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header by the lovely @kootracarl !!

[kootragedy]

please unfollow

hello!! i have decided to abandon this blog for another one (mainly because i’ve lost interest in maintaining this one and also because of some personal reasons) so if you wouldn’t mind, please unfollow this blog. if you’d like to keep in touch, shoot me an ask or im me, i might share my snapchat and/or instagram!!

[yooroong]

2015.05  King of Despair from Kekkai Sensen

[dorks-and-daisies]

The Queen was back in the office today. I’m in love. Her smile is gorgeous!!

[kushandwizdom]

If someone isn't available during your most crucial time, then their presence any other time is useless.

[mymindsecho]

This isn’t realistic for adults. I’m sorry it’s just not.

Don’t fall into believing that, “if they’re a true friend they’ll drop everything and run to be by your side!” crap.

As a responsible adult there will be times that your friends are hurting and you won’t be able to go to them.

There are times that you will have to go to work, or take your sick kid to the doctor, or do many other things that will prevent you from being there for your friend.

When your friend calls you and they’re falling apart and it’s ten minutes until you have to leave for work, you’re not a bad friend for saying, “Look, I love you. I’m sorry this is happening, but I have to go. I’ll call you back tonight when the kids are asleep.” Or “I’m so sorry this is happening. I love you and I want to be here for you but I’ve got to get to work. I’ll call and check on you during my lunch.”

Adult life is hectic and busy with important things all the time and unfortunately it’s also full of shitty things happening to people we love.

Do your best to be there for the people you love and ask for support when you need it but be understanding when being a responsible adult comes before helping you.

[neurotoxinsonline]

The idea that people need to be there any time you need them is really damaging and unhealthy, too. You can’t place value on a person or a relationship based solely on whether or not they’re available, no questions asked, whenever you need them.

In addition to the above: sometimes, someone simply does not have the energy to help. Maybe they’re coming out of a rough patch themself, maybe they have been busy all day,maybe a chronic illness is flaring up. There are a myriad of reasons someone may not be able to be there.

Obviously, if someone is taking you for granted, and never seems to care how you’re doing, that’s an issue. But to write someone off because their life and your life didn’t line up quite right at a given point in time, or maybe even on more than one occasion, is not a healthy way to handle things.

[mystictsukki]

Justin totally killed this omg

[casanovakevin]

irrelevant strawberries

[whollyspirit-deactivated2016112]

Which kind of 2016 election #whitegay are you? Tag urself! 

[fandomshateblackpeople]

[alekschop]

@ImmortalHD: .@realDonaldTrump how long do I have to take my citizenship test before I get deported?

[turbo-gay]

I’ll just ¯\ _(ツ)_/¯ my way through life

[suncalf]

“this character is LGBTQ” what, all at once

[connemor]

the final boss

[maybe-its-mabeling]

Does anyone else get really caught up on the small details in their writing? Like you can be really good at writing situations and feelings and characters, but you get to a point when you’re writing something small like what they’re making for dinner and before you know it, you’re googling recipes with tomatoes because you think the scene won’t be convincing unless you know the cooking time and temp??

[deepspacestiles-deactivated2016]

What Your Shirt Says

[revolocities]

nostalgia feelings

[gaykagome]

ET TU BRUTE???

[theformerastronomer]

Your calendrically-appropriate post for the day.

[eggdropsoupe-deactivated2016050]

[apriki]

[ledamemangociana]

happy Ides of March all y’all plebeians

REMIND ME TO REBLOG THIS EVERY MARCH 15TH UNTIL I DIE

[bogleech]

Okay reblog if you’re an artist who STRONGLY PREFERS reblogs with commentary

People are apparently under the impression that reblogging someone’s art and adding a comment is frowned upon and that can’t possibly be true, every artist I know of sees a reblog-comment as like the ultimate definitive reward for their hard work.

Obviously don’t feel bad for NOT adding a comment if you’re shy or just don’t know what to say, but if there’s something you would like to say about a drawing you’ve liked enough to reblog, I’m pretty sure most artists crave hearing it.

[thesnadger]

This applies to art, fic, dumb theories, whatever! I totally love reading tags and commentary!

Definitely re-emphasizing that ALL reblogs, likes, etc are awesome! So don’t feel bad/feel obligated to add something if you don’t want to, but don’t hold back if you DO wanna add something because you’re worried it’s rude.

[art-of-zirio]

Reading tags and comments is why I go digging through my posts to see who reblogged it because I get ridiculously excited whenever I see that someone took the time to reblog my garbage art in the first place.