What is your story? Our story?
Lineage Performing Arts Center audiences recently experienced storytelling of different types, toward different goals, but ultimately the storytelling was about community and the ways we build it and sometimes break it down.
What happens when a leader doesn’t welcome an entire group of people? What happens when a parent doesn’t accept her child’s gender orientation? What if that child grows up to talk about his experience, with humor? What if a homeless man must pay his father’s health care, while a homeless woman finds hope on Skid Row? What ties bind, break, and rebuild us as individuals, family members, and cultural groups?
Such questions came to my mind after watching a series of “Stories that Move Us” at Lineage’s intimate theater in Old Pasadena. One of the more straightforward shows in the series, “Stories of Refugees,” features Street Symphony musicians plus composers Artur Avanesov and John Guth, Lineage dancers led by choreographer Hilary Thomas, and storytellers including refugees and performer Erica Gimpel. These stories can make a person stop and realize the privileges and responsibilities that we may have as Americans.Â
I was first struck by the program note, which quoted Cyrus Vance during the Cambodian refugee and Boat People crisis, in July 1979, when Vance was U.S. Secretary of State:
“We are a nation of refugees. Most of us can trace our presence here to the turmoil or oppression of another time and another place. Our nation has been immeasurably enriched by this continuing process. We will not turn our backs on our traditions. We must meet the commitments we have made to other nations and to those who are suffering. In doing so, we will also be renewing our commitments to our ideals.”Â
The refugees’ stories took my breath away, such as when Tsoler Antoonian described the gunfire that surrounded her before she made the decision to leave everyone she loved behind, in Syria. She described her own breathlessness; she could barely tell her parents about the sudden crossfire and how the soldiers had cleared a pathway for her to escape and return to her parents’ home. Her parents understood that it was time to send their child somewhere safe.Â
Now, Tsoler says, “I’m here, safe, and they’re in the war. I got married, and they couldn’t be here.” She is trying to bring her family here along with others who were not as fortunate as she is.Â
We learned from Occidental Professor Sophal Ear about his mother’s heroic quest to move her family (including Sophal and siblings) from Cambodia to Vietnam to France to the United States. The family’s journey as refugees began in 1975 and ended in 1985. He still has the PanAm ticket that landed him in this land of opportunity, where he, his siblings, and his widowed mother went right to work in designer-clothing sweat shops and lived in a shack in Oakland, California.Â
Sophal is grateful for his mother’s artful, relentless, and successful efforts to save the family, and he follows the saying, “To whom much is given, much is expected”; he teaches at Occidental College and serves on international development teams, councils, foundations, and Refugees International in order to save people, like his mother saved him.Â
These and other stories segued into the peaceful sounds of Street Symphony and the sweeping lifts of dancers, allowing today’s stress to subside, letting us breathe easily again, filling us with hope that others will enjoy futures like ours. The whole storytelling process seemed to allow the refugee storytellers to breathe more easily, as well, and to renew their hope for brighter futures for people who are not so privileged.Â
However, they reminded us that hope is not the only thing that is needed for change. “Tell others our stories,” consider our cause, they asked. The program notes listed Refugeesinternational.org, RefugeeRights.org (the International Refugee Assistance Project), and Rescue.org (the International Rescue Committee) as sites to check out to begin to help the “65 million people displaced by war, conflict, and persecution,” and it notes that tens of millions more are displaced by climate events.
The seed for “Stories of Refugees” was planted when Hilary Thomas’s high-school student Shant Armenian chose to focus his Community Impact Project on Syrian Armenian refugees. Hilary is artistic director of Lineage when she’s not teaching high school. Watch out, because, what catches Hilary’s attention often becomes a dance.Â
Can stories, sounds, and sights move us to action, as they move Hilary, and as they moved Jimmy Carter when he came face-to-face with Cambodian refugees in front of the White House in 1979? As Sophal Ear told us in his story, one day in 1979, with Joan Baez singing and refugees telling their stories in front of the White House gates, Carter changed his stance toward the Cambodian Boat People, walked up to the gate, and told the storytellers:Â
“I cannot let your people die.”Â
What stances are being held and reconsidered today? What story will we write?