It's really fucking annoying shipping an mlm ship and everyone in the goddamn universe is like "the bigger stronger one is a dominant cis man who tops and the smaller weaker one is a submissive trans man who bottoms :)"
Like, you as an individual can headcanon whoever you want as a trans man and write whatever the hell you want, I'm not gonna stop you. But it's frustrating to see such a pattern of fandom spaces constantly viewing trans men as small weak submissive bottoms. It says something about the way yall view real life trans men and that makes me really fucking uncomfortable.
#why does a gay relationship have to have a āmanā and a āwomanā?#why is the āwomanā such a feminine stereotype??#why is a trans man the āwomanā???#it's like people can't see a relationship that doesn't hinge on traditional gender roles- queer or not
@crownsspades you summed it up perfectly
