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goth-queen

vampireautism

there is an IMAGE in my HEAD and i cannot DRAW IT. hatred and rage.

flowerflamestars

there is a CONVERSATION in my HEAD and I cannot WRITE IT. rage and hatred

ocean-stuck

there is a VIDEO in my HEAD And i cannot ANIMATE IT. hage and ratred

y2kbugs-moved

There is a GAME in my HEAD and I cannot CODE IT. Ratred and hage.

unscharf-an-den-raendern

there is a SONG in my HEAD and I cannot COMPOSE IT. haged and rate.

gender-luster

there is a MOVIE in my HEAD and i cannot FILM IT. raged and hate

madmad7

Colonel Sanders. ☆ ...Hao... kyute...

Pikachu obtained.

Decora Himiko! 💗💖💕

Happy Pride!

Every pride, you must reblog this. No exceptions

thesaltofcarthage

I love that four different people on my feed scheduled this joyous person to reblog by 8am on June 1. I look forward to seeing this a dozen more times today.

nudesornaw

if you’re having a bad day, here’s a cute little marching band

this actually made me cry with joy also one of them is eating noodles

readsquirrel

It just keeps going and getting better. *^^*

involuntaryorange

Me two minutes ago: “cry with joy? an animation of cats playing instruments made someone cry with joy?”

Me now: (sobs into a tissue) “OH MY GOD THAT ONE IS PLAYING TWO RECORDERS AT THE SAME TIME” (blows nose)

son-of-a-tenth-place

CAT PARADE IS BACK

cricketcat9

ALWAYS reblog Cat Parade! 💕💕💕

And one of them has a little duck on its head 🤣

grogusmum

I’ve been blessed with the kitty marching band! I love them 💚🥰

oonajaeadira

GIVE YOURSELF A 2 MINUTE PRESENT.

YOU DESERVE TO STOP AND EXPERIENCE A SIMPLE JOY.

tawnyontumblr

Never not reblogging the cat parade!

darklordreasonable

Mildly annoyed that this isn’t actually the full video, so here it is:

darklordreasonable

#i vaguely that there was a sequel to this that was HD

Apparently you correctly!

the-haiku-bot

#i vaguely

that there was a sequel to

this that was HD

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

greelin

did perfectionism ever truly protect you from harm or neglect as a child though. ultimately. Lol

greelin

[REALLY NORMAL AND WELL-ADJUSTED VOICE] well you never know maybe it COULD have saved me. if i ever actually achieved perfection. it could have happened then. if i was actually ever enough. Which i was not

#jack of all trades #master of none #or at least i thought i was #I'm not a perfectionist #but i should've been #because yes being a perfectionist would've saved my ass #i have spent years as a fraud #i have never been good at anything #people say my work isn't good even when i try my hardest #so maybe if i was a perfectionist #i could make something worthwhile

rohirric-hunter

Hi no I'm pissed off about the age verification laws and bills again. So many grown adults out there going, "The internet should be safe for my children," with all the brazenness of someone walking into a bar and saying, "You need to stop serving alcoholic drinks because I want to drop my children off here all day while I'm at work." Except at the same time they're also demanding that arsenic be added to all the drinks, including the ones being served to children

livelaughlosefocus

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

insidestory1

Autistic social anxiety is not "social anxiety" in the typical sense. An anxiety disorder is defined as an "irrational fear". So for example, imagine someone who is afraid to speak in case everyone looks at them and goes "what the heck are you saying you wierdo." If that person is neurotypical, then the chances are that they're very unlikely to get that response. Therefore their fears are irrational, and that is true "social anxiety". If you put an autistic person in that scenario, on the other hand, then probably the reason they're afraid of that response is because they've received it many times before. They're fear is based on repeated past experiences, therefore it is not irrational and not the simply an anxiety disorder. That's why people giving the classic social anxiety responses to autistic people is so unhelpful. "Just go out there and talk to people, it'll be fine," or "keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and you'll get more confident," don't work if the problem is real and not just in your head.

were--ralph

This is my home now I should be raving in a fursuit

were--ralph

Fit of the day 🩷💚

#ootd #ootdfashion #alternative #alt fashion

golongbyjoannanewsom

obsessed w this person in the replies

latesapling

"Do the task"

"No, I can't do the task right now, I'm already out of spoons as it is"

"Do the task anyway"

"I said I have no spoons for that task. I can't do it right now but I will get to it when I have the energy and time"

"No, you clearly have the energy because you're doing <different task that requires less/no energy> and you won't have the time if you don't do the task right now immediately"

"I fucking said no. I said I'll do the task when I have the spoons."

"You always say you'll do it later and you never do"

"Then explain why I'm not dead, beucase If I REALLY didn't finish anything later like you claim, I would be dead."

"Don't be so dramatic"

"I'm serious"

"Just do the task"

"What will it take for you to believe me that i literally cannot do this task?"

"If you do the task and fail/don't finish/have a breakdown halfway through"

"You understand that if I fuck up this task there will be severe consequences?"

"Yes but do it anyway."

Fuck you.

latesapling

"Wow! You did the task!"

"No thanks to you."

"Wasn't that sooo easy?"

"No."

"Well-- don't you feel good that you finished the task?"

"No, I'm pissed off that I had to do this avoidable and stupid task at all."

"Don't you feel good that it's done now? That you don't have to do it anymore"

"No becuase i had to fucking do it in the first place."

"Well can you at least TRY and look for something positive in all this?"

"No. I did it, it was awful, and now I feel awful. If I make another problem like this again, killing myself is a preferable solution. Nothing will make it better. Nothing will fix this. No amount of arbitrary tasks or drugs or doctors will make the reward centers in my brain magically start working like everyone wants them to. Never make me use spoons i don't have ever again."

"Don't be so dramatic."

I'm serious.

#tw suicidal ideation