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[gahdamnpunk]

This is graphic but VERY important. I’m MF TIED of pro lifers who cannot see further than the end of their nose

[dr7girl]

I’m just gonna leave this here.

[obeymeheadcanons]

Thank you….

[cynergy-laughter]

Louder for the Prolifers in the back.

[peepeeboyredemptionarc]

[a-kind-of-merry-war]

A guy on reddit has been talking about how he drove an hour to Webster to vote for Biden after being turned away from a local polling station!

[ID: "HOLY SHIT I drove an hour from Boston to Webster last night to vote after being turned away from my Boston polling station.

If I had stayed at home they would have tied 😂"]

Source

[mysharona1987]

[la-laborista-republiko]

Straight women should unionize

[witchaj]

What the actual FUCK

[thebestpersonherelovesbucky]

This right here is a HUGE red fucking flag. If you’re in a relationship with someone who wants complete control over finances, especially to the point where you don’t even have access to money, this is an attempt to control and isolate. They will use ALL sorts of excuses. “I’m better with money” “You spend too much” “You’re too impulsive” etc. It has nothing to do with looking out for you or money. It’s straight up abuse and will likely lead to worse.

[whereintheworldiskamalakhan]

Also, women need to be independent in every way they can. And they also need to know what’s going on with their finances, even if their husband makes all the decisions or whatever bs goes on. Because (true story), one day that husband could die and you’ll find out that you’re in a crazy amount of debt that you never knew about because he didn’t tell you shit and that gets to be a lovely surprise after the funeral.

[dancinbutterfly]

Women should ABSOLUTELY be independent and you should ABSOLUTELY keep your banking separate.

HOWEVER!

If you are in that circumstance?

Grocery shopping and gas stations and big box stores are your BEST friend. I know we’re in a pandemic but put on an N-95 and go. Use your debit card every time and take out 20-40 dollars each time you shop for these sorts of things because that doesn’t read as a withdrawal. It counts as part of the shopping. Women have been doing this for GENERATIONS now. My mother did it when my father was financially abusing her and she taught me and now? I pas this on to you.

Take your 20-40 dollars a trip and put the cash somewhere he won’t look.

Where won’t he look? With a friend who he doesn’t want to know. In the yard he expects you to care for. In the laundry he won’t do. In the kids room where he doesn’t go because that is your job. In the dog food he expects you to refill.

Or.

In you can take that money and put it a fucking bank he doesn’t use. Under your name and your name ONLY. Because when you leave him - which on average will take 7 attempts because thats how many times it takes to leave an abuser - you will need all the money you can squirrel away.  Depending on how often a woman runs absolutely necessary errands and how much money a family makes, she can squirrel away 1K+ in a year this way which may not seem like much but it’s enough for a softer landing than ZERO especially if she’s not working.

Take care of yourself ladies.

[disaster-j]

Reblogging again because this^ is important

[princessshyed]

Another way to do this if your worried he will check reciepts or get suspicious: buy items he won’t keep track of (diapers, cleaning products, etc) and return them for cash.

[gowns]

^ this is actually an extremely good tip at the end here. my mom was in two financially abusive relationships; in the first one my dad had a shaky control over their finances and ruined her credit, paying off all his loans and letting all other bills go in the red. in the second one my stepdad had COMPLETE control over my mom’s finances, down to demanding receipts, searching her purse, and having the log-ins for all the bank accounts. the “cash back” option wouldn’t have worked for her, he would have seen it.

but buying things then secretly returning them? that is very, very clever.

my mom’s ultimate escape was only able to happen once my brother and i were old enough and out of the house. she went to live with her mom and filed for divorce and a restraining order. ultimately, she lost almost everything in the divorce, but she didn’t care – she would rather be free and lose all of her assets to my stepdad than have to continue dealing with him.

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[mrm64]

A rant video rant on exactly what the title says lol. Really though, watch to the end so I am clear. Studio Pierrot….I’m still mad. (  @freshtoxinn made Sakura <3 there are also artists here on tumblr that I asked for permission to use their work, enjoy~) https://youtu.be/Rx3PHrgc6VI

[mrm64]

OMG Y’ALL. I FOUND IKEMOTO’S HIDDEN DRAFT FOR BORUTO CHAPTER 51! YOU KNOW, WHERE ALL OF THE OLD GENERATION (INCLUDING NEJI SINCE HE’S ALIVE AND ALL) TEAM UP TO FIGHT ISSHIKI?? CRAZYYYY!

[ardri-na-bpiteog]

A lot of people are genuinely terrified about what will happen if Donald Trump wins reelection and it's really weird how some of y'all are acting like everyone begging you to vote for Biden is some privileged, rich, out of touch, neo-liberal when a lot of them are just vulnerable people who don't want to like...die in a brutal civil war or watch all their remaining rights get stripped away by an increasingly authoritarian Republican Party.

I do not know how to express to you how much worse it can get.

[bundibird]

NonAmerican perspective here, but like....... do some of you really not see how bad it already is? Look back at 2016 and picture what you thought Trump's America would look like, four years into the future.

Did the 2020 that you predicted back in 2016 look like 197 thousand Americans dead of a virus that your leader deliberately downplayed the severity of for months? Did it look like your entire eastern coast in flames, the air across half the country unbreathable, the skies a hazy orange from the smoke and the glow of the fires, and your president saying "climate change has nothing to do with this"? Did it look like over two thousand missing children, who were taken from their parents by "the authorities" and then lost by those same authorities? Two thousand children in the care of a government agency have gone missing, and has your bossman even commented on it, or has he just continued extolling the dangers of immigrants?

Did the 2020 you imagined look like months of civil unrest, because police murdered yet another black man, and instead of condemning the act, your leader said "the answer to this problem is worse police violence, and to beat the protestors into submission."

Like, fuck me. Do you not see how bad it already is? This is what's happened under Trump in four years, and some of you are really out there going "hm yeah but Biden has weak policies tho." Would Biden take a global pandemic seriously? I suspect he would. Would Biden be open to working to stop climate change? He's already said loads about what he'll do to combat climate change. Would Biden completely fail to address the fact that women are being forcibly sterilised in ICE and children are being assaulted and going missing? I would be really surprised if he did nothing about that. Would Biden react to public outrage over cops murdering a civilian by sending in the national guard to attack peaceful protesters, assault journalists, permanently blind innocent civilians, and pepperspray children in the face? I really doubt it.

But Trump has done all that shit; is still actively doing all that shit, right at this very fucking moment. And some of you won't vote for Biden because you're not really a fan of his????

"Oh, Biden's too moderate for me" BIDEN IS TOO MODERATE, SO YOULL GO WITH DONALD "THERES NO VIRUS," "ITS BECAUSE THEY DIDNT MANAGE THE FORESTS WELL ENOUGH," "IMMIGRANTS ARE CRIMINALS," "SEND IN THE TROOPS" TRUMP INSTEAD?? You wanna let that guy win by default, to get another four fucking years, when he's already done this much damage?? WHAT THE FUCK, GUYS

[joryoq]

“Sleep tight, darling.”

ghibli!ss [part 1/?]

[motherbychoice]

Care to debate abortion?

Nah

[reproductivejusticeandliberty]

Mood. -V

[kiwianaroha]

This reminds me of a party I went to last year. I was standing with some friends, chatting, and someone said something that indirectly implied that sexism exists. Some trivial recounting of the basic facts of daily life for most women. Something so mild, so uncontroversial, so mundane that I don’t even remember what it was. 

Suddenly, this man standing on the outskirts of our conversational circle piped up with “actually, I think men are more discriminated against than women these days.”

 All conversation died.

I turned to look at him and he had this smug, insufferable grin on his face, relishing this moment, expecting us to waste our time and energy refuting this ridiculous thing he had just said.

The Devil’s Advocate was among us.

And, in my mind, I saw the next 15+ minutes playing out. The parade of facts and statistics in a vain attempt to defend ourselves, our gender, and to prove that misogyny is real. The glib, snide denials from some shithead who is getting off on our pain and frustration. The Gish Gallop of bullshit that would take a whole evening to properly dismantle. It was depressing and overwhelming. I hated it. I had to kill it before it began.

So I looked him dead in the eye and I said “OK,“ shrugged, and just walked away. 

Nothing I have ever said to another human being has ever been so crushing. As I walked away, I watched the smug grin vanish and confusion and anxiety set in. The rest of the group turned their backs to him and carried on as if he had never spoken - as if he was invisible. He was still staring at me when I walked over to another friend and told her what he had said. I pointed him out for her and made direct eye contact with him while we both laughed.

tl;dr: Don’t feed the troll. Let it perish, cold and hungry, in the wasteland of your indifference. It is weak and you are strong. Live your best life.

[meshkol]

This is the most hilarious thing and the best advice I’ve ever read on this damned hellsite.

[notjustamumj]

As someone I respect very much has written on more than one occasion, you don’t have to engage in every argument you are invited to.

[paxamericana]

[biglawbear]

Hey, so here’s the entire 30 minute speech Biden gave instead of just 15 seconds.

The entire speech is eloquent and accessible. This isn’t a fake video. But this is the *one time* in that entire thirty minutes that he stumbled over his words.

Y'all ever done public speaking before? I have. I defy you to last five minutes without stumbling over your words, even with a teleprompter, much less last thirty minutes. And Biden is someone who has struggled with a stutter his whole life.

The point Biden is trying to make is that we are on track to have more American deaths in one year than in any other year since the 1918 pandemic.

So what is OP’s goal in posting this video? To take out the few seconds out of thirty minutes where Biden stumbled? To make you feel like Biden is an incapable, feeble old man?

Nah bro. Fuck OP. OP only wants to scare you for whatever reason by cherry picking. Don’t trust like that.

[ohshitthisbloghasothercolors]

ALSO! Joe Biden has had a stutter since he was a boy.

It’s ableist as fuck to focus on him getting tripped up on words like that, and the fact that I see so many supposed “leftists” doing this is disgusting.

It’s one thing to criticize him on his policies (and I mean his actual, current policies, because a lot of people on here seem to have done zero research on what those policies actually are,) or his character, and quite another to make fun of his disability.

[ohshitthisbloghasothercolors]

Actually, you know what? I’m not fucking done.

I have ADD and fibromyalgia. ADD alone makes talking sometimes difficult. Add to that the fact that one of the side effects for my fibromyalgia medication is difficulty talking, some days are rough speaking days for me, even if I’m reading aloud.

By making fun of this, you’re not only ableist and ageist, you’re a fucking asshole. And you’re sending a message to neuro atypical and disabled people that you don’t give a shit about them despite constantly proclaiming how Left and Woke you are.

Do fucking better.

[tostrive2seektofind]

All of this AND a reminder that foreign governments are spreading misinformation to try to influence this election, so please question everything and do your own damn research from reliable sources.

[sharpestasp-deactivated20241106]

Rule of thumb - if it is an excerpt, video or print either, I promise you it has been cut to be either VERY favorable or VERY unforgivable. This is the way of politics. Find the full, read/watch it, and then figure out who profits but the cut version.

[leviathan-supersystem]

boy oh boy sure am glad that during this crisis I get to experience Capitalist Plenty

and not Socialist Deprivation

[leviathan-supersystem]

rlly makes u think

[snottsniff]

hahahahahaha!!!!!!!! 50 years on and Vietnam is still beating America’s ass !!!!!!!!!!

[friendly-neighborhood-patriarch]

uh huh

[undeadwill]

You know how china lies?

Vietnam does the same shit.

[knifefightscene]

I live in vietnam and the number is actually that low lmao vietnam has closed down schools and universities and started online learning since feb. they have praticed social distancing and lock down for 20 days now. The government literally spent billions to put tourists in quarantine for free to health check them everyday for fourteen days to make sure community spread doesn’t happen. They’re willing to risk the economy as long as the people are safe. Like you do know vietnamese people have access to the internet right???

[freemonker]

Population differences you people, America has significantly more people total

[leviathan-supersystem]

wow you’re such a genius, if only there were statistics for the number of cases per million people so we could scale it to population size, such as here:

can any mathematicians tell us whether 3 or 3,379 is the larger number? can any number wizards help us out on that one

[heir-of-the-founders]

The lengths that people go to to try and force the idea that the us is great are just astounding really

[reesewestonarchive-deactivated2]

No author is entitled to comments, to interaction, to reblogs or likes or reviews or anything, but in a community where you’re essentially a bunch of indie writers, that’s the lifeblood that keeps people *posting*. Writing doesn’t necessarily stop, but when someone feels like no one gives a shit whether you’re sharing or not, you quit sharing.

[hellenhighwater]

In the simplest possible terms: creators aren’t entitled to your support, but you’re also not at all entitled to their creations.

If you want content, support content creators.

[lornagonigall]

some post: THE FOLLOWING USER IS A PEDOPHILE

me: ah what undesirable™ ship is it today

[kascaban]

THIS!!! THIS IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!! THIS IS WHY THIS PETTY PEDOPHILIA POINTING GAME IS SUCH A FUCKING ISSUE AND PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS TRENDS OUT THERE.

THERE ARE REAL ACTUAL PREDATORS ON THE INTERNET AND ON TUMBLR TOO IM SURE. BUT IS ANYONE GONNA TAKE A PEDOPHILE WARNING SERIOUSLY NOW??? ON TUMBLR.DOT.HELL WHERE ANY AND EVERYONE WHO YOU DISAGREE WITH IS “PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE!” NO!! NO THEY ARE NOT.

HONESTLY ALL THIS FUCKING BULLSHIT ABOUT TRYING TO FIGHT PEDOPHILES AND KEEP KIDS SAFE IN FANDOM SPACES GOING TO THE ABSURD LEVELS THAT IT HAS, PROBABLY HAS THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT.

YOU ARE GIVING ACTUAL PREDATORS A PLACE TO HIDE. IN BETWEEN ALL THE ABSURDITY AND SHIP BULLSHIT.

YOU’RE GIVING PEDOPHILIA WARNINGS AN EYEROLL AND AN “ugh what is it now” RESPONSE.

IM MAD. IM MAD THAT PEOPLE WHO CLAIM THEY’RE TRYING TO KEEP OTHERS SAFE WOULD THROW A WORD LIKE THAT AROUND SO CARELESSLY,TO THE EXTEND THAT PEOPLE HAVE BECOME DOWNRIGHT DESENSITIEZED TO IT.

BEING ACUSED OF PEDOFILIA ON TUMBLR ISNT EVEN SERIOUS. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONE ON A HEADCANON AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE. YOU SHIP SOMEONES NOTP YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPILE. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONES OPINION AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE.

AND DO YOU KNOW WHO, THIS BENEFITS MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE???? THAT NO ONE TAKES AN ACCUSATION LIKE THAT SERIOUSLY??????

ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES. ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES WHO NOW HAVE A MILLION AND ONE EXCUSES TO GIVE OTHERS IF THEY’RE CALLED OUT AND DISCOVERED.

THE WHOLE PEDOPHILIA RAGE ON THIS SITE IS INFURIATING AS IT IS. ITS A DISGUSTING THING TO BE CALLED WITHOUT ANY GROUNDS.  BUT WORST OF ALL ITS DOWN RIGHT FUCKING DANGEROUS.

IF YOU’VE EVER PARTICIPATED IN THIS PEDOPHILIA SMEAR CAMPAIN. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA WITHOUT HAVING EVIDENCE OF THEM TRYING TO HURT A CHILD, OR ADVOCATING PEDOHILIC BEHAVIOR. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA OVER SOME PETTY FANDOM DISAGREEMENT BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD SURELY GIVE YOU THE UPPER HAND. IF YOU WERE ONE OF THE PEOPLE WHO HELPED TURN “PEDOPHILIA” INTO A BUZZWORD.

YOU HAVENT MADE FANDOM A SAFE SPACE. YOU’VE MADE FANDOM INTO A SPACE WHERE ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE ARE DRIVEN OFF BASED ON HOW POPULAR THE BLOG THAT MADE THE CLAIM WAS, AND HOW MANY NOTES THE CALLOUT POST GOT.

MEANWHILE YOU’VE GIVEN ACTUAL PREDATORS THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.

I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT.

TL;D-FUCKING-R DO NOT CALL PEOPLE FUCKING PEDOPHILES UNLESS YOU HAVE EVIDENCE WITH THEM TRYING TO HARM ACTUAL KIDS. PLEASE.

NOT JUST BECAUSE ITS A SHITTY FUCKING THING TO DO, BUT BECAUSE ITS FUCKING DANGEROUS.

[roach-works]

fun fact: me and all my friends who were themselves victims of CSA screamed our heads off about this exact thing when it started happening in 2015 

other fun fact: we were called pedophiles for it 

[thefloatingstone]

[lazylazyhowl]

Blank Period Kitty!sasusaku

ft. Sasuke taking care of his pregnant waifu

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[mrm64]

Pre-Marriage shenanigans