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Helmet Weight: 6.2 lbs/2.8 kg
Milan, Italy, ca. 1450, housed at the Walters Museum.

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A lovely gothic style armor, Sallet attributed to Antonio Missaglia,
Helmet Weight: 6.2 lbs/2.8 kg
Milan, Italy, ca. 1450, housed at the Walters Museum.
The most underrated scene of Sex Education.
General Condom Tips
Beyond Types, there are Specific Tips of Condom Use in General
â1. Â Â Check the package for expiration dates, holes, tears.
2. Â Â Put the condom on and leave it on for the complete duration of the sexual activity.
3. Â Â Still use lubricant that is not included on the condom. However, double check the lubricant label to make sure that it is condom receptive.
4. Â Â Do not unroll the condom or blow it up like a balloon before using. Although, it could be fun â it will ruin the condom.
5. Â Â Make sure to leave room at the tip for the ejaculate by pinching the end of the condom when putting it on the penis.
6. Â Â After ejaculation, still remove the penis immediately and take it away from the vagina before taking the condom off. This will help ensure no unwanted sperm makes its way in the vagina.
7. Â Â Condoms are one time use only!! Using it again can make your partner susceptible to infectionsâ (Lehmiller, 2014)
Reference:Â
Lehmiller, J. L. (2014). The Psychology of Human Sexuality (2nd ed.). Hoboken, New Jersey: Wiley-Blackwell. ISBN: 978-1119164739
What Sex Ed Really Entails
Iâm a firm believer everyone should take at least one human sexuality class in their lifetime. Iâm not talking about that awkward 5th grade class when a random woman came in talking about tampons and pads. Or that time in 9th grade when another random woman came into school with âBetty boobâ and âTommy testicleâ and through awkward giggles instructed how to test for breast cancer. Or that health class in twelfth grade where we learned about condoms. Those are great and much needed; especially in the U.S. where sexual education is highly lacking and if taught at all, doesnât even need to be accurate information. Most sex education in America revolves around âabstinence onlyâ education, especially in more conservative states like the mid-west or down south. The first real sex ed class I took was in my second year of college. It was a human sexuality 100 (entry level) class. For one semester we learned both the physiology and psychology of sexual intercourse. We learned the basics such as STI education and resources for sexual assault. When I tell people Iâm going to graduate school for sexuality studies, I get one of two responses. â(intrigued) wow, howâs that?â Or (freaked out) just âwow.â They either end the conversation or develop an interest thinking I study the kama sutra every night. This isnât the case.
âSex education helps people gain the information, skills and motivation to make healthy decisions about sex and sexuality. Sex education is high quality teaching and learning about a broad variety of topics related to sex and sexuality, exploring values and beliefs about those topics and gaining the skills that are needed to navigate relationships and manage oneâs own sexual health. Sex education may take place in schools, in community settings, or online. Comprehensive sexuality education refers to K-12 programs that cover a broad range of topics related to: Human Development (including reproduction, puberty, sexual orientation, and gender identity) Relationships (including families, friendships, romantic relationships and dating) Personal Skills (including communication, negotiation, and decision-making) Sexual Behavior (including abstinence and sexuality throughout life) Sexual Health (including sexually transmitted diseases, contraception, and pregnancy) Society and Culture (including gender roles, diversity, and sexuality in the media).â
All in all, human sexuality is the way people experience and express themselves sexually. This involves biological, erotic, physical, emotional, social, or spiritual feelings and behaviors. Because it is a broad term, which has varied over time, it lacks a precise definition. Sex plays an important part in our social and personal lives. The scientific study of sex is important for reproductive health, our psychological well-being and society as a whole. Sex is something every group of people in the world has in common and plays a universal role in human life.
If you have yet to take a course in human sexuality, Iâd suggest doing so. No matter how many times youâve had sex or how many partners youâve had, this doesnât necessarily make you âgoodâ or âbadâ at sex. What makes someone a great lover is an individual who is comfortable with their sexuality and body, knowing what does and doesnât work for them. If you donât have access to a sex ed class, try looking it up on YouTube or taking a book out at the library. Thereâs many great educational resources you can access without having to leave your house. So get to it! (and thank me later).
just because it âfitsâ doesnt mean its comfortable or sustainable stopppppppp this shit
There are two main factors at play when someone says that a condom is too small: (1) the band size is too small & (2) the condom is not sustainable
The band is at the base of the condom. Itâs latex is made thicker here than the shaft and is, therefore, less elastic. The band keeps the condom secure so it does not come off mid-insertion and so penial fluids do not leak from the condom. To do this, the band has to keep a very tight grip on the base of the penis. This is the main complaint from people using condoms too small for them. The shaftâs plastic can stretch comfortably, but the band is not so lenient and uncomfortably or painfully squeezes the base of the penis.
Condoms in use experience a lot of friction. For a condomâs shaft or band to be stretched farther than it was intended weakens the latex. The band and shaft are then at risk of being broken from the friction. It fitting does not mean it is sustainable.
If your partner says a condom is too small, believe them and cease from doing anything that requires a condom. If your partner says a condom is too small but is trying to pressure you into unprotected sex, kick them out the door.Â
Thaaaank you please read the above they make large and XXL condoms for a reason and itâs not to stoke menâs egos
A former⌠friend suggested I try a size or two larger, and yes, they do work.
Yep. At first, I thought that condoms were supposed to be that tight. Iâd seen those âcondoms can fit on a two liter bottle so quit your complaining,â I had no basis for comparison because dudes donât talk about that shit, and no one wants to be that âHURR HURR GUESS I NEED A MAGNUM XLâ guy.
Now wear that condom on your arm for a while. Ten minutes at least. Still got sensation in your arm?
One of the many failures of sex ed in this country is the notion that thereâs only two types of condom, âfits everyone except those elephant-trunk-cock freaksâ and âfor elephant-trunk-cock freaks or lying braggartsâ (and yes, thereâs implicit shame in the idea of people needing non-âregularâ-sized condoms and the genesis for such is pretty likely rooted in some really nasty viewpoints about certain groups of people but Iâm digressing).
But penises come in a LOT of dimensions, and not all of them fit right in a ânormalâ condom. You donât need to have a monster down there for a condom to be legitimately painful and/or break mid-act. This can leave a lot of people legitimately unawares that it doesnât have to be like this. (I was, early on.)
Condom too tight? Thatâs a real problem for the reasons pointed out above. But itâs a solvable one at most drug stores, which generally have a broader (ha ha) selection than your Walmarts or Targets. Or suck it up (ha ha) and go to an âadult boutiqueâ (a proper one) where theyâre likely to have even more options and letâs be real here the people working at these arenât gonna give you Looks over condom selection. Or shop at said boutiques online if you REALLY need to avoid the in-person thing.
And if you think youâre gonna be doing things requiring condoms, HAVE YOUR OWN. Yes, even if you personally donât have a penis. Buy a box of large-size as well just in case.
And donât let anyone give you guff over it, and donât let anyone pressure you into unprotected sex because of condom size.
La giornalista Mona Chalabi e la regista Mae Ryan continuano il loro viaggio di esplorazione per rompere i tabĂš sul sesso femminile. Nel terzo episodio cercano di scoprire i segreti dellâorgasmo e capire come mai per le donne è piĂš difficile provare piacere rispetto agli uomini. Il video del Guardian. Leggi
Ă lunedĂŹ e vi prude la pucchiacca?
Prima di scrivere al povero @kon-igi sarĂ meglio che vi stampiate questa lista e la seguiate per il resto della vita:
- evitate mutandine che non siano di cotone. SĂŹ, lo sappiamo che vi piaccono tanto quelle in lycra e quelle in pizzo del Madagascar, ma guardate il titolo? Ecco. Se una volta ogni tanto volete essere sexy non câè niente di male, però scommettiamo insieme che la vaginite è meno sexy delle mutande di cotone?
- usate il lubrificante, per dio. A meno che non siate tra le poche donne portatrici di abbondante lubrificazione naturale compratene un tubo e tenetelo a portata di mano, in questo modo eviterete stressanti sfregamenti che porteranno al titolo qui sopra. No, se ogni tanto capita di fare sesso senza non succede nulla.
- usate un detersivo delicato per lavare gli indumenti che vengono a contatto con la vostra vulva, es @sabrinaonmymind consiglia Anonet in farmacia.
- non lavatevi troppo spesso, non câè necessitĂ . Quando lo fate non è necessario usare il sapone per i piatti, meglio un sapone delicato e adatto (chiedete al farmacista oppure alla ginecologa, o anche a @ze-violet)
- non indossate spesso indumenti che vi stringono. Oltre a non fare bene alla flora di quella zona danno tanti altri problemi.
- non câè motivo, a meno che siate incontinenti, di indossare continuamente salvaslip o, ancora peggio, tamponi. Se doveste avere perdite continue parlatene con la vostra gine.
- la zona si può irritare anche masturbandosi troppo spesso (sĂŹ, maschi allâascolto, capita anche alle donne). Datevi tregua o cambiate tecnica.
Anche seguendo tutti questi accorgimenti può capitare di avere malesseri e fastidi: è normale. Parlatene con il medico o ginecologo che sono lÏ per aiutarvi e non per giudicarvi o deridervi (o almeno dovrebbero) e tutto si risolverà .
Devo per forza entrare nel discorso patata con pelo-patata senza pelo. Io non ci penso neanche a non depilarmi (soffro il caldo e mi piace il senso di pulizia che dĂ il pelo curato), ma nemmeno sotto minaccia di danni gravi sono disposta ad andare oltre a interno cosce e serio lavoro di scorciatura sul pube. Le patate implumi mi provocano orrore esattamente come gli attrezzi maschili: reputo i peli segno di maturitĂ sessuale e la loro mancanza nell'area genitale mi mette orrendamente a disagio..
⌠mi viene da affermare che per meritarmi il mio cespuglio sono dovuta diventare grande e mestruata, e lo reputo uno dei segni della mia femminilitĂ adulta. Non potrei mai sentirmi a mio agio con un uomo glabro come un bambino, perchè io non trovo desiderabile un prepubere. E sul fatto che facciamo tutto per piacere agli altri⌠guarda, manco a quindici anni!Â
Alleluia!
diciamolo.
Ma se invece a una piace depilarsi completamente il vostro problema quale sarebbe?
Quando mi masturbo da me tutto okay, ma ultimamente durante i rapporti è come se mi diventasse ipersensibile e mi da fastidio anche solo mi si sfiori, mentre mi fa proprio veramente male se mi masturbano altri. Non ce la faccio piÚ cosÏ, mi aiuti lei
E tromba, no?
La confidenza col tocco altrui arriverĂ poi da sola.
Guardati con lo specchietto e vedi se ti sembra tutto a posto, a volte se non ci si pulisce bene può esserci un'infiammazione dell'uretra ed è quello che ti dà fastidio. In quel caso vai dal ginecologo. Se è tutto ok forse è solo iperstimolazione quindi fatto qualche giorno di pausa andrà tutto a posto. In ogni caso parlane col partner, e se del caso chiedi di essere delicato.
Sono ai miei primi rapporti sessuali, ogni volta però dopo pochi minuti mi si irrita un botto, cosa che di solito passa in qualche ora ma che rovina tutto il momento, può aiutarmi? Capirei la prima volta, ma dopo cinque o sei non so se è normale...
⌠e poi la tua vagina imparerà a farlo da sola.
In realtĂ non sempre quindi per favore usate sempre il lubrificante!
Summer + Your Period: The Spot On Guide to Summer
At Planned Parenthood, we understand that your period is a normal (if not always welcome) part of life â and that it can be harder to track your period and manage your birth control method in the midst of vacation schedules and travel. This summer, Spot On, Planned Parenthoodâs free period tracker and birth control app, makes it easier for you to understand your unique cycle so that you can rule it, instead of it ruling you.
Here is a helpful guide to having the best summer ever, period or no period.
By Dr. Raegan McDonald-Mosley, Chief Medical Officer at Planned Parenthood Federation of America
Swimming? Use a tampon or menstrual cup if youâre going to be in the water while on your period.
During summer, you donât have to avoid cooling off in the water just because you have your period. Tampons or menstrual cups should keep you leak-free.
Remember to change out of your bathing suit or wet clothes to avoid infection.
Itâs actually normal for yeast to live and grow in your vagina â as well as your mouth and intestines. A yeast infection occurs when yeast, also called candida, grows too much â often when the normal conditions of the vagina have changed and the balance is thrown off. It can happen for a lot of reasons: certain antibiotics, changes in hormone levels, pregnancy, etc. Yeast likes to grow in damp places, so one way to prevent an infection is to keep your genital area as dry as possible: rinse and dry thoroughly after showers, use dry towels, and â you guessed it â avoid sitting around in a wet swimsuit.
In addition to avoiding sitting around in a wet pair of underwear or a wet bathing suit for very long, you should be cautious about spending too much time in fabric that doesnât breathe well â like some exercise shorts â which can trap moisture and heat and put you at a higher risk of yeast or bacterial infections.
Symptoms of a yeast infection include abnormal vaginal discharge that is thick, white, and odorless, as well as itching or burning. There are many different treatments for a yeast infection including pills, creams, suppositories and vaginal and oral tablets, and many of these are available over the counter. Check with your provider or a Planned Parenthood health center before picking up over-the-counter medications so you can be sure that youâre following the right treatment plan.
Itâs ok to go commando.
Giving your vulva a chance to breathe can be  a good thing â and thereâs nothing inherently unhealthy about going without undies. Vaginal discharge is perfectly normal, but it can leave a stain on underwear or clothing. Most people wear underwear to feel comfortable and keep their clothes clean, but itâs totally up to you.
If you do wear underwear, make sure you change into a clean, dry pair every day. The most important thing is to wear what makes you comfortable while simultaneously keeping your vulva clean and dry. Â You can do this by wearing cotton underwear or clothes, or a similar fabric that wicks away moisture from the skin. Â If youâre not inclined to give up daytime underwear, you might want to lose your underwear at night and just wear a comfy pair of cotton pajamas.
Traveling can mess with the timing of your period.
Sometimes when weâre headed out on vacation, our periods can be late catching the flight. There are a lot of reasons your menstrual cycle may change, including your birth control method, illness, medication, over-exercising, poor nutrition, stress, sudden weight gain or loss â and traveling.
So itâs normal to see differences in your period if youâre traveling â but if youâve had unprotected sex or think you might be pregnant, take a pregnancy test or visit your local Planned Parenthood health center.
If wedding season is cramping your style, know that you donât have to get your period every month.
Thatâs right: If you are using hormonal birth control, like birth control pills, the implant, or the IUD, thereâs no medical reason why you need to get your period every month. Combination birth control pills can be used to control when and how often you have your period. Â Some pills are specially packaged for you to have only a few periods a year, and others can also be used continuously to prevent having periods.
Sometimes periods cause severe health problems (like anemia or painful cramps), and sometimes people just simply donât want to bleed or have cramps every month. Sometimes you have a really important date with a bridesmaid dress and you donât want to be thinking about your period. Either way, itâs totally fine to use hormonal birth control to regulate or eliminate your period. If you want to skip or stop having periods, talk with your doctor or nurse about how this is done.
Nix the sex on the beach.
Sex on the beach or in a pool might seem romantic in the movies but, sex and water â chlorinated, natural, or salt water â generally donât mix well. Water washes away your natural lubricant, so you could experience more chafing and discomfort. If youâre using a condom, less lubrication means more risk that the condom could rip or tear. The odds are even worse in a hot tub, since heat increases the risk of tearing.
The natural water of lakes and rivers contains bacteria, which could find its way into your vagina during sexual activity, putting you at risk for infections. Chlorinated water can also contain bacteria, so pools arenât necessarily safer. And the chemicals used in pools and hot tubs could disrupt your bodyâs natural balance and cause a yeast infection, as well as irritate your more sensitive regions. Bottom line: itâs best to stay out of the water if youâre planning to get intimate.
Wherever you get lucky this summer, remember to use condoms to prevent sexually transmitted infections.
Stay away from âfeminine washesâ or douching, year round.
You donât need to use feminine washes or douches to be fresh and clean â and they can actually actually be harmful to your body. Scented products often have harsh chemicals that strip away the natural and healthy bacteria that are in the vagina. This can irritate vaginal skin, and leave the vagina prone to infection from other bacteria. The vagina is self cleaning, so you donât need to add all of these cleaning products. Just use a mild soap and rinse thoroughly.
Follow your period this summer and beyond with our new birth control and period tracker app, Spot On. Now available on iOS and Android.
This Is Your Uterus On Your Period
These are life-sized replicas of the non-menstruating uterus (white) and the menstruating uterus. So now if you wonder why youâre feeling bloated, heavy, and like your uterus is weighed down like a canon ball, look at this photo. Our bodies are doing some crazy stuff. You have the right to take it slow. Your uterus just doubled in size.
The Jocelyn Centre in Sydney, Australia created these fabulous visual aids, and the photo comes courtesy Apples and Ovaries.
Doc, un chiarimento: ieri sera dopo il rapporto io ed il mio ragazzo abbiamo controllato il profilattico come sempre, e abbiano notato un forellino circa a metà , da cui però l'acqua usciva solo schiacciandolo. Stamattina, 10 ore dopo, ho preso EllaOne; ora il dubbio: in teoria, se regolare, avrei dovuto ovulare oggi. Ha comunque effetto? E se avessi già ovulato senza essermene accorta? Grazie.
Bella domanda⌠e mi fa piacere (non è cosĂŹ scontato)che tu sappia che il suo meccanismo di azione è ANTIOVULATORIO, quindi teoricamente non efficace se lâovulo è giĂ stato scodellato.
E invece è un poâ piĂš complicato (a vantaggio di chi lo usa) di cosĂŹ.
Come le decine di ask che puntualmente pubblico dimostrano (e colgo cosĂŹ lâoccasione per rispondere a quelli in sospeso) i sanguinamenti a metĂ ciclo, i dolori, i crampi, i ritardi, le mestruazioni che durano due settimane o che non arrivano per tre mesi ci raccontano di un meccanismo molto delicato, reso possibile solo dal perfetto equilibrio ormonale di estrogeni e progesterone, i livelli normali dei quali permettono la maturazione dellâovulo, LA SUA DISCESA e, nel mentre, la preparazione del terreno di cultura, lâendometrio.Lâulipristal agisce proprio sui livelli di estrogeni e progesterone, saturandone i siti di azione e ritardando o bloccando proprio lâovulazione, quindi teoricamente efficace nellâagire fino a pochi attimi prima del rilascio dellâovulo.
Esiste quindi una finestra di 12-24 ore tra il momento in cui lâovulo può essere ancora bloccato e il momento in cui lâovulo âinvecchiaâ e non è piĂš fecondabile, finestra nella quale si deve tenere conto della lentezza con gli spermatozoi risalgono lâutero e le tube.
Appurato che è molto piĂš facile rimanere gravide se si tromba UNO O DUE GIORNO PRIMA dellâovulazione (gli spermatozoi sopravvivono tre-quattro giorni) e non DURANTE, câè da tenere in considerazione una caratteristica dellâulipristal furbescamente taciuta perchĂŠ non gli si appioppi tout court lâetichetta di ABORTIVO.
Lâulipristal inibisce anche tutti quei meccanismi biologici di preparazione dellâendometrio, il tessuto uterino che dovrĂ ospitare lâovulo fecondato, e quindi, anche qualora fosse assunto poco dopo lo scodellamento dellâovulo, se questo dovesse essere giĂ fecondato, non troverebbe ad accoglierlo un terreno di crescita adatto e verrebbe quindi espulso.Â
Di sicuro in maniera di molto inferiore come probabilitĂ , ma l'efficacia superiore a qualsiasi altra molecola qualche volta è data dallâeffetto ANTIANNIDATIVO sullâovulo fecondato, quindi siate onesti nel difenderlo perchĂŠ seguendo il (discutibile) ragionamento dei prolife, ma la morale è del gruppo, lâulipristal è un farmaco ABORTIVO.
Grazie e adesso vado a mangiare le lasagne di verdure (forse seguirĂ foto).
Doc le pongo una questione delicata. Esco con un ragazzo da qualche tempo e ogni volta che siamo lÏ lÏ per arrivare alla trivellazione, il coso ci abbandona Lui dice che è ansia da prestazione, che arriva il momento di metter il preservativo e sfuma tutto Se è frustrante per me, non oso immaginare quanto possa esserlo per lui In questi casi come ci si comporta? Si può risolvere come? (Perdono per la domanda da "posta di cioè" )
Prendendola con piĂš calma e allungando i tempi dei preliminari, facendogli indossare il condom e continuando poi con il petting.
Caro Doc, sono una donna di quasi 30 anni e sto con la stessa persona da 5. Il problema è che ho un completo disinteresse per il sesso. Non mi ritrovo ad essere mai eccitata o a sentirne il bisogno, anzi, spesso, soprattutto i preliminari mi creano parecchio disturbo. Ma d'altro canto potrei rimanere abbracciata al mio compagno per ore. Insomma, non "odio" il contatto fisico, ma solo i rapporti sessuali. Che c'è di sbagliato in me?
Lâunica cosa sbagliata che potrebbe esserci è non averne eventualmente parlato con il tuo compagno, chiarendo questa tua maniera di vivere la sessualitĂ . Se questo non lo senti un problema e se lui accetta la cosa, benvenuta nel mondo multiforme delle relazioni affettive.
Non voglio moralismi se ho sperimentato da sola una cosa che è vista come un evento trascendentale. Psicologicamente do importanza alla 1^ volta (e con chi la si ha) ma il mio è stato un vedere cosa si prova a livello fisico con una penetrazione.
Beh in ogni caso gli âoggettiâ non saranno mai come una vera penetrazione. Comunque darci importanza o meno è una tua scelta, anche se da quelle che ho visto non sono mai stata un granchè come momento âfisicoâ ma forse lo son state emotivamente.
Grazie x la risposta. Avevo voglia e ho provato. à uscito un po' di sangue ma nessun dolore. Alla fine non è nulla di scioccante (magari con un pene vero è diverso) quindi ogni tanto lo rifaró per prenderci la mano e venire (oggi non è successo).
Con calma e pazienza (E LUBRIFICANTE!) si va in paradiso.