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Welcome to my Blog!! (o✪‿✪o) 29 // Bi // They/Them

[laffyraffy]

I've had this blog since somewhere around 2009 and in all that time I have NEVER posted in any kind of regular schedule, and I basically reblog whatever the fuck I wanna reblog. This isn't a dedicated Tumblr, it's a personal one where I just kinda do whatever.

Feel free to message me but I'm a horrible self-isolating trash goblin with social anxiety who sometimes ghosts my IRL friends, so the odds of me replying are. . . Kinda slim, to say the least.

EDIT: Currently obsessed with Doc Ock and Alfred Molina. This is NOT a spoiler-free blog, so beware if you haven't seen Spider-Man: No Way Home.

[shahs1221]

Otto commission for @komatheterrible!

[supersecretnerd]

Now that the film's been released, more concept art is coming out! These are from an interview with Pablo Lobato, the key character designer for Wendell & Wild! {link here! 👁️😈}

[valtsv]

the days leading up to your period will make you think you’re under some sort of curse that’s draining the life from your body and then well that does kind of turn out to be the case

[psychoticallytrans]

I think we don’t talk enough about how many disabled people in the United States would be able to leave poverty, or never be poor in the first place, if we had unconditionally free and accessible healthcare. There are people that have confessed to me that they can never leave poverty because then they would lose their healthcare and die. The cost of their care outstrips the income cutoff by several orders of magnitude.

[brightorangerain]

[arsonistblue]

if you have a chronically ill person/someone with chronic pain in your life, sometimes the best thing for you to do is just sit with them and watch a movie. understand that they are in a lot of pain, and there isn't much you can do but be with them, bring them snacks, and let them know that you care

[chasing-asterion]

Fellow chronic pain patient. If someone sat with me for a movie and just let me be in pain - meds, heat pack, pillows, comfy clothes - and brought me tea and snacks?

I'd probably cry.

My condition is beyond severe, two medical quality of life meetings in the last year, and this is absolutely so important.

Patients spend so much time masking, doing ourselves damage to just not burden people to keep them in our lives. Someone who understands that we're incurable, doesn't push us into painful treatments or management, and just let's us be? That we're worthy of love and compassion even if we can't be cured? There are no words.

It can be a lot to explain this concept to abled people, even if they mean well. Compassion tends to have an expiration date if the condition is incurable but not terminal. Making other chronically ill friends has saved my sanity. I wouldn't have made it this far without them. I don't need to mask and we can just complain at each other without trying to fix it.

Let chronically ill patients just be, sometimes quiet company is life saving.

[malkaleh]

So many people I would love to just sit quietly with. So many.

[lesboevils]

idk im really tired of 15-17 year olds who have never interacted with the gay community irl and spend too much time on tiktok trying to act like the authority on all that is lgbt+ 

[lesboevils]

  mean this in the kindest possible way. if you are too young and unsafe to go to your gay community center or pride here’s some ways you can connect to gay history.

the oral history project from act up

the lesbian herstory archives

the transgender archives of the university of victoria

the digital transgender archives

glbt historical society (digital)

lgbtq digital collaboratory

[lesboevils]

since it was suggested in the tags

anything that moves

the bisexual manifesto

[lesboevils]

the Samuel Proctor oral history project

a masterpost of lesile feinberg’s works by @genderoutlaws

more to come

[lesboevils]

the queer zine archive

the dyke march compilation 

paris is burning 

how to survive a plague

united in anger: a history of ACT UP

one archives

new york public library lgbtq archives

[ratcarney]

shoutout to the people working for hours on content that only gets ten notes. i’m kissing you tenderly on the forehead as we speak

[geek-png]

🎉Happy 69th Birthday to Alfred Molina!! ♥

He is such an incredibly talented individual, fantastic inspiration and lovely role-model! I wish I had come across him sooner, but going back and watching his old works has been such a breath of fresh air honestly. A massive thank you to him for his continuous and passionate career for influencing so so many people, along with myself, and I wish him an amazing birthday today! ;v; We all love him very much and I hope he knows that 🥰♥

I don't typically care for celebrity birthdays n' all that but this man has impacted my life in such a positive way these past few months that I couldn't pass up the opportunity to make a lil commemoration post-

[dankmemeuniversity]

[heyitsphoenixx]

would never think of myself as a revenge coded revenge girl but it’s more true than I thought holy shit

[gerardlesbian]

But tonight, that changes!

[mychemfan]

RETURN(ed)

[notmcr]

MCR EDEN 16/5/22

[mcrbois]

mcr 2022.

[lux-astralis]

me blasting mcr in my room in 2012

me blasting mcr in my room in 2022