Had some time to draw a new Batgirl Supergirl comic.
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Had some time to draw a new Batgirl Supergirl comic.
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jane austen was so lit because she wrote about men the way men typically write about women i.e. her stories just centered around women and men were only there for the sake of women, and her books could have been all bitter and sad about the state of women in that century, but instead theyâre sweet honest observational stories of friendship, family and love *sighs* what a lady i am sorry i ever doubted you cos I was bored in high school
no seriously her books do not pass the REVERSE bechdel test and itâs perfect
Jane Austen never wrote a single scene without a woman present.
me: *gets scared that iâm wasting my life* me: iâm gonna deal with this feeling by taking a long nap in the middle of the day
Chicago Tribune, Illinois, September 20, 1925
women for at least the last 80 years: donât call me pet names if you donât know me, itâs demeaning men: oh all of a SUDDEN you canât call a waitress âsweetheartâ or âdearâ what is this NEW feminist bullshit everybody about any guy over 40: oh heâs from a different time, it was normal back then! He doesnât mean anything by it!
The Importance of Mary Sue
When I was in Ninth Grade, I won a thing. Â
That thing, in particular, was a thirty dollar Barnes & Noble gift certificate. I was still too young for a part-time job, so I didnât have this kind of spending cash on me, ever. I felt like a god.
Drunk with power, I fancy-stepped my way to my local B&N. I was ready to choose new books based solely on the most important of qualitiesâŠBADASS COVER ART. I walked away with a handful of paperbacks, most of which were horrible (Iâm looking at you, Man-Kzin Wars III) or simply forgettable. Â
One book did not disappoint. I fell down the rabbit hole into a series that proved to be as badass as the cover art promised (Again, Man-Kzin Wars III, way to drop the ball on that one). With more than a dozen books in the series, I devoured them. I bought cassette tapes of ballads sung by bards in the stories. And the characters. Oh, the characters. I loved them. Gryphons, mages, but most importantly, lots of women. Different kinds of women. So many amazing women. I looked up to them, wrote bad fiction that lifted entire portions of dialogue and character descriptions, dreamed of writing something that the author would include in an anthology.
This year I decided in a fit of nostalgia to revisit the books I loved so damn much. I wanted to reconnect with my old friendsâŠ
âŠand I found myself facing Mary Sues. Lots of them. Perfect, perfect, perfect. A fantasy world full of Anakin Skywalkers and Nancy Drews and Wesley Crushers. I felt crushed. I had remembered such complex, deep characters and didnât see those women in front of me at all anymore. Where were those strong women who kept me safe through the worst four years of my life?
Which led me to an important realization as I soldiered on through book after book. Thatâs why I needed them. Because they were Mary Sues. These books were not written to draw my attention to all the ugly bumps and whiskers of the real world. They were somewhere to hide. I was painfully aware that I was being judged by my peers and adults and found lacking. I was a fuckup. And sometimes a fuckup needs to feel like a Mary Sue. As an adult, these characters felt a little thin because they lacked the real world knowledge I, as an adult, had learned and earned. But thatâs the thingâŠthese books werenât FOR this current version of myself.  Who I am now doesnât need a flawless hero because Iâm comfortable with the idea that valuable people are also flawed.
There is a reason that most fanfiction authors, specifically girls, start with a Mary Sue. Itâs because girls are taught that they are never enough. You canât be too loud, too quiet, too smart, too stupid. You canât ask too many questions or know too many answers. No one is flocking to you for advice. Then something wonderful happens. The girl who was told sheâs stupid finds out that she can be a better wizard than Albus Dumbledore. And that is something very important. Terrible at sports? Youâre a warrior who does backflips and Legolas thinks youâre THE BEST.  No friends? You get a standing ovation from Han Solo and the entire Rebel Alliance when you crash-land safely on Hoth after blowing up the Super Double Death Star. Itâs all about you. Everyone in your favorite universe is TOTALLY ALL ABOUT YOU.
I started writing fanfiction the way most girls did, by re-inventing themselves. Â
Mary Sues exist because children who are told theyâre nothing want to be everything. Â
As a girl, being âselfishâ was the worst thing you could be. Now you live in Narnia and Prince Caspian just proposed marriage to you. Why? Your SELF is what saved everyone from that sea serpent. Plus your hair looks totally great braided like that.
In time, hopefully, these hardworking fanfiction authors realize that itâs okay to be somewhere in the middle and their characters adjust to respond to that. As people grow and learn, characters grow and learn. Turns out your Elven Mage is more interesting if he isnât also the best swordsman in the kingdom. Not everyone needs to be hopelessly in love with your Queen for her to be a great ruler. There are all kinds of ways for people to start owning who they are, and embracing the things that make them so beautifully weird and complicated.
Personally, though, I think itâs a lot more fun learning how to trust yourself and others if you all happen to be riding dragons.
Mary Sues exist because children who are told theyâre nothing want to be everything.
A girl making herself the hero of her own story is a radical act. Stop shaming girls for doing it. Stop shaming yourself for it.Â
did everyone just forget about when bill was attacked by greyback and he had a ton of scars and mrs weasley was like âoh better call off the weddingâ and fleur was like âwhy the fuck would we do thatâ and mrs weasley basically said that fleur only liked bill bc of his looks and fleur totally told her and was like âi love him no matter what he looks likeâ and she turned out to be really cool I feel like fleur is underrated
what she said exactly was âiâm beautiful enough for both of usâ and honestly when has anything been more iconic
Fleur is constantly shit on bc sheâs pretty. Esp by Hermione and even Ginny. Fleur was a Triwizard Champion, deemed the most worthy in her entire school. Sheâs not stupid, and when Harry reminds the girls that sheâs not an idiot, both Hermione and Ginny accuse Harry of only sticking up for her because he thinks sheâs hot.
This smacks uncomfortably of the âgirls bring catty and hating the pretty girlâ bullshit.
Fleur never forgot that Harry saved her sister when he did not have to, and even at the time, she outright stated that she âdeserved zeroâ points for allowong the Grindylows to stop her.
Fleur is part veela⊠It is literally in her blood. She canât turn it off. And blaming her for guys being attracted to her is way to similar to âsheâs asking for itâ.
Mrs. Weasley, who is known in the fandom for taking in strays and loving everyone So Much, actively hated Fleur for over a year⊠With absolutely no concrete reason to do so. Ginny says that the only reason Bill likes Fleur is that âheâs always gone in for a bit of adventureâ. And imho this is one of the cattiest, most insulting things ever said in the entire series.
Fleur is the Elle Woods of the wizarding world. She has had to fight against her looks every step of the way, to prove that she belongs at the table. That she isnât just a pretty face. That she deserves the attention for her deeds or her words or her heart, not just because of her face. To not be objectified by everyone she meets, to make friends who care about her for who she is, not what she looks like.
I maintain this is why she chose Bill. He treats her like a person. And why she adores Harry. Harry has always treated her like a person too. He blushes when she kisses him, but heâs a 16yo boy, he blushes at everything. And when they first met, he was nervous around her⊠but he was also nervous around Cedric and Krum. It was because they were older than him, not because of a crush. Harry never once thought about asking her to the Ball.
At the Burrow, Harry doesnât stare at her or clamor for her to kiss him, or get distracted and drop things because sheâs nearby. Thatâs why she likes him. Nearly everyone else in that house is awful to her. Itâs really not a surprise that sheâs a bit snotty back.
Yes. Fleur is hella underappreciated, and I have Feelings about it.
It baffles and infuriates me that Hogwarts students donât take Latin or Greek. Accio? Literally âI summon.â Lumos? Fucking âlight.â Expelliarmus? Expel weapon!! Ooooh I wonder what Levicorpus doesâ you Dumb Ass Bastard. You ILLITERATE. Itâs called Levicorpus, it lifts someoneâs body, it LEVIES your goddamn CORPUS-
Hermione ghost wrote this
Weâre Ready: a post for #kidlitwomen
I was presenting an assembly for kids grades 3-8 while on book tour for the third PRINCESS ACADEMY book.
Me: âSo many teachers have told me the same thing. They say, âWhen I told my students we were reading a book called PRINCESS ACADEMY, the girls saidâââ
I gesture to the kids and wait. They anticipate what Iâm expecting, and in unison, the girls scream, âYAY!â
Me: â'And the boys saidââ
I gesture and wait. The boys know just what to do. They always do, no matter their age or the state they live in.
In unison, the boys shout, âBOOOOO!â
Me: âAnd then the teachers tell me that after reading the book, the boys like it as much or sometimes even more than the girls do.â
Audible gasp. They werenât expecting that.
Me: âSo itâs not the story itself boys donât like, itâs what?â The kids shout, âThe name! The title!â
Me: âAnd why donât they like the title?â
As usual, kids call out, âPrincess!â
But this time, a smallish 3rd grade boy on the first row, who I find out later is named Logan, shouts at me, âBecause itâs GIRLY!â
The way Logan said âgirly"âŠso much hatred from someone so small. So much distain. This is my 200-300th assembly, Iâve asked these same questions dozens of times with the same answers, but the way he says âgirlyâ literally makes me take a step back. I am briefly speechless, chilled by his hostility.
Then I pull it together and continue as I usually do.
âBoys, I have to ask you a question. Why are you so afraid of princesses? Did a princess steal your dog? Did a princess kidnap your parents? Does a princess live under your bed and sneak out at night to try to suck your eyeballs out of your skull?â
The kids laugh and shout âNo!â and laugh some more. We talk about how girls get to read any book they want but some people try to tell boys that they can only read half the books. I say that this isnât fair. I can see that theyâre thinking about it in their own way.
But little Logan is skeptical. Heâs sure he knows why boys wonât read a book about a princess. Because a princess is a girlâa girl to the extreme. And girls are bad. Shameful. A boy should be embarrassed to read a book about a girl. To care about a girl. To empathize with a girl.
Where did Logan learn that? What does believing that do to him? And how will that belief affect all the girls and women he will deal with for the rest of his life?
At the end of my presentation, I read aloud the first few chapters of THE PRINCESS IN BLACK. After, Logan was the only boy who stayed behind while I signed books. He didnât have a book for me to sign, he had a question, but he didnât want to ask me in front of others. He waited till everyone but a couple of adults had left. Then, trembling with nervousness, he whispered in my ear, âDo you have a copy of that black princess book?â
He wanted to know what happened next in her story. But he was ashamed to want to know.
Who did this to him? How will this affect how he feels about himself? How will this affect how he treats fellow humans his entire life?
We already know that misogyny is toxic and damaging to women and girls, but often we assume it doesnât harm boys or men a lick. We think weâre asking them to go against their best interest in the name of fairness or love. But that hatred, that animosity, that fear in little Logan, that isnât in his best interest. The oppressor is always damaged by believing and treating others as less than fully human. Always. Nobody wins. Everybody loses.Â
We humans have a peculiar tendency to assume either/or scenarios despite all logic. Obviously itâs NOT âeither men matter OR women do.â Itâs NOT âwe can give boys books about boys OR books about girls.â Itâs NOT âmen are important to this industry OR women are.âÂ
Itâs not either/or. Itâs AND.
We can celebrate boys AND girls. We can read about boys AND girls. We can listen to women AND men. We can honor and respect women AND men. And And And. I know this seems obvious and simplistic, but how often have you assumed that a boy reader would only read a book about boys? I have. Have you preselected books for a boy and only offered him books about boys? Iâve done that in the past. And if not, Iâve caught myself and others kind of apologizing about it. âI think youâll enjoy this book EVEN THOUGH itâs about a girl!â They hear that even though. They know what we mean. And they absorb it as truth.
I met little Logan at the same assembly where I noticed that all the 7th and 8th graders were girls. Later, a teacher told me that the administration only invited the middle school girls to my assembly. Because Iâm a woman. I asked, and when theyâd had a male author, all the kids were invited. Again reinforcing the falsehood that what men say is universally important but what women say only applies to girls.
One 8th grade boy was a big fan of one of my books and had wanted to come, so the teacher had gotten special permission for him to attend, but by then he was too embarrassed. Ashamed to want to hear a woman speak. Ashamed to care about the thoughts of a girl.
A few days later, I tweeted about how the school didnât invite the middle school boys. And to my surprise, twitter responded. Twitter was outraged. I was blown away. Iâve been talking about these issues for over a decade, and to be honest, after a while you feel like no one cares.Â
But for whatever reason, this time people were ready. I wrote a post explaining what happened, and tens of thousands of people read it. National media outlets interviewed me. People who hadnât thought about gendered reading before were talking, comparing notes, questioning what had seemed normal. Finally, finally, finally.
And thatâs the other thing that stood out to me about Loganâhe was so ready to change. Eager for it. So open that heâd started the hour expressing disgust at all things âgirlyâ and ended it by whispering an anxious hope to be a part of that story after all.Â
The girls are ready. Boy howdy, weâve been ready for a painful long time. But the boys, theyâre ready too. Are you?
Iâve spoken with many groups about gendered reading in the last few years. Here are some things that I hear:
A librarian, introducing me before my presentation: âGirls, youâre in for a real treat. Youâre going to love Shannon Haleâs books. Boys, I expect you to behave anyway.â
A book festival committee member: âLast week we met to choose a keynote speaker for next year. I suggested you, but another member said, âWhat about the boys?â so we chose a male author instead.â
A parent: âMy son read your book and he ACTUALLY liked it!â
A teacher: âI never noticed before, but for read aloud I tend to choose books about boys because I assume those are the only books the boys will like.â
A mom: âMy son asked me to read him The Princess in Black, and I said, âNo, thatâs for your sister,â without even thinking about it.â
A bookseller: âIâve stopped asking people if theyâre shopping for a boy or a girl and instead asking them what kind of story the child likes.â
Like the bookseller, when I do signings, I frequently ask each kid, âWhat kind of books do you like?â I hear what youâd expect: funny books, adventure stories, fantasy, graphic novels. Iâve never, ever, EVER had a kid say, âI only like books about boys.â Adults are the ones with the weird bias. Weâre the ones with the hangups, because we were raised to believe thinking that way is normal. And we pass it along to the kids in sometimes overt (âPut that back! Thatâs a girl book!â) but usually in subtle ways we barely notice ourselves.
But we are ready now. Weâre ready to notice and to analyze. Weâre ready to be thoughtful. Weâre ready for change. The girls are ready, the boys are ready, the non-binary kids are ready. The parents, librarians, booksellers, authors, readers are ready. Timeâs up. Letâs make a change.
Deconstructing Masculinity & Manhood with Michael Kimmel @ Dartmouth College
This is an important message on how privilege really works.
itâs good to remember that we shouldnât only define ourselves by our marginalized identities. for example I am cis, I am middle class, I am educated, I speak English, I am a documented citizenâremember all of those identities you possess that give you privilege.
Always check your privilege. Everyone has one in some way
Theyâve kept the truth about Persephone a secret, burying it deep below Herculesâs murdered wife and all of Zeusâs affairs. Itâs dangerous, you see, a spark threatening to ignite a long dead flame. Power. She loved her power, the Queen of the Dead, to forever reign in the fires of hell. She wore her crown like a beacon; a beautiful queen, plotting against her king. They never wanted you to know the hunger of Persephone, how she starved for something other than pomegranates. Control. The primal thirst that burns all womenâs throats, denied by eons of men. Listen closely to the voice from hell, sweetheart. âYou are a queen; donât wait for a king.â
Emily Palermo, Persephone (via starredsoul)
First you start knitting, then you try crochet (or the other way around) because that cool project requires it, then you see all that marvelous embroidery and you think why not? At a certain point you wonder, is it so hard to sew clothes? Maybe you could try, and you start thinking about that old sewing machine in the attics. Then you see a video of someone spinning wool and you feel your hands itching, but wool is so expensive, how much does keeping alpacas costs, then
I feel personally called out by this post
can you imagine being 26 years old and in marketing and you want to settle down with a rich stupid man whoâs crazy about you and you FIND a divorcee who hasnât talked to his ex in over a decade and has a very forgiving custody arrangement that would easily enable boarding school and is willing to MARRY you after a SIX TO EIGHT WEEK SUMMER ROMANCE with NO PRENUP and then his brat kid comes back from summer camp and it turns out his ESTRANGED OTHER TWIN DAUGHTER came back from camp and they hijack your entire life and put a lizard on you and then your hot old man ditches you for his hot mess of an ex WHO DESIGNED⊠THE CUSTOM WEDDING DRESS YOU HAD ALREADY PAID FOR. truly. a roller coaster summerâŠ. all that scheming WASTED
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I can never understand how Snape apologetics can stand up for him when he CANONICALLY does this shit.
I can maybe, maybe, understand those who havenât read the books standing up for him, because honestly the movies donât cover all the horrible stuff he does. But those who have read the books and still stick up for him baffle me.
I mean, you donât see anyone sticking up for the Dursleyâs or Umbridge, when they do the same stuff to Harry as Snape. How is Snape any different?
Isnât it great how women are conditioned from their earliest days to anticipate (heterosexual) dating and marriage, and then, once they become adults, belittled for their interest in romance-centered fiction?