health was deteriorating being friends with this person. here’s a picture of my reposts for accountability.
i’m actively being harassed and stalked, and evidently they are too. i’m not sure where or what these messages say, but it’s not me. i cannot prove it, but i have not visited their accounts until today when things further escalated. a mutual had mentioned that perhaps someone is doing it on purpose to stir the pot, and i believe that might be the case. i’ve only told a few close friends about deciding to cut them off whilst telling my twitter mutuals about the harassment. my twitter was deactivated when i cut them off, and i only reactivated to get my message across to quit stalking me.
i had heard from a few shared mutuals about devi’s posts being made about me, people who aren’t even involved in the situation, and even trash talking my close friend who didn’t even talk to them. their @ is blurred for their own privacy.
this caused me to want to put up some boundaries for my own safety and comfort on my own page. only mutuals (who were my mutuals first that we ended up sharing later on) decided they wanted to block them. this was the post i made and message i sent to the people who wanted to follow my boundaries. i only did this to pick out people who were actively stalking me not only to protect myself, but protect devi from hearing about me whilst trying to move on.
the rest of my posts about the situation, because again, accountability.
it was never my intention for them to be stalked and harassed, and i deeply apologize for any messages anyone has sent their way. i never wanted to make this public or for them to be harmed, i simply wanted to voice myself. i’m unsure who is sending them harassment or where it’s coming from, but that is disgusting and i will apologize for that. they aren’t a bad person by any means and don’t deserve that treatment no matter what they have done.
this is all i have to say. i am no saint, i do not want this person to be harassed or interrogated. please, ignore any hateful messages you are getting. i apologize for whoever is sending them, but it is not me. you can choose to believe me or not, but i want to put this to rest.
thank you all. have a wonderful day.
i also want to emphasize that devi is entitled to feeling a certain way and that they aren’t wrong for how they feel. it’s not up to me to say that they are wrong, because they are not.
Gretchen tentatively takes a seat on the far end of Benjamin's couch beside the armrest, placing her hands on her lap. Her posture is anything but relaxed—her back and shoulders are stiff, and she is anxiously twiddling her fingers together. Despite Benjamin's kind and gentlemanly demeanor, it is clear that Gretchen is still quite intimidated by him given his height and appearance. Regardless, she is doing her best to remain polite.
After a brief silence, Gretchen finally speaks up. "Thank you for inviting me to your residence, Mr. Biggs." Her voice is meek and timid, like that of a mouse. "I really appreciate it."
She drums her fingers awkwardly against her lap, racking her brain for a subject to talk about. Eventually, she clears her throat before asking Benjamin a question.
"D-Do you, uh... have anything you enjoy doing? You know, like... hobbies and whatnot? If you do, I'd love to hear about them. I-If you're okay with sharing, of course."
"Ah, don't fuss on it, luv. It's just proper manners, is it not? 'Sides, I've been wantin' to sit an' chat with you anyway."
Benjamin hums, not taking long to sit beside the anxious toon. Tea (or oil) could wait a second - besides, the kettle was still heating up!
"Oh, I'm sure that mile-long list would bore you so much that you'd go green! I wouldn't want to 'ave to carry you all the way back to the playground, now."
The tongue of his bell would clack against the brass as he tilted his head to smile, making a hollow-sounding 'clunk'.
He talks with his hands a lot, gesturing or flicking his wrists, the gears and pistons inside of his metal body puffing with every movement.
"Listen now, I'd be much more interested in hearing about the same things but from your side of the story... I'm sure you get up to plenty of fun, you clever little thing."
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