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[lesbianhwei]

20+ bodily. Polyfrag and traumagenic sys, nb transfem lesbian, she they for all

Shared acc for all headoomfs :)

Still remaking this okok but ill be using this acc for a lot of different stuff like flag/term coining, yume stuff, lesbian, sys, nerd etc posting

I dont have a dni other than minors, idiots, bigots + pro censorship ppl i block freely

 

[sapphilillies]

i have these two sweet friends in my life who have been all loving on me and kind and flirty with me and it's done so much to improve my ego and self worth i had no idea how much my past had damaged me i think ill lowkey always be grateful for these two

[lesbianhwei]

Smooches u

[thepervyfemme]

A lot of y’all have have such an implicit bias towards fat lesbians, specifically femmes

Yall will write these long horny posts and always make sure to use “small, tiny” and other descriptors, and don’t get me started on using “pink” to describe EVERYTHING!

Your implicit bias towards fat femmes, SPECIFICALLY fat black femmes is loud.

[dogpuppy]

[anti-willo-otis-driftwood]

BTW, DID isn't only about alters

If you look into it, the right definition would be "I'm took overwhelmed so I need someone to replace me" disorder

Also it can be:

A "This thing stresses me the hell out so I no longer will remember it even if I need to" disorder.

A "I don't know who I am most of the time" disorder

A "My trauma is a rotting wound that never heals" disorder

A "I never learned healthy ways to cope so I wake up with scars I don't remember having" disorder.

A "forget everything" disorder

A "Hightened risk of suicide/alcoholism/drug abuse" disorder

A "other parts of my self hate my guts and sabotage me (and themselves too in process)" disorder

A "I'm not sure whether those memories are real or a dream" disorder

A "I thought I was saying the truth but people say I'm lying" disorder

A "did I actually do it or just thought about it?" disorder

A "Being near some people or reading something even briefly mentioning/implying my trauma makes me spiral" disorder

A "I dissociate all the time" disorder

A "how the hell did I end up here?" disorder

A "the world around me doesn't feel real" disorder

A "I'm so depressed I can't get out of bed and haven't showered in weeks" disorder

And strangely enough, you can't have all that without repeated childhood trauma.

[t4tvampireisms]

Drugs are morally neutral. Doing or not doing drugs is not an indicator of how good a person is. There are addicts who’d give you the shirt off their back, and sober people who poison the homeless for fun.

[prettybutchvenus]

I see someone who is interested in me call themself a "loser lesbian" and instantly I'm turned off. Cause if you personally think you suck then I'm gonna take your word for it since you're the expert on you. Mind you, being a lesbian is inherently cool as fuck so to be a lesbian and a loser you really gotta be astronomically lame. Never met a loser lesbian who wasn't the type to say "you're too good for me" and then get angry if I agree with their assessment. I never even liked the self hating nerd x beautiful outgoing girl trope to begin with. It gives incel fantasy. I'm a bad bitch and I deserve a partner who values themself just as much as I value myself. I'm not gonna lower the bar to hell just so a self described loser can get in. Sorry, but I want better for myself!

[lesbianjhin]

Rip her thighs, scratch her skin, burn her, burn her with wax, burn her with steam, cigarettes, and leave the ashes on her skin. It's okay, she will love you all the same. A submissive woman who only seeks recognition, who wants to be tied up and shown off as a work of art.

[truth-and-deceit]

"narc abuse" doesn't exist, you're just ableist. and frankly, some of you are abusers yourselves.

causing a narc crash/collapse on purpose isn't the own you think it is. in fact, it's abusive.

isolating a narcissist isn't "saving others from abuse", it's ABUSIVE.

"manipulating a narcissist" isn't magically okay because they're a narcissist. it's abusive.

you are intentionally harming vulnerable people because they have a disorder, which is usually a result of being traumatized. you are being abusive.

[liliesgrowallovertheroom]

my favourite lesbians ever

[anactual-cat]

Art from mx_scratch_ on IG

[lukeofe]

Some of you may not want to hear this, but sometimes autism accommodation means giving that socially awkward person who said something that came off as passive aggressive or uncomfortable the benefit of the doubt. Not everyone is capable of reading social rules and cues effectively, I thought this was autism 101.

[marzipanandminutiae]

you can always ask for clarification or (NICELY) explain how it came off to you, remember!

I have an autistic coworker who used to say really uncomfortable things to museum guests while making small talk. like bringing up active, controversial revolutions in their countries if they were international, and such. finally, after a group of Hawaiian guys got visibly angry when he asked if they were "in the military or just rich" to be able to live there- meant to be a cost of living joke -I said, "hey, personally, I try not to talk politics with guests. sometimes it may upset them and we don't get paid enough to deal with that"

he looked thoughtful and said, "oh, I never considered it that way." turns out he was just a geopolitics nerd and didn't realize people might react emotionally to what he saw as a purely intellectual discussion

he hasn't done it since

[soltide]

love tumblr but sometimes wonder if lesbians here even see butches as people the way they're so commodified as sex objects and rarities you want to catch... truly i don't know how butches deal with the excess of expectations people have of them

[randydotcom-deactivated20250628]

okay but are you going to be understanding if your dom is a little nervous and not as suave as you'd expect their first few times when domming you? are you going to make them feel comfortable enough to slip into the role without making them feel stupid about it? are you going to accept that real sex is not always as rigid as it would seem in text posts or your fantasies and that it is okay if there are some unserious moments in between the intensity? do you understand that we are all just people having fun and we need to be gentle with each other when showing this vulnerability?

[pr3ttypunisherr]

^^^

[dykecinema]

Lesbianism includes trans women and if you don't believe that you can get fucked

[angelonxanax]

I see the evil in you and I don't mind

[softyymasc]

Wanna suck on her clit for my OWN pleasure