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Zoom in on her face in the third gif. She means this. You are completely irreplaceable.

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This went deep man. Look at her face. I would love to know where this came from, what she was talking about. And it’s true. So true. Completely irreplaceable. You are you and there is no better you

[ineffable-uncertainty]

Reblogging because I needed to see this message tonight, and something tells me someone else does too.

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Reblogging as I think every one of my followers are special and impossible to replace.

Remember that.

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Note to my ex.

Today my professor told me every cell in our entire body is destroyed and replaced every seven years. How comforting it is to know that one day I will have a body that you will have never touched.

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This just made me feel so warm.

[iamfrenchfrie]

thank you.

[bronze-for-birdy]

Important especially for victims of abuse, remember your body is yours and it heals in more ways than you realize.

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^^^^^

[bisexualandcaffeinated]

I reblog this every time I see it because every time, I’m a little more me and a little less you.

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well I found my high school rapist on okcupid

which allows me to out this fucker

this man is named Ian Dickinson. he lives in Vancouver WA and he is 24 years old. when I was 16 and he was 19, he and an accomplice (who I will not out for personal reasons) assaulted me in his bed while I cried and begged them to stop. when I told him afterwards that what he had done wasn’t ok, he told me I shouldn’t have worn the skirt I had on and I deserved it, and then he laughed. we were both sober.

he’s studying Engineering at Clark Community College in Vancouver. stay away from him.

[wtfokcreepy]

Stay safe, ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[classic-ash]

I live on the other side of the continent, but I’m still reblogging this because this man is a straight up cunt and deserves to be signal boosted.

I hope you never have sex again.

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Ian Dickinson

do not employ Ian Dickinson he is a rapist

use his name as many times as possible so this post shows up when you google him

So when his employer googles him they will see

Ian Dickinson is a rapist

Ian Dickinson rapes women

Ian Dickinson is a criminal

Ian Dickinson should have an arrest warrant

Ian Dickinson should not have a job

Ian Dickinson is in Vancouver WA

[legoswrld]

This post comes up when you google him Thank god

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Reblog if all you did this year was become more gay.

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Tweet of our fucking lifetime

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The Best Dog Tweets of 2016 (see 30 more)

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Previously: The Best Cat Tweets of 2016

[sexapro20mg]

It’s ok if

your romantic and/or sexual orientations evolve over your lifetime, pass it on.

[gaysandcats]

Sometimes it feels as if people are way too oblivious to the fact that lgbtq people exist in the same universe as them. We could literally be having a hot make-out session in front of people and they will still be like “friendship! :)”

[raspberriesonharrystummy]

Reblog if its ok to message you during this holiday season incase Im feeling lonely or out of place during family events because no one should be alone on Christmas

[kamonra]

This is the money pentacle. Reblog and unexpected money will come to you!

[darkcocosb-blog]

Shiiiiit. I reblogged, and I got $750 in two days for basically nothing! The first day this client/POT asked my agent to invite some girls and I to his end. We basically sipped wine and left with $500 each. He called me yesterday and we took a ride on my highway and gave me $250😂😂😂. Money blogs everyday any day!

[soflobrat]

Won’t chance it.

[br0wnsugarandspice]

Yo this shit works not even gonna front like I didn’t just get money

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Let me reblog this 2x then 😂

[nudiemuse]

Do the thing pls

[quickweaves]

im screaming it worked lmfao

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Not to be a “tumblr witch” but I’ll try anything twice

[dunsparce]

Guys…. I didn’t think it would work but wtf….I just checked my email…

I have an extra $600 I didn’t have before ;____;

[witchoncampus]

Fuck it, I need the money 😂

[chelseajadexo]

have you ever had a weird sort of crush on one of your friends where you cant actually tell if its a crush or not??? do i want to kiss you?? do i just really enjoy being your friend????? who knows? not me

[umbreeonic]

Hi there I’m here to unnecessarily add that this is called alterous attraction! It’s basically ambiguous attraction that’s indistinguishable between platonic and romantic and/or sexual attraction. It’s not uncommon to feel alterous attraction towards friends/squishes/crushes. This post describes it pretty well, actually. In my experience, it’s like… I’d be cool with dating this person but being their friend is just as good. Like I wouldn’t actively start a romantic relationship, but I wouldn’t turn one down. So yeah! Alterous attraction. It’s nice but confusing.

[fabilouslyconfused]

Finally someone who can explain this to me awh yes thank you

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Ohhh

[maudelebowski29]

In case you forgot Mike Pence is human garbage…

[pleatedjeans]

Three cheers for these guys [x]

[blackphoenixincorporated]

This is how to be a good ally.

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

Using their Bro-ness for good, not evil

[ladyflowdi]

So a tiny story: on Black Friday a few weeks ago I went to Gamestop to buy my brother a game for Christmas, and I noticed this older man was watching me like a hawk. He was loitering around the front of the store without really buying anything, and every time I glanced at him out of the corner of my eye he was looking at me. I went to look at the PS4 games, and he was looking at something right behind me. I checked out the Nintendo games, and he was looking at them too. I was the only woman in the store, by the way.

By the time I got in line to pay he was loitering at the front of the store again, and I just had that feeling that he was going to try and take the game I just bought, or steal my purse, as soon as I left the store. OR, he was going to try and follow me home. And I know I don’t have to explain that terror to any woman reading this, but all I could think was that I’m in this Gamestop alone with at least twenty other men and something is about to happen. I’m beginning to freak out, to the point where I’ve just pulled my pepper spray out of my purse and into the pocket of my coat. 

So there I am, next in line to pay, and there is this GIGANTIC dudebro right behind me, and I say gigantic as a 6 foot tall woman. He says, “Ma’am? Don’t be offended, but would it be alright if I walked you to your car?” and I was like “Are you serious?” and he was like “There are some weird guys in here right now. Have you noticed that guy watching you?” and then I showed the dudebro the pepper spray in my pocket and he was like “Right on. Would you still let me walk you to your car?” and I said yes.

So I paid, and waited while HE paid, and he walked me to my car. And just as I was getting in, the weird guy who’d been loitering came out of the store, saw me and my dudebro, and turned around and walked away in the opposite direction. 

In short: men who recognize that women are unsafe in dark alleys, college campuses, grocery stores, gas stations and retail stores and do something about it are the kind of quality men that this world needs more of.

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Please for the love of god yes.

[batwynn]

The ‘How are you?’ checklist post -Winter Holiday Edition

• Don’t worry, you look amazing. • Drinking at a holiday party? Don’t forget to have a glass of water between drinks. • You do not have to drink just because it’s a celebration/holiday. It’s okay to say ‘no’. 

• Have you taken your medication? Bring a small dose with you to a gathering, just in case. **Especially anti-anxiety medication. 

• Family gatherings are great and fun if you’re up for it, but they’re not actually mandatory. If you don’t feel like you can deal with a crowd/certain family members or friends, please don’t pressure yourself or allow them to pressure you into being there. Stay home, pet a cat/dog, eat microwaveable mac and cheese if that feels right. You can also set a time limit for yourself. Tell them you can only stay for an hour, or just stop in to say ‘hello’. You’re ‘allowed’ to look after yourself during the holidays. It’s okay. • Have you had enough sleep?

• Going out on a frozen lake/pond with friends? 1: Walk like a penguin. Spread your feet out, and bend your knees to lower your center of gravity. If you slip, try to protect your head. 2: ALWAYS make sure the ice is thick enough to walk on. When in doubt, only go in areas that have been checked by the authorities. 

• Do you need to be alone right now? Find a bathroom or somewhere you can step away from the gathering/party to take a breather. Literally, take a few slow breaths, and take some time to yourself.  • Be the photographer! Hide behind the camera, and get great shots of people snorting popcorn out their nose.

• If you feel like you’re disassociating, try counting your fingers or looking at your finger whorls. Remember that they are unique to you, that you are real. Affirmations [basically a verbal anchor] can also help you settle the anxiety that comes from being triggered. If none of your usual techniques work, don’t be afraid to ask a friend or family member to help you find a place that feel safe and comfortable for you. Also, please try not to be hard on yourself if you have to leave.

• If you are having a panic attack: [These may or may not work, depending on your personal disposition.]

1: Ground yourself to reality with something familiar like a keychain or even pictures of something on your phone. [Cats and dogs are good.] Also, do not trust everything your mind/body is telling you right now. Thoughts like, ‘i’m going to die’, ‘everyone is leaving me’, ‘everyone hates me’, are a part of the panic, try not to linger on them, because they will only make it worse.

2: Find a space that feels the safest for you, and stay there. If you can’t get out of a crowded room on your own and no one you know is around, try to find some space to move freely and call/text a friend to come help you out.

3: Take slow, deep breaths. After breathing in, hold it for a few seconds before breathing out.

4: Stimulate your mind with something simple, and not stressful. Tap your fingers, re-read nice messages from someone, play a game one your phone that doesn’t require any thought or is timed.

5: You are doing a really good job. You don’t have to feel embarrassed. You are not alone. You are strong. • Hang out at the kids table. You don’t have to be an adult. Plus, there are probably no politics at the kids table.

• Don’t feel guilty for feeling upset or overwhelmed, you’re allowed to be.

• If someone misgenders you, and you’re out, correct them if you feel comfortable enough to do so. If you’re not out, or you don’t feel safe enough, please remember that there are people who do know, and who support you. We’re with you today, we’ve got your back. 

• You’re family is not always right.

• You don’t have to be brave.

• Take another deep breath. • No one should treat you like less for any reason.  • If you’re having a hard time with your family mistreating you to due to your gender, sexuality, choice in partner, choice in jobs, race, foods, etc, please try to remember that your life, your needs, and your choices are valid. You do not exist for your family. You do not have to be thankful to them for your existence. [Anyone saying something of that nature is possibly emotionally manipulating you.] You are you, and that’s okay.

• If you’re wearing a binder, raise your arms and take several deep breaths. Cough to clear your lungs. ONLY WEAR YOUR BINDER FOR 8 HOURS AT A TIME.

• Don’t be afraid, you’re not alone. • It’s okay to want to be alone.

• If you’ve been sitting a while, stand up and stretch. If you’ve been standing for a while, take a break. Try to stretch your legs out horizontally if you can.

• Eat something sweet. (If you like it) Treat yo’ self!

• You’re awesome.

 • You do not have to eat that food item your friends/ family are pressuring you to eat unless you absolutely want to. Food allergies are not a joke. Eating disorders are not a joke. Being a vegetarian/vegan/ is not a bad thing. Eating meat is not a bad thing. People who tease you about it or pressure you into eating foods you can’t or won’t eat are being rude, and should be aware that they could make you really sick. People pressuring you into eating more or less food than you’re comfortable with are being rude and, again, could lead to you becoming very sick.  • 1 [phone]  National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [USA] International Suicide Hotlines

• If you know someone problematic/triggering/abusive is going to be at a gathering, please consider telling the host that you don’t want to or can’t deal with them (if you can) or don’t go to the gathering. You don’t deserve to suffer through any negative or harmful interactions for the sake of the holidays or your family.  •If you run into someone who is problematic/triggering/abusive, it’s okay to turn right around and avoid them for the rest of the event. It’s also okay to have a reaction. [See above for panic attacks.]  • If you have bad memories associated with a certain holiday/seasonal day, you don’t have to explain them to anyone. It’s okay to just say ‘no’, and leave it at that. You don’t owe anyone an explanation unless you want to tell them. • Remind yourself that it’s okay to change your personality from your private space to a family gathering/party. It’s okay to act/feel/seem like a different person around family. • Religion is important to some people, and not to others. It’s okay to feel strongly about it, or not at all.  • Forgot someone’s name? Don’t panic, it’s okay. You can try one of those tricks like asking them to put their number in your phone [hopefully they’ll type their name in too], or introducing them to your friend, [Hey, this is my friend Billy Bob, Billy Bob, meet–hold breath and hope they’re polite], you could ask them how to spell their name/ask what nickname they prefer, or ask someone else once they’ve moved away. Or, you could let them know that you’ve forgotten. It’s alright, you’re not a bad person for forgetting.  • One mistake does not make you a failure. [This also counts for multiple mistakes, if you’re counting.]  • Try using thick/wide tape, or a folded, damp paper towel when picking up broken ornament pieces or glass. • And please try to remember that not every tip/advice will be applicable to you or your situation. 

[hayleykiyoko]

Wanna know the truth behind Girls like Girls?

I have been working on finding my voice for years. As an artist, I always want everything I create to represent what my soul feels and sounds like – whether it’s a video concept or a lyric or melody.

Two years ago on a rare rainy day in Los Angeles, in a songwriting session with Owen Thomas and Lily May Young, I was venting my frustration about my music not connecting the way I wanted it to. Lily looked me in the eye and asked, “Tell me something nobody knows about you, something you are afraid to sing about?“ I immediately thought, well I like girls and that’s what I want to sing about, but even then I struggled to say it out loud. Finally, I told Lily that I always say “you” and “them" and never the pronoun “her" in all my songs because I was afraid it wouldn’t connect. We talked more about concepts and my experiences, and how I loved the idea of stealing another guy’s girl because that was always a fantasy of mine. Growing up, everything I did was always about girls. I took dance because of girls. I got involved in student council because of girls. Not that I ever expected any of them to like me back, but I just felt comforted being around them, even if I could never date them. So there we were. The song “Girls like Girls" was born.

I imagined a very emotional, heart-wrenching but real music video to go along with the song. When we shot the music video for “Girls like Girls,“ I felt like I was finally telling my story for the first time. The yearning feelings I had and also the feeling of being so alone. I think that’s why people connected with the music video. Not only because they too have experienced deeply liking someone, but also the sadness and longing that comes with it. You could be around so many people, and still have the feeling of being so alone and misunderstood. It’s that fear of rejection and uncertainty of whether the person will like you back that makes you question everything. I struggled with these feelings so much growing up. I’d fall in love with girls who would never give me the time of day, or if they would, they had no idea I had other intentions. I had my heart broken over and over again; I never felt good enough. My life was led by these crushes as far back as first grade, when I had a crush on my teacher. That was the first time I realized I liked girls. But the problem is you feel like you can’t share these true feelings with anyone for fear of outing yourself and facing judgement. So you struggle. And feel alone. Growing up, there were some [out] celebrities who were much older than I was and I wondered if I had to wait until then to be happy. I didn’t have role models who I could relate to at the time, where I could think, if they can do it, I can do it.

Most of the time, you become confident after years of struggling during your young adulthood. I want to encourage the youth to find that confidence now. Not later. For them to know their own self-worth at an earlier age. It’s been really cool at my concerts to see all of these young fans showing up alone, and then leaving with friends. The music and stories I create have built this judgement-free safe zone. But most of all, they have inspired me to be comfortable with myself, and to let them in. They unintentionally gave me a gift that I am forever grateful for. Most of my music isn’t necessarily about heartbreak or other people, but more so everyone’s personal journey and falling in love with yourself.

I think that’s why my fans and I relate to each other. My music reassures them that they aren’t alone – that their feelings are valid, that they are enough and they will find someone to love them back. I didn’t have that hope growing up, so I get emotional and inspired (or encouraged) every time I meet a fan who looks at me that way.

It’s hard sometimes, especially after this election, because I feel a responsibility to these girls. I know they are looking to me for guidance and comfort. It breaks my heart that fear is so present in our world right now. School is hard enough and it breaks my heart to see these kids under attack by hate crimes and bullying.

Hope. That’s my cause. I strive to inspire hope through human compassion and through music. Hope leads me through my lyrics, stories, and melodies. You must continue on, and know in your heart you are not alone, and have confidence that love will find its way back to you.

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