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hello, you have reached john's blog. please leave a message! he/ him. [[dependent blog for queerstuck!]]

[kueio]

[[if you're "all about equality" until some trans person calls you transphobic over something you don't think is transphobic, then you're not really all about equality.]]

[kueio]

[[there have been times when ive lost my temper and said things out of anger that i've regretted, but this is not one of them. please stop spreading rumors about how terrible i am.]]

[6lut-seher-deactivated20140624]

((can I say something please? This really important to me and done of those that interact with me!

User katerwaull is going around telling people to unfollow me or i will threaten to kill you. THIS IS NOT TRUE!!! I WOULD NOT WISH DEATH ON SOMEBODY AGAIN!!!

while everyone’s entitled to their…

[fishgreaser-deactivated20140611]

Guys.. This isn’t cool. I thought the whole matter was done with and gone. But it seems the bullies WON’T LET THE MATTER GO. Now they’re just bullying someone else. //

[egbusted]

really?

really.

ok no, here’s the thing. as someone who was called multiple names by 6lut-seher, i can say for a fact that we were not bullies. i interacted with this person in a calm manner and politely asked that they stop calling us names. i explained that i was not attacking the friend personally, i was merely calling attention to something transphobic. as a trans person who has been hurt multiple times from transphobia both on the internet and in life, calling out and dealing with transphobia is important to me.

i asked not to be called names, and was repeatedly yelled at. afterwards, 6lut-seher deleted the posts in which i was being yelled at. i kept everythig ive said on my blog. you can check and see all the “nasty” things ive said. i sent no anons. none of us sent anons. none of us attacked anyone personally or anything.

it is fine to be upset when your friend is confronted about social justice issues. no one likes being told they’re wrong. i’ve had to be called out before too. it’s part of growing up and learning about the world and all the people in it. it’s not fun. but please stop spreading rumors and lies about us. we do not have many safe spaces on the internet or in real life.

[kueio]

wrong blog oops.

[iamskin]

why do ppl even like me i have no clue.... SIKE its because im beautiful and interesting

[rufidoe-deactivated20141016]

kueio replied to your post:hey, dolls… what’s go1n’ down 1n your neck of the…

hi, doe.

hey, man!!! }:) yo, that’s crazy, 1 was just th1nk1n about you… well, your cat, ngl. but st1ll…

[kueio]

most people think about my cat a lot. it happens.

[deercolumbia-archive-deactivate]

Important psa to all my followers: If you think that cisphobia is as much a problem as transhpobia, please, please unfollow me immediately. I do not want anything to do with you. It’s nothing personal but for gods sake for my sanity please unfollow me.

[kueio]

life sure is great when you live by yourself.

[kueio]

So does that mean its not alright to rp as those characters and will be seen as transphobic? (I'm sorry if this is a bit bothersome but I'm genuinely curious and you honestly have phrased this entire explanation of rule 63 a lot better to make people understand)

[[its hard to say. im sure different people have different opinions on canon media rule 63 characters being roleplayed. i think it's ok, as long as you acknowledge the premise being transphobic? idk if that makes sense. if you could only roleplay as a character who had an entirely clean, non-transphobic backstory not many characters would be open for roleplaying. i can't think of a single show, book, movie, webcomic, etc, that hasn't ever been transphobic.

i'd say for someone who was interested in roleplaying a canon rule 63 character to publicly acknowledge the fact that rule 63 is transphobic, and talk about it to their followers. i'm not an expert on dealing with canon rule 63 characters, since i tend to avoid roleplaying them. but that's what i've come up with right now.

if you want to keep asking me questions, i'm happy to answer! but please send them in a fanmail, or off-anon so i can respond to them privately! i'd like my blog to go back to rp, and end the drama, please.]]

[kueio]

i read your post about genderbents and why they're wrong and it did open my eyes a bit but now im wondering about genderbent characters in media such as Fiona & Cake and Nyotalia; while they are essentially seen as 'girl versions' of the original characters, they also differ from the original characters themselves and have their own quirks/personalities (though similar) to their male counterparts, so now im wondering are those things transphobic as well?

[[i really love fionna and cake and EVERYONE. im a big adventure time fan myself. really tho theres nothing that specifically states that fionna is a cis girl, is there? since it’s a public tv show she’s probably cis though. :\ i headcanon her as trans whoopa haha

rule 63 is transphobic, so yes, the premise of fionna and cake is transphobic. i love them, but i mean it started out as a story by the ice king, so is anyone surprised?]]

[kueio]

[[like no ones mad about anyone just rping a cis person but... changing from rping a trans person into being a genderbend just is.... kinda gross. what is so wrong with rping a trans person??? theres just no right way to defend that. its cissexist.]]

[kueio]

[[people rp things they don't have experience with all the time. *looks at all u xeno-nsfw rpers out there*]]

[kueio]

d1sparaged replied to your post: “[[i see cis people asking “what’s with all the rule 63 hate lately?”...”:

THANK you for making this post frankly

[[np np :) ]]

[kueio]

[[i see cis people asking "what's with all the rule 63 hate lately?" but i know they don't REALLY want to know the answer to that question. if you really wanted to know why trans people are so against genderbends, you would ask trans people, because i am happy to explain what the deal is. instead, i only ever see people ask other cis people as a form of complaining, in order to further villainize trans people and come up with more excuses as to not listen to us.

by phrasing the question "what's with all the rule 63 hate lately?" one can make out people opposing genderbends as irrational. it comes off as just some weird tumblr trend that should just be ignored. it doesn't address the issues or really ask "why do people dislike genderbends?" it directly insults people who dislike rule 63. that's all it does. if you want to know why so many trans people are taking a stand against rule 63, you can read below the cut. if not, stop asking rhetorical questions. don't pretend to ask when you don't care. it's childish.]]

the main difference between rule 63 and trans headcanons is that genderbending is a cissexist way of exploring the differences in genders and sexes and trans headanons arent

like for one trans people get called genderbends as a negative term. so just don't use it. two, the term ‘gender’ bend changes a fuckton more than a character's gender. it changes their gender, their sex, AND their presentation, implying that those three things are linked. that implication is cissexist. those three things are all independent from each other three, there’s no such thing as being born “the opposite gender.” gender is your identity. sex is the physical structure of a person’s body. a person is born with a "sex." neither sex nor gender exist on a binary, so there is no “opposite” to those things.

rule 63 implies a definite difference between cis people and trans people. what difference between rping a trans male and a cis male makes rping a trans male less "male?" there's no defense for this that is not extremely cissexist: 

"i don't know enough about trans people to rp a trans person because i'm not trans:" then google things. ask trans people actual questions. you should do this anyway. this should be a mandatory thing for everyone, since we have to learn shit about cis people

"i can't deal with trans issues accurately!" isn't rp about exploring things outside of your realm of experience anyway? if you're really worried about an accurate portrayal, ask people. i'm pretty sure you didn't ask a gay cis guy how to accurately portray gay sex. probably didn't stop you, did it?

"you can't deny there's a difference. it wouldn't be the same as being a cis person." surprisingly, the experiences of trans people vary.

[kueio]

i'm so bad at timing. :(

[kueio]

hi, everyone. i had a pretty busy day taking sassy to the cat park. i'm so glad that she's leash trained! she's so cute.

[toranzu]

oh yeah youre right

barely even know you and im just going on for days about my cat that was definitely weird oops

but anyways im dave but you knew that already uh yeah nice to meet you

[kueio]

it's ok, i'm used to weird people. i mostly see trolls nowadays, hehe.

i'm john.

[sexynerdy-bolin]

♕ introducing the mun:

[kueio]

Name or nickname: micah Tumblr URL: kueio/comesailawway (an1meswag is inactive) ((personal is watertribe.co.vu)) Gender: male Sexual Orientation: bi demisexual OC friendly?: yup! Multi-fandom friendly?: yup Will you ship your muse with any sex?: yes -_- Are you open to SFW rp?:  well yeah Are you open to NSFW rp?: not rly its not my thing Can people come up and start a conversation with you?: yeah do it bc heaven knows im terrible Can they be your friend?: after we talk a while??