sometimesโฆโฆ when you keep testing people to see if they will leaveโฆ. they will leaveโฆโฆ sometimesโฆ people will leave youโฆ because youโre a bad personโฆ. sometimes people will leave for no reasonโฆ. sometimes people will leave because you expect too much from themโฆ sometimes you might need to acknowledgeโฆ that friends arenโt your therapistโฆ and did not go through 12 years of training to handle your meltdownsโฆ and you need to find a way to reasonably communicate when youโre feeling unwell if you really like this person, trust this person, and want them to stay around youโฆ having a fear of abandonment cannot be something you tell them to lock them into your orbit.. you need to take responsibility for the things you say & how you treat peopleโฆ its that simple


















