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✨intro post✨

Hiii im Ladie. She/her. 18+. Ao3

I’ve been in the Naruto fandom for 5-6 years? I love love shiita my ultimate otp but I also love Tobiizu and hashimada. Occasionally I’ll enjoy some kakuhida. Um that’s all for now :)

senjuhashirama

hill i decided to die on today:

Hashirama is held to a higher standard in the fandom. When he makes a mistake, it's treated as a moral failure or a sign of incompetence. As if he should've prevented every future tragedy, solved political conflicts, foresee the actions of people who lived decades after him etc. etc.

Other characters' flaws are being tied to their trauma by the fandom. Their bad choices are explained, forgiven, and understood as the result of what they went through. But this happens rarely with Hashirama. His flaws are treated as intentional choices, not the result of childhood abuse or growing up in a war, being sent to kill as a child, or losing two brothers before he was even emotionally developed.

Fandom only recognizes trauma when it looks like rage, depression, violence, isolation, self-destruction. But when it looks like conflict avoidance, suddenly it isn't recognized at all. Because it doesn't look dramatic, people pretend there is no trauma.

This creates an unfair fandom narrative where Hashirama is expected to be perfect and denied the right to be traumatised at the same time. And so instead he's infantilized, oversimplified, blamed, flattened, and quite frankly boring.

kodamaoftheforests

@hashimada-week Day 1: Kiss

~When laughter turns to kissing time~

sa2sugu

mushwoom

thesuicidalfox

@hashimada-week day 1: Kiss

A gift from the divine... I guess Madara was not even seen completely as a human by his lover, and it's a tragedy for his story that I enjoy. They are both passionate and intense, but Hashirama speaks of Madara with this "heavenly revelation" line, while Madara speaks of him as a man, an equal.

It's a devotion that goes both way, though, just wait and you'll see a role reversal soon enough :3

stygian-blu

@hashimada-week - Day 1 - Kiss

MARY RENAULT HOW DID YOU WRITE LIKE THIS

#save some for the rest of us

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Foundees

What if I’m actually getting worse at everything

confirmance

*Mutual reblogs something you posted*

Me: They still like me. Thank God.

kazoosandfannypacks

reblog this post to let the mutual you reblogged this from know that you still like them

angel-fruitcake

i can handle one (1) Event™ per day. whether it be a phone call, an appointment, trip to the grocery store, play date with a friend, etc. only one, that's it. any more than that and i am Stressed