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Cobra Kai is "Representation Matters" for Abusers

After a hiatus (because life happens!), we’re back! 

Check out our new YouTube channel and our first video about how the Karate Kid franchise practices "representation matters" in the worst possible way.

More to come! We'll be analyzing more Cobra Kai, other shows and movies, culture, and representation. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and share our content!

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Elemental (2023) is wholesome 🧡

Ember Lumen isn't the only character that shines bright in this Pixar gem! Bernie Lumen is a sweet dad who chooses not to carry on a cycle and accepts Ember and her choices.

Bernie returning the Bà Ksô, giving Lumen his blessing.

Check out our new Medium article!

‘Elemental’ tackles the immigrant story and the burden of expectations

This Pixar gem is layered with nuance and explores immigration, racism, expectations, sacrifice, and identity.

(Don't worry. Wade isn't forgotten. Stay tuned for an article about him and Lumen. 💙)

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When I left fire Land... I gave my father the B Ks... the big bow. It is the highest form of respect. But my father... did not return the bow. Did not give me his blessing. He say, if we leave fire Land... we will lose who we are. They never got to see all of this. They didn't get to see that I never forgot we are fire. This is burden I still carry.

Elemental (2023) dir. Peter Sohn

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Beautiful example of a father breaking a cycle. Bernie Lumen is a lovable character. ❤️ great movie!

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Cobra Kai vs Redemption Stories

Johnny’s "redemption" story in Cobra Kai was a face plant by the writers, who seemed to focus more on proving that Johnny was right than on doing right by their story.

Check out our new Medium article. We look at how the other characters were used to give Johnny a sham "redemption" story.

True redemption stories are about atonement, not validation

Johnny’s “redemption” story in ‘Cobra Kai’ was a face plant by the writers, who seemed to focus more on proving that Johnny was right than…

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Cobra Kai vs Forgiveness

Forgiving an abuser isn’t necessary for healing, but society pressures victims to forgive their abusers, sometimes even treating it like a moral obligation.

Movies and shows like Cobra Kai reinforce this harmful expectation. Such stories normalize and add to the difficulties that real-life victims face in society when it comes to being validated and having their sides of the story matter over their abusers’.

Check out our new Medium article on this topic!

Victims Don’t Owe Their Abusers Forgiveness

Society pressures victims to forgive their abusers. Movies and shows like ‘Cobra Kai’ reinforce this harmful expectation.

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Emotional maturity is understanding that this troubled teen was troubled because all of the adults in his life—starting with Johnny—kept failing him and never changed. 

Accountability, making amends, and narrative losses belonged to Johnny’s character, but those were cruelly passed to Robby’s character. Sins of the father… are sins of the father, never the son’s. 

Many teens who have parents like Johnny watched this show. Society needs more compassion and empathy for teens who experience childhood trauma. They shouldn’t be held to the same or greater standards as adults who give them that trauma. 

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5 reasons Zuko has the best redemption story

His journey was bumpy and full of soul-searching, trials, and lessons

His trauma was explored throughout his journey but wasn't used to excuse him

He took accountability with the people he'd hurt

He made amends by directly helping the people he'd hurt

He chose to help stop the war his family waged, as his duty to the world

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Actually, a sadly typical one. No dysfunctional family is wholesome.

Why do society and Hollywood keep normalizing this sh*t?

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Cobra Kai vs Holding a Parent Accountable

When people who’ve experienced childhood trauma try to hold their parents accountable, it often gets twisted into “blame.” But accountability and blame aren’t the same—and that reframing usually just protects the parent from facing their responsibilities.

This happens in real life, but this is also what was portrayed in Cobra Kai when it came to Robby trying to hold Johnny accountable. Johnny was let off the hook with this reframing. 

To all the naysayers claiming, “It’s not real.” Stop dismissing a realistic portrayal as if it doesn’t matter. What was represented for Johnny and Robby’s relationship happens in real life, and childhood trauma victims/survivors like Robby deserve better representation in stories.

Check out our new Medium post dissecting the “resolution” of Robby trying to hold Johnny accountable!

Holding a Parent Accountable Is Not ‘Blame’

How Cobra Kai’s portrayal reinforces a harmful stereotype about childhood trauma survivors

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Cobra Kai vs Setting Boundaries

People are often discouraged from setting boundaries, even guilted about them. But, setting boundaries is important for mental and emotional health and well-being. 

Cobra Kai mishandled many topics, and setting boundaries is one of them. Instead of encouraging setting and respecting boundaries, the show encourages villainizing and tearing down boundaries.

Check out our new Medium article about the benefits of setting boundaries and examples from the show illustrating how this topic was mishandled.

Setting Boundaries Isn’t Selfish — It’s Self-Care

‘Cobra Kai’ sends the message that setting boundaries is wrong — but boundaries are essential for mental health and well-being

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Cobra Kai and Toxic Masculinity

The show Cobra Kai's fall from grace happened on many fronts. One front was its uninspired take on masculinity---promoting the same toxic dogmas that young males have been hearing for so long... and essentially failing them with these messages.

But the show didn't just do that. It also swept the legs of healthier forms of masculinity by tearing down the Miyagi-Do teachings and male characters to prop up the Cobra Kai teachings and its male characters.

In our new Medium article, we break down how the show treated the Cobra Kai male characters---Kreese, Johnny, and Miguel---versus the Miyagi-Do male characters---Mr. Miyagi, Daniel, and Robby.

We also explore the effects of restrictive gender norms for males---aka toxic masculinity---on mental health and trauma healing, and consider insights gained from how these topics were handled.

‘Cobra Kai’ Reinforces Stereotypes and Stigmas About Male Identity and Mental Health

How the Netflix series alters the lessons taught by the original Karate Kid movies

We wrote the article in honor of June being Men's Mental Health Awareness Month.

Follow us on Medium for more deep dives into shows and movies, and topics related to mental health and trauma.

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Abuse is abuse, no matter who does it or the intentions behind it

The show Cobra Kai in The Karate Kid franchise inadvertently embraces emotional immaturity, abuse, and unhealthy generational cycles