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weird and queer in various ways. nonbinary in a vague way. i like niche and odd and sometimes bad media and i cheat at single player video games. i really like horses .. like i really like horses .. really a lot . i play the flute. i use a wheelchair (para equestrian moment) and i have various things wrong with my brain and i think everyone needs to get weirder now. i fucking love bugs

blinkies (flashwarn)

aomitois

rb and tag your favorite song that's not in english, japanese or korean

#sinabi mo (tagalog) by ponkansoup is so good and eerie.... and also maybe basic bc its really popular but 99 luftballoons (german):)

basyacriptid

i wish gagobears were real and just killed everyone

quantumshade

everyone be quiet. marsha with her snoopy.

caramel-bites

turned these idiots into bugs of Pharloom (ft @lightlesskalopsia's Straw!) and let's just say a lot of them are nawttt making it out to the end of the game.

#if you go the right route they can ALL die! how whimsical #excpet maybe the teempet. theyre ambiguously

horsefigureoftheday

Horse figure of the day: Breyer #711510 Rotating Draft Surprise Wedgewood

#a good wedgewood (or copenhagen!) got me like OOOOAG OAGGGAA OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!#absolutely rally sad that i missed nabbing this surprise on the warehouse sale:( it was kind of an ass sale tho #they were like “we have breyerfest stuff all the way back to 2016!” and it was literally just 99% stuff from the Prost! breyerfest

minttttttttttttttttttttttttttt

sorry but this video is like a parasitic species to me

#is my username relevant?perhaps

cheaphalloweencostume

“everyone is mad at me and they just won’t tell me” —> “no one has said anything about being mad at me and i haven’t done anything to warrant being mad at so if someone is silently fuming about me and not saying anything that’s their problem and actually quite weird of them and i can effortlessly move on with my life”

cheaphalloweencostume

this took SUCH a huge deal of unlearning because, like so many of you, i came out of a home where being quietly in trouble WAS the default state, and i DID grow up not just with the assumption but borderline religious conviction that Everyone Is Mad At Me, I Am Bad, I Must Exist In A Constant State of Attempting to Pacify The Natural Rage I Inspire In Everyone. and no it actually turns out that my family are the freaks . and yours are too

cheaphalloweencostume

“this isn’t true because i DEFINITELY silently fume at people in the hopes they’ll figure out what they did and apologize” that’s not good. you shouldn’t do that

“this isn’t true because the ex-friendship that traumatized me ended explosively after they were mad at me and never told me why” that’s not good. they shouldn’t be doing that

“i don’t think this is true because my current friend group is constantly icing me out until i figure out what ive done to upset them and properly apologized without being told” hey thats not good. they should not be doing that

if the peacefulness of your relationship with someone (familial, romantic, friendly, anything) can be destroyed by effective communication/asking them for effective communication, you have got to get out of there. if you can’t get out of there, you’ve got to throw away any ideas about what that person thinks of you because they have their own shit to figure out before they can accurately read anyone else

#yes yes this. you dont have to tell someone every time youre mad or upset at them (lord knows sometimes i just want to be silently annoyed)#but you cant expect anything of them if you do that ok!!!!#you canat expect an apology and you cant lash out at them

decompose1

neovaginas can get wet naturally

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

YOU HAVE OPTIONS! demystify bottom surgery

#also for intersex people : getting bottom surgery and looking more perisex wont make u less intersex i promise i promise yourestill you!!

bebsi-cola

health isn't a virtue.

bebsi-cola

people still go around acting like they've done something good in order to be able bodied and healthy. that they worked for it, that it's due to their moral fibre or good upbringing or self control. they genuinely, on some level, believe that they are a good person solely based on the strength of their physical abilities. they will resist the fact that it is largely down to chance that they were able to maintain such health. whatever they think they've built from scratch, the building blocks were already handed to them. not because they're more worthy of it, just by luck. and they really think they're worth more based on that sheer luck. i've met disabled people worth a hundred of the healthiest ableds alive.

drethelin

Ignoring luck is dumb, but claiming that health is entirely based on sheer luck is an extremely corrosive worldview. There are dozens of choices you make every day, every week, every month that contribute to your overall health and functioning. It's good to be healthy and it's good to make healthy choices and you do in fact have a lot of control over whether you are able bodied.

bebsi-cola

sounds like someone is mad you don't have a lot of control over whether you are able bodied

smilekiditgetsbetter

Today starts suicide awareness week. Reblog to show your support! <3

once-ling

life is good, just look at what it has given us so far…

marshmallows

hugs

tumblr

this sexy thing

music

bromances

and on top of all of that, life gave us the Once-ler :D

Lets Celebrate life, in general, yea life is a bitch, but there are so many awesome things life has to offer. It just takes a little searching to go find out what they are :)

jerreeeeeee

not every mutual fits neatly into an archetypal medievalism but there are some mutuals that im like yeah addressing you as “my liege” would come strangely naturally

jerreeeeeee

what mutual is prev

my liege lord

my loyal knight

my wise wizard

my evil advisor

my brother in arms

my lady muse

my wild mermaid friend

my fellow alchemist

my dashing rapscallion

my monstrous foe