[midnightmillie]

date someone who is interested in you. i don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. i mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. someone who wants to read every word you write. someone who wants to hear every note of your favourite song, or watch every scene of your favourite movie. someone who wants to find every scar on your body, and learn where they came from. someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. there is a difference between attraction and interest. find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.

[flowingliketheocean]

“You cannot make everyone think and feel as deeply as you do. This is your tragedy, because you understand them but they do not understand you.”

— Daniel Saint (via deeplifequotes)

[femmetornade-deactivated2017121]

i’m not jealous because i don’t trust my significant other i’m jealous because i don’t believe in myself and my worth and i’m convinced anyone could be better compared to me my jealousy isn’t violent or restrictive to them it’s sadness and self-doubt

[lohver]

HOW HE TREATS YOU IS HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. DONT TRY TO DECODE IT OR MAKE EXCUSES ITS SIMPLE. IF HE ACTS LIKE HE DOESNT CARE, HE DOESNT CARE.

[lohver]

today my prof said to my class “you don’t truly love someone until they’ve hurt you and you still think of them as the greatest person in the world. Love is the most violent act.” ok ok ok

[thedeeepquotes]

[poems-and-word]

“Do you know what happens when you hurt people? ….When you hurt people, they begin to love you less. That’s what careless words do.”

— Arundhati Roy, The God of Small Things (via books-n-quotes)

[depresseddisneyprincess]

shoutout to anyone who had an emotional abusive mother this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who had a verbally abusive mother this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who had a mother who didn’t accept them this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who had a manipulative mother this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who had a mother who always had to be the center of attention this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who had a bad childhood because of their mother this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who had a mother that was anything other than kind and loving and accepting this mother’s day

shoutout to anyone who has to remind themselves that they are amazing and more than whatever their mother said or did to them this mother’s day

[hplyrikz]

“Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care.”

— Unknown (via hplyrikz)

Clear your mind here

(via hplyrikz)

[that-gir1]

[naturaekos]

“Sure, I’m sad, but I’m not looking to soothe that sadness by replacing it with a new relationship. Women are allowed to be sad, and they’re allowed to be single, and they don’t need to hear that one day a man is going to make it all go away by telling her she is good enough again. She’s good enough as she is.”

— Charlotte Green (via naturaekos)

[just-shower-thoughts]

When you say ‘Forward’ or 'Back’, your lips move in those directions.

[onlya-fool-foryou-deactivated20]

some days it just hits your harder than usual

[elpapivegano]

Anxiety

Anxiety is weird. Comes in different ways. And it doesn’t always need something to trigger it. It can be nerves from having to present something. You start to tremble. Your mouth gets dry. When you finally talk, you can’t pronounce words and you stutter. But that’s anxiety in a basic form.

Imagine your out with your family. You’re at a restaurant eating and joking around. Then suddenly out of no where your trapped in a sealed glass box. And the oxygen is getting thinner and thinner. You start to panic you try to find a way out but the walls to the glass box are too tight around you. Your heart rate speeds up and your chest begins to feel heavy. All while the air just keeps getting thinner. All your family is looking at you through the glass box demanding you to calm down. As if it were that easy. You panic and you start to sweat you can feel as your blood is pumping through your veins. This can go on for hours and you have no way of stopping it. You’re trapped in the glass box and there’s no way out. That’s anxiety.

[wishing-for-deathx]

I hate the person I turn into when I fall for someone. I hate how I’m willing to to do anything and everything to keep that person in my life. I hate how I am careful with my words because I don’t want to hurt him even though the wounds from his poisonous words have not even begun to heal. The bad behavior I tolerate, the excuses I make for him, the crap I put up with. The uncountable chances I give him but somehow I can’t grant myself the same kindness. If I make a mistake? It’s only fair that he leaves me. I fucked it up. The constant overthinking, the relentless fear of being ignored or ghosted and all the self blame. It’s like I abandon me.

It’s exhausting when I don’t even have me in my corner.

[healingsuggestions]

at the end of the day it’s you. it’s you who has to make sure that you’re okay. it’s you who has to hold yourself. it’s you who has to decided to keep going. sure making some tea will make you feel okay but you really do have to make sure you’re okay. you have to keep holding on and keep trying, it’s hard out here, I know that. it’s you and you can do it. you can do whatever you want to do because you are strong and you’ve made it so far

[quotespile]

“Some days I woke up and got out of bed and brushed my teeth like any normal human being; some days I woke up and lay in bed and looked at the ceiling and wondered what the hell the point was of getting out of bed and brushing my teeth like any normal human being.”

— Ned Vizzini, It’s Kind of a Funny Story